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Archived questions from: November, 2009 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

He is being very very rude with me. Does he still care for me?

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24 November 2009 (F) - he behaves rude wid me lyk he doesnt luv me never calls me. his frnds tell me tht he really luvs me a lot n puposely behaving harsh wid me so tht i leave him coz my bf thinks tht we cnt have a future together i dun kno whether to trust him or not. ...

My wife wants me back but I've booked a holiday with my internet lover!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted today

24 November 2009 (M) - I develop an embarasing problem where i lost all of my head hair. resently my wife and i have drifted away and i was planning to leave her for another beautiful woman that i met online. she is dazling. since my head hair loss things have turned rite ...

Divorcing naked creepy ex... What if he does something?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted today

24 November 2009 (F) - I split from my husband 4 years ago after being in a very passionless marriage for 10+years, no kids. I have given him plenty of time to adjust to life without me and now I am filing for divorce. He remains in complete denial. Tonight I dropped by ...

Whats the first step after releasing yourself?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 November 2009 (F) - I'v just realised the boy Iv been crushing over and been trying to get over for about 2 years isnt really ALL THAT. So now that I feel Im officially over him, what do I do know? I realise, I focused my life around him. How do I live without him...

To divorce or not divorce...?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted today

23 November 2009 (M) - to divorce or not to divorce?? me and my wife of 4 years have talked about our marriage (we already have a 1 year son) which has been a fine marriage in every think except sex. Throughout the years of our marriage we only had sex about 15-20 time...

My girlfriend dumped me and I'm still devastated

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted yesterday

23 November 2009 (M) - Im so hurt! My ex gf broke up with me on Nov 4 after dating for almost 2 yrs. I always treated her like a princess and loved her like crazy. I found out on a txt msg she sent me by "accident". It devastated me bcuz even though we had been fighting, ...

I think my best friend (a guy) is my soul mate. What do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted yesterday

23 November 2009 (F) - I love my boyfriend, don't get me wrong, but I think my male bestfriend is my soulmate. He knows me like no other, and makes me feel happy and safe and beautiful. I don't really know what to do, I'm relatively at peace with it, but thats b...

Have any other men divorced their wives to be with their sister in law?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted yesterday

22 November 2009 (M) - have men divoced their wives to marry their wife's sister? does this happen or am i the only one that is conteplating this?...

It's been a year. How do I get him out of my mind?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I spent an amazing day with a guy that I really liked. He now has a different girlfriend (not me). I went and saw a movie with him a on 11/22/08 a year ago from today. I can't stop thinking of him. He's always on my mind. I've tried moving on but he ...

I love him, but I find him ugly at the same time. What is wrong with me? Please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I have a history with this guy and I've never stop loving him. Its been approximate 2 years that I've loved him none stop even though there's been parts where I've hated him. I went through a period where I couldn't stand him but whatever ...

We ended things amicably, so why is he suddenly rude?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

22 November 2009 (F) - I dated a guy for 9 months, it was never exclusive. It then ended when he moved to another city for work and we left on good terms without any closure. We kept in contact as friends for the two months since he's left. But since he left, he's been ...

How do I get her to fall back in love with me?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

22 November 2009 (M) - The woman i grew up with and was to get married to broke up with me years ago. 2 yrs ago we got back in touch and we both admitted we still love each other. But the last 2 yrs all the guys she tried to meet just use her and degrade her. When i asked ...

Unable to deal with the breakdown in my relationship, will he come around? What should I do!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are having problems at the moment . He though he was pulling me down so he dumped me . But we started talking again and we were joking around about old times then i asked him why cant we try again and he said we cant its to late ...

My girlfriend has gone off sex and I don't know why...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted today

21 November 2009 (M) - Well I've been with my girlfriend just over a year and our our sex life was very good excellent to say the least, I am 36 and my girlfriend is 49 and i love her so dearly but recently she has gone off sex and has lost all interest in making love as ...

He says he wants to be friends only, but he seems to want more

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - I've never done this before, but I always come to this site so I figured I'd try... I met this guy in August. Initially I had my doubts, but I put aside the superficials and really looked at him as a person and began to fall for him. The phys...

I work two jobs to pay for everything while my boyfriend has no time for me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

21 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend has changed so much since ive had 2 jobs. He is always busy and now seems so into himself. I had to get the 2nd job to pay for things. He is always busy if i have a night off, has already made plans and doesnt invite me. We live ...

My girlfriend has become distant, is she using me, or am I worrying over nothing?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 November 2009 (M) - My Gf has started being a little distant, she dosen't seem to think so, she has also started saying sex is just the same as it always is when she always used to look forward to it, shes been very hot and cold in attitude towards me. today she said ...

He texts his ex and another girl. Is he losing interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - my boyfriend and i got 2gether a couple of months ago. his girlfriend split up him then he got with me but he constantly keeps texting her and texting this other girl that he constantly talks about. he met up with her, had a couple of drinks a...

Things seem awkward but I think he might like me

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20 November 2009 (F) - Hey i wrote up two days ago and thanks to "Another_Kapiti" who wrote back to me but just to give you an update. It was a very long question about this guy that i needed to tell him i really loved him but didnt wanna risk our friendship because ...

He says 'no' but his actions say 'yes'

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - not long ago i told someone i had become very very close friends with that i like him and want a relationship. he said no because he does not need someone like that right now. so i was left wondering what to do. after a bit of a confusing few mont...

Does this mean his still likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

20 November 2009 (F) - Okay, a week ago me and my bf ended it. I did. Today I texted him telling him I wanted to talk. He said sure. After class, he asked how was my week without him. I said good and asked him how his week was. He said um good. Does that mean he like me ...

Should I stay in this relationship or move on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Should I stay in this relationship or move on? I'm in a relationship with my girlfriend of 3 years and I am deeply in love with. She loves me too but not anywhere near the intensity or passion that I have for her. I accept that, because we all l...

Please give me tips on how to not beg my boyfriend to take me back!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - [MODERATOR NOTE: Four different posts from the same person have been combined into one.] Iv been in an on/off relationship for 2 years. I recently came to realise that he basically loved the control he had over me. He has no respect, puts me down...

Should we work at this for the sake of our daughter?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I have been with my fiancé for eight years. And we just recently had a baby girl five and a half months ago. Things are rocky and are not the same it used to be. Were no longer happy. We rarely speak,have sex, or even show love with a kiss or a hug. ...

My boyfriend left me, but hasn't turned in the key! Why?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend moved out without warning. He was a horrible communicator. His name is on the lease and he said that he would give me the key when the lease is up. Why keep the key?...

My boyfriend puts alcohol before me and his children!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend of 7 months is a raging alcoholic and I dont know what to do. I did not know that it was this bad until recently. He is always putting his friends and his drinking before me. The other night he called me and said that he was on his wa...

The woman I love is there, but ignoring me. How can I reach her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - Just over two years ago I met the most incredible and beautiful woman. She is a professional Dominatrix and I had sought out her services to indulge some 'kinks'. However, we hit it off and never did anything professionally. We became really good ...

Does he still think of me as long term, or are we fading?

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18 November 2009 (F) - My boyfriend only a few weeks ago (max a month ago) told me I was 'The One' for him and told most of his family the same. He said he wants to get his career in order first, and will probably propose to me in a few years when he's ready. For about ...

My wife intends to file for divorce to be with another man!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I have been married for 13 years to the love of my life. Like so many other men on this site I too became comfortable in our marrige, and did not give my wife the attention she desired. We have four beautiful children together. I found out about ...

I'm sick of living like this, I just don't know what to do anymore

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

18 November 2009 (F) - I've been in a long term relationship for 5 and a half years and I think it's over. We're more friends than a proper couple. We don't do anything together, we don't go anywhere, he doesn't speak to me when we get home from work - he's too busy on ...

I love her dearly but really don't know if the feeling is mutual anymore

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I am a 47 year old male, my partner is 32 we have been together for about 12 years now and have a lovely six year old daughter. I tell her i love her everyday,she only says this if i have said it first. if i go to cuddle her its as though i am in he...

Am I being too sensitive? Has she lost interest in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

18 November 2009 (M) - I'll start off by saying that I am a sensitive guy. I get my feelings hurt fairly easy (though I rarely show it.) My girlfriend and I have been together for two years. We were friends throughout high school, and we each had a crush on one another ...

My husband has no sexual desire and can't keep an erection!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - How can you find out ,why your husband has no sexual desire, and losing his erection? How do you know know if it's psychological? ...

Does the number of x's at the end of a message mean anything?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hey, Id just like everyones opinion on this very controvertial topic! Now everyone says 'dont be silly and count the number of x's; nobody uses that as a way to say if they like someone.' But they do. Atleast everyone did a lot when we were younger,...

Is it possible for him to get those feelings back and for this relationship to work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 7 days ago

17 November 2009 (F) - Hi, A few days ago, my boyfriend of 7 months told me that his feelings have changed over the last few weeks because i dont trust him, and it has eventually driven him away. He was about to break up with me, but we had a long conversation, an...

I am pregnant and ignoring two men. Which one should I choose?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - I need advice on this one. Its tricky. Am pregnant. The father of the baby has not been very supportive. He buys food and well made me sign a receipt saying I owed him 100 quid so I did and will pay it back to him and get him to sign a receipt but ...

Is this relationship over? Is trying to talk through the trouble ruining my chances?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - Long story short... we have had our fair share ofups and downs, it's LDR, he broke up with me first time because he wasn't ready and then asked to take me back a few months ago, I took him back met up with him again, felt like i couldn't ever be ...

I am so down... How can I make my relationship better?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - im feeling really down at the minute and i think it may be because of my relationship. i have been with my boyfriend for 2 years and im only 19 so i know anything can happen and there are plenty of more fish in the sea etc but i dont want to leave ...

I feel trapped in this marriage, should I leave or should I stay?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

16 November 2009 (M) - Hi Everybody, Hope you can help me out with this dilemma. I'm really confused about what to do. I am married with no kids. I met my wife to be at 21 and we started a serious relationship that saw us marry at 27, and I'm 32 now. My wife is ...

Have I fallen out of love? Or am I just confused?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 8 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - i have been with my bf for almost 3years now the one time we broke up because he was a player and i figured i had to move on. i fel for his friends kindness and mistook it for love he heard im dating his friend and he came back to fix things it...

Me and my girlfriend have lost the spark, how can I get it back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted yesterday

16 November 2009 (M) - Hi, i've been with my girlfriend for 9months now and i love her to pieces and would do anything for her. Recently she said that the spark wasn't there as much as it used to be but theres nothing to worry about and she loves me very much. I live away ...

Get Your Ex Back By Learning How to Say I'm Sorry

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16 November 2009 (F) - You may need to be able to say I'm sorry if you really want to get your ex back. Or are you wondering why you need to say that you are sorry. After all, doesn't it take two to argue and fight? Unfortunately a pattern of arguments causes a lot of ...

He said he wanted nothing to do with me. Did he just use me for sex?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

16 November 2009 (F) - i really need help...i started talkin 2 diz amazing boy nd i started fallin in love wit him the only problems was dat we werent going together...we started having sex and everything was fine until i stayed at his house he started trying 2 make me ...

My violent boyfriend accuses me of cheating

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

15 November 2009 (F) - We've been together two years... Tonight, I did not orgasm like he likes me to – it apparently wasn’t strong enough so he told me that I didn’t orgasm nicely – I told him that he was wrong. He wanted to know why I didn’t come nicely – again, ...

I didn't know how I felt and now that I do, I've lost my best friend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 10 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Okay, so I had this best friend and we both developed feelings for one other. When I say best friends i mean glued to the hips .. soulmates. The only person i could be myself around. Problem was i had a boyfriend and admittedly i messed my best fri...

My jealousy cost me a friendship with the girl I love

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (M) - hey, i have a girl,whom i use to like her so much. used to talk everyday n hang out weekends together like friends. some how i started feelings for her n felt jealous about her friends. i totally went possessive. i told her that i had feelings...

He says he likes me but now he's trying to provoke me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 9 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - question! what the helllll is wrong with men?! ok a guy that i know likes me he is 20. He liked me for a very long time but last year started showing his feelings more! then this year i told him i liked him but i dont wanna date him all he has d...

No man has seen me naked because of my stretch marks. Should I get a tummy tuck?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 10 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - I am in my late 40’s. I have no confidence when it comes to my body. I am on my 3rd divorce and each one of them have cheated on me (I don’t blame them) as I will not show my naked body to anyone. Everyone always says you got nice figure but they...

My husband has a small penis and I love the other man!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 7 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - Im 29 and have been married for two years now but stil in love with a married man. Ive known this man before my husband and we love each other so much. I thought i was going to leave him after my marriage but i couldnt because i love him so much ...

Is there a reason he might've stopped saying "I love you"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2 days ago

14 November 2009 (F) - My current boyfriend and I have been dating for some 2+ months. Every day before we went to bed, we would say "Good night, I love you", or something of that sort. But recently, my boyfriend has stopped saying "I love you" to me, and I can't think of ...