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Archived questions from: October, 2007 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I am cheating on my fiancee!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 11 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - I'm having a big issue in my life. I got engaged at the beginning of 2006 with my fiancée who's been with me since 2004. I'm 28 and she is 23. Initially in 2006 when we got engaged things went great..it was refreshing for our relationship…it ...

He said he would get back in touch soon. How soon is soon?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 246 days ago

31 October 2007 (F) - Hey There! I am in a really confused state of mind and I feel really lost. Ok let me get straight into the story here. My ex and I broke up a couple of months ago...when we were together as a coplue everything was fine, everything seemed perfect, ...

What do I day to her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 248 days ago

31 October 2007 (M) - hi i been in a realtionship with my girlfreind for over 2 years and i feel like the passion is gone and we dont talk and when we talk i really dont no wat to say to her i need help...

I worry about everything and even compare him to my ex, I don't want to be like this - help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 248 days ago

30 October 2007 (F) - I feel so confused and messed up at the moment. I have been in a relationship with my bf for a month now and i dont feel happy in it. He treats me right, well I think he does anyway and he doesnt do anything overly wrong. Compare him to my ex bf who ...

Is it worth the gamble?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 250 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - i have been loosing interest in my boyfriend for a long time. ive spoken to him about it and tried to do different things but nothing happens. he's letting his appearance go and i no longer find him attractive at all. he hasnt done anything with his ...

I accepted him back provided that he stopped using drogs. Now we separated again, should I accept the job offer in another city? When I was pregnant, his friends convinved him it wasn't his child...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I started dating my sons father about 4 yrs ago. In the past 4 years it has been really difficult, because alot changed between us. One day I decided that he was the one that I wanted to have my 1st child with, and he was willing to try after I told ...

I can't get divorced because of religious/ culteral reasons.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

28 October 2007 (F) - I have been married for 21 years. I have 2 children, both teenagers.My husband is a workaholic, we rarely spend time with each other. Since the birth of our last child in 1993 our sex life has dwindle to almost nothing. If we do have sex, i usually ...

Why does my boyfriend keeps allowing his mother to interfere to the point she does things to destroy us saying it's in his best interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

27 October 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together 3 years and he has allowed his mother to interfer to the point we haven't been able to get married and we don't live together any more. She does things to destroy us and tells him it's all in his best interest. ...

I'm not convinced he really loves me... Should I stay with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 252 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my partner for 5 years i'm 33, he's 40 and got engaged last christmas. We have had a very happy loving relationship in this time apart from one incident on his part with another woman about 3 years ago. I forgave him and we moved on ...

Does he think more of his playstation than of me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 239 days ago

26 October 2007 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for four months and i thought everything was going great. At the moment he is currently temping for work so could be let go at any time. I dont feel like we're in a proper relationship. He's told me he loves me and woul...

He's treating me bad, and I don't know what to do.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 238 days ago

25 October 2007 (F) - he was my fiance and my all life.i live in this world only for him i cant do anything cant eat or drink or get out until he called me. our love story spend 5 years and he loved me so much and was struggle for me with his family until he came to my ...

I'm trying to make the right choice for our daughter.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 255 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - iv been with my boyfriend for 2 years at start of this month (oct). we have been living together the whole time an have a beautiful little gil who is 14 months now. he wants to move to another town 15 miles away (were he is origionally from) but im ...

I'm having trouble forgetting about my first love.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I was going around with a guy in college for around 6 years. But when the time of marriage came he said he is not prepared for marriage yet and even he cant talk to his parents regarding that. I continously pushed him for for 1.5 years and then as ...

She's messing with my heart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 254 days ago

23 October 2007 (M) - Hey, Me and my girlfriend had to have a little 1 week break from eachother while she went on holiday to Turkey for a week with her family... Fair enough, we said our goodbyes, said we love eachother etc... I missed her, but she said she'd be ba...

Faded love or just changing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - the guy i was dating used to call all the time and we'd have great conversations. in the beginning he was the one actually calling me the most and i didn't realize how dependent i was on his calls and our talks until he started to do it less and ...

I just got with this guy and I find that I don't really like him as much as I first felt.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

23 October 2007 (F) - I just got with this guy and I find that I don't really like him as much as I first felt. You would think you knew someone, but once you see their true colours, you just don't know who they are anymore. Anyway, I don't know what to do. I want t...

Lot's to say

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - I'm 19 and I have been with my fiance 3 years. He lived in Lincoln and moved here about 3 and half years ago. When i first met him he was into drugs and drinking every night. I dispise drugs, but i gave it ago. We became close and he stopped doing ...

My life is in turmoil, I have found that my fiance is a liar and potential cheat - Chat rooms, rude pictures, womens numbers. How can I ever trust him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 255 days ago

22 October 2007 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together now for 5 years, we met online and lived 135 miles apart for the first year, i trusted him completely but when we moved in together i started noticing things weren't right, he had loads of rude pictures on his pc ...

I want to put things right - what can I do to make her feel special?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 256 days ago

22 October 2007 (M) - how can i suprise my girlfriend? we have been a bit rocky at the moment and i want to put it behind us and move forward...

For the past month he started to freak out about being in such a long term and with the same person forever. Now he's given the relation a chance, but I'm afraid of losing it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

21 October 2007 (F) - i am losing my boyfriend and i dont know how to stop it. we have been together a long time and we really do love each other, we have also become each others best friends. the problem is we have both become really reliant on each other, our worlds ...

I feel he should be more committed and that he treats me poorly but my shouting and crying don't seem to be working. How do I spend more time with him without feeling I'm forcing him to?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

19 October 2007 (F) - Hi. I've been seeing a guy on and off for the last nine years ... a long old time. We got together when we were still at school, I'm 25 now. After an 8 month break we got back together in June 07. In the past we have both hurt each other - we ...

He argues with me, just because. Will our counselling be a waste of time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - So I'm with a 32 yr old and I'm 26...when we met we got along sooo well. Then we moved in and found out he gets bothered by the toilet tissue being downside or if something is laying there for more than 20 min, etc. He has a really bad temper and ...

He likes me but does not love me, should I wait or let him go?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 54 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - i have been going out with this guy whom i love so much,but after some time he told me that he wanted me to give him space for two months as he has some problems.during the talking we had some arguement and he started saying that he likes me but ...

Feeling like Ozzie and Harriet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

18 October 2007 (F) - Been together with my hubby 5 years but were more like brother and sister, never had brill sex life but now non existent anyone got any idea were to go from here ?????...

He's stressed and I feel neglected

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 257 days ago

17 October 2007 (F) - I could really use some advice. I have been seeing a really top guy for 8months now. Everything had been going great. At the beginning it was me who had all the reservations but now im so confused and it hurts so much. We have very similar interests ...

My fiance travels abroad a lot and I don't feel much prioritised as I should be!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

16 October 2007 (F) - Someone help me to understand how I can cope with my situation. Im 24, and my fiance is same age as me. He travels a lot abroad with work, and this bugs me a hell of a lot. He isnt really present much in the relationship as what he used to be. ...

We started to treat each other just as friends for 4 yrs. I think my wife's staying for the sake of our daughter. Can it better? Should I leave?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 260 days ago

16 October 2007 (M) - Hi, I've been with my partner for 15 years and married for 5 of those,she says she made a mistake marrying me and only loves me as a friend,we haven't slept together since our daugther was concieved 4 half years ago,s...

I told my bf we should go out on dates rather than just go out! Did it sound stupid? I'm afraid of the routine...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 262 days ago

16 October 2007 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend since I was 16 and I am now 20, and he is my first serious boyfriend. I love him loads but sometimes I just feel like we do the same things, and I was joking and saying I have never been on a date because we starting ...

She said we should be friends but neither of us is making the effort.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

15 October 2007 (M) - Me and my girlfriend broke up 2 months ago. We were together for 3 years, bought a home together, talked about marrage and children. Then one day says she fell out of love. I did the no contact and it worked she was calling all the time. Now she ...

I began pretending to be him and reply in his stead. I think he intended for more but had second thoughts. Leave him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

15 October 2007 (F) - I recently found a number in my boyfriends phone which turned out to be a womans number. Instead of confronting him i began pretending to be him and she was replying to the messages with kisses and agreeing to meet up, she even said she knew about ...

I am cheating on my guy and not sure what to do!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

15 October 2007 (F) - I'm a 19 year old young mum with a daughter whos nearly 2, ive been with her dad for around 3 years now. We have had our ups and downs which consist of both of us being unfaithful and him being violent etc. It has got to the point where i have ...

He refuses to get rid of the girls' phone numbers because he said if we break up he wants to be able to talk to them - and he puts his friends before our daughter and I.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

15 October 2007 (F) - Hey I am eighteen years old and I have a one month old baby with my boyfriend. We had broken up but now are back together and he had got a bunch of girls phone number, he talks to them late and night and is constantly texting them. I told him i am ...

I'm a hypochondriac and my man can't deal with me.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

14 October 2007 (M) - I'm a hypochondriac, for people who don't know what hypochondria is it's a mental illnes that you constantly need a doctors opinion on your health, also you go in to panic/anxiety attacks because your so frightend of a serious illness you think you ...

Prince Charming or Mr Reliability?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

14 October 2007 (F) - Confused! I have been in a loving relationship with a man aged 40 for approximately 6 months, he adores both me and my disabled son. However he just doesnt make my stomach turn over when he walks in the room. He also has a problem with cannabis us...

What's up with my ex? Sheee's baaack!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 263 days ago

13 October 2007 (M) - What does it mean when my ex girlfriend asks my friend for my phone number?...We talked and everything was cool. We talked like nothing even happened, it felt natural. She says she wants to hang out..blah blah blah. hasnt seen me in a long time. its ...

When will I be ready for a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

13 October 2007 (M) - when do i know im ready to start another relationship when my first true love just broke up with me i am shattered over it. in a million peices. i feel like love will never be the same....

Should she move out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

12 October 2007 (M) - i have been living with my girlfriend for three years. We moved in from pretty much day one. We were both students sharing acommodation. We are now renting our own place. Im 24 and she's 21, i love her to piece's. she told me recentley that she...

Why the sudden change of heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

12 October 2007 (M) - I am 19 and I've been with my girlfriend for about 5 months (she is 18). I have strong feelings for her, and she is well aware of how I feel and she says she feels the same. All of a sudden, she said she wants to "take a break". Her excuse? She says ...

If you love someone, shouldn't you want to hear from them everyday?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 267 days ago

11 October 2007 (M) - i thought if u love someone u always want to hear from them everyday.i love my bf very much so i call him most of the time but he only calls a day after i dont call him.does he love me as much as i do?...

How can somebody just get over a relationship ending after such a long time together?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 212 days ago

11 October 2007 (M) - How can somebody just get over a relationship ending after a long time together? I'm struggling to do so. My first love broke up with me almost 6 months ago, after 2 years together, because she wasn't sure if she was ready to have something seriou...

I have a girlfriend... But I like somebody else, who is already taken! What do I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 264 days ago

10 October 2007 (M) - I have a girlfriend but i like this other girl but she has a boyfriend. I don't even know if i love my girlfriend anymore, but i love it when im around this other person. I;ve knowen this girl for 5 years but i've only started to feel this way the ...

Can't two people ever just fall in love, stay in love and not have to constantly "WORK" on the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

10 October 2007 (F) - Has anyone ever been in a relationship where true love has lasted for longer than 5-7 years. I think I've just given up hope that true love can last for an eternity. I think for most women that "newness" feeling can last forever (if we are with ...

I feel our relationship is hitting a dead end.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

10 October 2007 (F) - I stated seeing a man seven weeks ago and I like him very much. He is a wonderful person, but there is one big problem. He can't stop buying old radios, stereos, toys, video games, player pianos, record albums, etc. His basement, garage and house ...

How can I make her fall in love with me again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

9 October 2007 (M) - my girlfreind who lives with me says she luvs me , but not in luv with me we still together , how can i make her full inluv with me again ?...

Is a long distance relationship with no communication possible?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 62 days ago

9 October 2007 (M) - hi,i have a long distance relationship for 19 months.i m 29 living in spain and she s 23 in canada. we met by internet when she was in usa for studies.during this time there,our relation was excellent.we use to speak for hours everyday on msn,phon...

Do I give my ex another chance?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 205 days ago

9 October 2007 (M) - hello i recently broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years, the relationship was perfect at start between us, our family liked each other and we did everything together. the problems started a few months ago we started to argue and fight alot, until we...

He began watching porn, then doesn't want sex at all, what's going on?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - hello everybody i am confused about something but i will try my best to be brief in this note i have been with this man for seven years and it has not all been smooth sailing but it has been lovely for the most part, we have been very dedicate...

Stay with immature girlfriend for our daughter?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

9 October 2007 (M) - When my girlfriend is mad she likes to push my buttons, it seems as if on purpose. It could be something as silly as me wanting the bedroom door shut in order to catch some shut eye, and her refusing to leave it closed. It's like we have reverted ...

Stay in unrewarding relationship for her daughter's sake?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

9 October 2007 (M) - I'm 24 my girlfriend is 21. We have been living together for over a year and a half. We really don't have anything in common. We have totally different personalities, but I don't know if I should leave because I love her daughter who is two with ...

Leave loveless marriage for crush?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

9 October 2007 (F) - i have been in a basically loveless marriage for about 10 years...i really don't know whu i even got married to this guy in the first place...he's a nice guy and all and a lot of women would probably love to have him, good looking and all. but i am ...