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*andabaaby
writes:My boyfriend and I have had troubles so we decided to slow down, I used to live with him but I moved out because we both needed our space. Well on the weekend I went to go visit him, had the time of my life, but I gave him money, bought him groceries,bought him games,took him out for lunch, he told me he loved me he wants to grow old with me, and now theres this old friend of his that keeps gettin in the way that he hates now, she wrote me an email threatening him so i forwarned him and all of a sudden Im blocked and deleted and not aloud to call... what should i do??
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reader, mandabaaby +, writes (7 February 2008):
mandabaaby is verified as being by the original poster of the question thanks everyone or answering this...
everything is good now, shes gone, he told her to leave him alone .. which makes me happy :)
thanks for your posts.
Xoxo-- mandabaaby
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reader, mandabaaby +, writes (4 February 2008):
mandabaaby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI didnt forward the email that this girl sent me, I copied and pasted it to him on MSN messenger. I just want someone to get it through his head about how he is treating me. Maybe I did get used, but when I seen him he told me he loved me so much so many times that I lost count.
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reader, dapone 1  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Hi.
It looks as if your b/f has taken the huff because you sent the email to him through your email box with all your details on, so he thinks that the mail was drafted by you,trying to put the blame on his ex,But i am concerned that you are buying him food and expensive games, he may be only using you to finance his short fall in cash, you really need to see him face to face and find out what his problem is, if he is using you then you would be a lot better off without him, after all you really do not want to be taken for a ride by this guy, he is not worth it.
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reader, mandabaaby +, writes (4 February 2008):
mandabaaby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe lives an hour away from me. I dont even know why hes doing this. I wish I had someone to help me out.
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reader, Serinity  +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Sounds kind of odd to me. Are you sure he hasn't been seeing both of you? If you can't contact him via phone or e-mail why don't you try going by his house and asking him what's going on in person?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2008): Chalk it up to experience and move on. He's blocked you so obviously he doesn't want to be bothered. The process of moving on is hard, but resolve to do it any way. Act as if he's just a distant memory and one day he will become one. Take time to invest in yourself and when you meet the next man, let him do the pampering!
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reader, LovelyDove +, writes (4 February 2008):
 Maybe the old friend somehow got into his phone and his email and blocked you? You should visit him and talk to him about since you can't call him.
has this old friend of his always been in the picture? or did she just show up as soon as you pampered him?
The best thing to do is talk to him about it for now and then figure out where to go from there...
Hope all works out!
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reader, mandabaaby +, writes (4 February 2008):
mandabaaby is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI honestly dont want to hear " get rid of him" need other solutions other then the break up...
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