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I refused to have his second child until he marries me, so he decided to leave! Please advise.

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Question - (27 February 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 February 2008)
A female Nigeria age 41-50, *ky writes:

I have a friend I have dated for over two years now. I have a child of his since a year ago. The problem now is that he wants me to have another child for him. I refused. He has already married. He promised to marry me and divorced the first woman. I refused to have another child for him until he gets married to me. Now has another girl she is dating. He said that since I refused to have another child for him that he doesn’t want to have anything to do with me. Please can u advice me on what to do. Thanks.

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A female reader, Nky Nigeria +, writes (29 February 2008):

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Nky agony auntThanks for your reply. Without your Reply I dont know what else to do, cause am totaly confused. Thanks once more.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (28 February 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntI hope you realize he is just using your body. I also hope that he gives you some money for child support. Rest assured you did the absolute right thing by denying him another child. And just as Waterloo said, YOU can raise your child to be a respecter of people because he sure won't get it from his low-life father.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2008):

You have had a lucky escape here. If he is married, then why are you with him in the first place? Just move on and look after your lovely child and bring it up to value and respect other people. He is a class A pig and you are well rid of him. You did the right thing by turning him down, so now be strong and move on and live your life without him.

take care

xx

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