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Archived questions from: September, 2010 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Why isn't he interested in phone sex any more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4957 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - My bf is now thoroughly disinterested in phone sex and instead makes it into a joke. He used to love it. What's changed? I'm worried. ...

I don't think I love my boyfriend anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4956 days ago

30 September 2010 (F) - ok so im not sure if i love my boyfriend anymore im .t years still living with my parents a college student and i have a part time job. I have been dating my bf for almost 3 years n im not sure wether or not i still love him..hes the only guy i have ...

She moved on while I got more infatuated, how can I move on?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4958 days ago

29 September 2010 (M) - [Mod Note: OP's suggested title taken] This girl and I liked each other last year and were going to go out, but I couldn't decide if i liked her that much and I ended up hurting her and she says she has lost those feelings for me. As time as passed ...

Relationship confusion ... Is it normal for me to question our relationship after 2 years?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

28 September 2010 (F) - There are so many "views" and comments out there that makes me more confused; "you'll know when you meet the right guy", "love is all you need", "there is more to a relationship than love", "soulmate", etc. I am in a 2 year relationship. We...

Is it wrong to love who she is, but be uncomfortable about her past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4960 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend has been feeling increasingly distant the past view months. We have been on a smooth relationship until now, but I sometimes wonder if she's started to stray elsewhere in her mind. I feel somewhat responsible, because she seem unhappy ...

How do I react to my girlfriend's actions?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4961 days ago

27 September 2010 (M) - I met my GF about 4 years ago, at first we just talked a bit but I kinda fell for her pretty fast, I asked her out but she refused, I was a bit upset but she was important for me so I stayed a friend for her (and I was REALLY a good and caring ...

I'm not sure what to do now that my feelings for him seem to have changed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 September 2010 (?) - For the past couple of weeks, my boyfriend and I have been having disagreements. He thinks I'm being hypocritical, and I think a lot of things he says to me come off as condescending and rude. We've been together for more than a year and a half, and ...

I need to do something to get the spark back in our relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4959 days ago

26 September 2010 (M) - Hey hieee, I am Kaustav from India.I m in Love with this girl for almost 2 years now.Recently I had gone for a Trip to Nepal with my male friends for almost a month.We were in in constant touch with her on the phone though.B...

Dumped out of the blue, should I contact him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

26 September 2010 (F) - I'm 23 and was dating my bf for nearly a year and everything was going well. Then one day he calls me out of the blue and says he wants to breakup. I was in shock, we hadn't been fighting at all. He said tat he wasn't attracted to me anymore and ...

Am I wrong to want to leave?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - I just got back with my bf a month ago,were out on the town,I lay my phone down to go to the bathroom and he reads a txt! It was the ending of a txt from a guy I had been dating before me and my ex got back together! My bf gets mad starts a huge ...

How do you decide you must seperate?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4964 days ago

22 September 2010 (F) - [Mod Note: OP's Original Title] I'm a confused woman married for 15 years with 3 teenagers. I don't know which I feel for the most about my husband hate or love. He's an alcoholic (not a violent type) and I'm tired of being second to his alcohol....

Help! I think he gave up on us too easily!

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22 September 2010 (F) - Hi, my bf broke up with me recently, but I don't think he made the right choice. Here's the thing, he's been selling a lot of his stuff, trying to find a new job, and new apartment, has been cutting off connections with old friends, etc. To me, it ...

I'm sick of my boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

20 September 2010 (F) - Iam sick of my boyfriend of 6 years, I DONT LOVE HIM NO MORE. i been with my man for 6 years and first been great, but he made me to give my child up and my home, my car, a year of the relationship he started abuse me, gripping me back the neck and ...

Is this just his way of finishing with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

19 September 2010 (F) - About 5 weeks ago I received a message from my partners saying that he had to deal with major issues in his life and since then I barely hear from him. He says he needs his space to sort these things out. He tells me that the relationship is not ...

Is he getting sick of me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4969 days ago

18 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 6 months and we always have our downfalls, usually me being paranoid that he longer loves me because he doesn't reply back to my texts. But in the end everything's okay, until the next encounter. We're ...

I'm no longer in love with my b/f but am unable to end things

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4967 days ago

17 September 2010 (F) - I have a boyfriend but i haven't been in love with him for quite a while. I do care for him, i do love him, just not as a boyfriend. we've only dated for about 10 months but he's really into deep. I recently met a guy that i really really like and ...

I feel like we don't have anything in common, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4971 days ago

16 September 2010 (F) - hi, i have a little problem. i got married young and we been togeather for 5 years and married for 2, we have 2 kids togeather.well lately ive been questioning my relationship with my husband and i feel like we are not meant for eachother i felt ...

He doesn't feel the same way he used to but isn't unhappy enough to leave our relationship...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4972 days ago

15 September 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for a couple of months now and lately things have went from great to horrible. When we first started dating, things were amazing! We would talk all day every day about everything, we would spend lots of time ...

I don't feel anything for my BF anymore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4957 days ago

12 September 2010 (F) - I don't feel anything for my bf anymore.. like no spark, no shiver nothing. we've been together for 3 months.. i know its not long but this is my first serious relationship. at first i was COMPLETELY in love with him.. everything about him made me ...

Whirlwind courtship and now he's backing off. Why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - I met a guy 6 weeks ago on an aeroplane (it feels longer for both of u). we were both going to different destinations and i was ending up where he was on his last night so we arranged to meet - i text him but wasn't expecting a reply but was ...

We love each other but are getting bored

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4976 days ago

11 September 2010 (F) - heya, well me nd my bf have beeen together for about 4 months but we have been on and off for around 3 years. we love each other very much but we are both getting a bit bored. i feel it and i know he feels it too. its seems tht we r trying to have ...

After Almost 3 Months Should I Worry That He is Losing Interest?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4966 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - Background:I met him in mid June,he asked for my number and he called every day since he received my number, then we had our first date in mid July. We have seen each other about 10 times since then, and now the phone calls have gone from daily to ...

I like being loved, but is he too old for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4968 days ago

10 September 2010 (F) - I've divorced my husband after 18 years together. I've met this man 20 years older than me. I dont like that big age gap. However he is a caring person and I find me attracted to him. A year on I dont find his wrinkles false teeth and big body ...

I feel that we're drifting apart! I haven't seen her for 3 weeks.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4977 days ago

10 September 2010 (M) - Dear cupids, My girlfriend's birthday is on Monday and I'm not going to see her because of my parents, I haven't seen her for three weeks now due to her recent holiday and I feel we're drifting apart, what shall I do? Thanks in advance....

I met a pillar of society with a hidden cocaine, alcohol, and cross-dressing habit.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4962 days ago

9 September 2010 (F) - I met a man who posed as a great guy, deacon in his church, father of 5, honorable discharge from the marines with a steady decent paying job. What he neglected to tell me is that he had a 10 yr coke habit, kids that wouldn't talk to him due to his ...

Boyfriend broke up with me to go to college and cut off communication! What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4978 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - me and my boyfriend have been dateing for over 15 months. i love him more the anything in the would, he is my best friend. he tols me that i am the only girl for him and all that stuff. and ive never felt this way about anyone before. but recently ...

Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me anymore?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4963 days ago

8 September 2010 (F) - Why do I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me no more? I am 19 years old and he's 34 years old.I've been going out with my boyfriend for about a month and he is an amazing person. He would come to my house everynight after work. however, like a w...

After 4.5 years how do I tell my boyfriend I'm not sure hes the one?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4980 days ago

7 September 2010 (F) - How do i tell my bf of 4.5 years that i'm not sure he's the one anymore without breaking his heart at the same time? I love my bf and he's the only bf ive ever had, but lately something feels different and i dont feel that something special for him ...

Should I end the relationship or stay with her?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

7 September 2010 (M) - I've been with this sweat lovely lady almost three months long. We get along great and have fun, but recently I've become unsettled, and interested in a few people around me. I am 27 years old (she is 25 yrs old) and lives in a big city, which I’m ...

How to stay in love, when my wife isn't in love with me anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 September 2010 (M) - how can i do it? after all is said and done, it is my fault, i never cheated, hit her. i wasn't there for her emotionally, didn't support her when she needed to be supported. she fell out of love with me. now how can i stay in love with her,...

Good man, but not in love...what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4981 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - ok, so I'm 36 so in theory should be old enough to know what I want. But, I'm wracked with self-doubt and indecision. I have a 6 year relationship with a good (if dull) man. We are engaged and have one lovely gorgeous daughter. But I don't love ...

Should I settle with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4413 days ago

6 September 2010 (F) - I recently just left a 10 year relationship to a man I was engaged to. We've had our ups and downs and I think I should have left earlier, I was just too comfortable and scared to do so. We now have this new house that we've both committed to and ...

Does she still feel the same about me, or is there another reason she could be angry with me all the time?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4969 days ago

4 September 2010 (M) - my question is what can i do when my girlfriend seems to always be in a bad mood i have tried to help her with her problems by comfertng her the best way i can but she always seems to find something woring with the way that i confert her and from ...

He used to tell me he loved me and couldn't live without me, but now he's dumped me. Help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4984 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - Me and my boyfriend started going out in april, we just broke up yesterday, he used to tell me he loved me and couldn't live without me, but he dumped me yesterday? and now he wont speak to me. help please....

Partner no longer loves me.............help!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4974 days ago

3 September 2010 (F) - help! I was with my partner for 5 and a half years and engaged for almost 2 years! We booked our wedding and we also just had a baby, but he recently told me that he no longer feels the same way towards me as he used to. I am really confused as we ...

I feel like my girlfriend and I are drifting apart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4965 days ago

2 September 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I have just recently started college at the same place. I'm 21 but transferred over and she is 19 but a freshman at the university. Lately it's been hard to feel close to her. I understand that this is the point in her life that ...

He loves me like a sister now. Can he fall back in love with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4985 days ago

2 September 2010 (F) - is it possible for a guy who used to be in love with you, but now loves you like a sister, to ever fall in love with you again?...

In love with friend's son!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4982 days ago

1 September 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm a 38 year old female (but look much younger) who has been very happily married for 16 years with three beautiful children. We recently went to my home country over the summer and there met one of our family friends after a long time...

I don't feel the same any more... terrified to leave her in case she hurts herself.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4983 days ago

1 September 2010 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for just over a year, and suddenly I don't feel the same anymore. I don't love her in that way any more, but she absolutely adores me. I'm the only decent thing in her life, she made suicide attempts in the past, an...