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Archived questions from: October, 2017 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I love my long term partner but feel a spark for a coworker!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2325 days ago

31 October 2017 (F - Hi, i'm in a situation i never thought i'd be and i need advice, because i can't talk about it with anyone..I'm in a longterm relationship (7 years). I love my partner, although i can't deny that our relationship is much of a rutine now. We live ...

Our 7 year relationship is in shambles. Is it over? Should I accept defeat?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2328 days ago

29 October 2017 (F - I have been in a relationship for 7 years, and throughout the relationship we obviously had ups and downs like any other couple. However, one huge problem with us was that I had suffered some sexual trauma in my past which left it difficult for me ...

Why have I started despising my married lover?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2332 days ago

29 October 2017 (F - Is it normal for the other woman to start hating or resenting the married man she's been seeing for a while? How does it go from him being able to do no wrong to thinking less of him over time? So, from love to hate? Seems like such a drop in her f...

He's left me yet again but what wrong have I done to be treated like this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

26 October 2017 (F - I need help please I Feel patheticI met this guy two years ago. He was great he was always guarded we went out on dates for three months didn't sleep together til then. He was great to my son. I have a Lil boy. I ended up moving in with him, and it ...

My girlfriend is being too needy, is it unhealthy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2335 days ago

25 October 2017 (M - How often is too often to see your significant other? In the last few relationships I’ve felt burned out too quickly from them and I think it’s a problem I’m having with myself. I’m dating a girl now and have been for the last year. She does e...

How do I make him feel for me the way he once did?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

22 October 2017 (F - Guys, I need help. So my boyfriend broke up with me and it's different from most relationships so I don't know what to do. Let me explain our entire relationship, we were best friends for 3 years and one year he really liked this girl and couldn't ...

Why would a man get distant when time together is limited?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2337 days ago

22 October 2017 (F - so i have been seeing someone for about 2 years now, we are both military and it is now the time for me to rotate to a new duty and he will not be able to come with me. We both love each other very much but the closer i get to leaving, the more ...

Most of the things he does really gets on my nerves!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2340 days ago

21 October 2017 (F - I have been going out with a guy for almost a year now, when we first started going out I thought he was really sweet and I really liked him, we see each other every week but now it's been nearly a year I feel like things have changed, he still ...

He is not being supportive and I am literally broken because of what is happening!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2338 days ago

21 October 2017 (F - Hi, me and my boyfriend have been going out for 6 months and a few days ago I found out I was pregnant. We both currently live 100 miles apart and only get to see each other once a week. We decided an abortion was the best option for us as it wou...

Being used by my boyfriend and I don't know how to get rid of him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

19 October 2017 (M - I will try to make it short as possible, I am 35 years old gay and I dated a guy few months ago, specifically in May and I really liked him, everything was great , although he is way younger than me 24 years old, but I felt that he loves me, he ...

Why am I hopelessly infatuated with this man?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2187 days ago

18 October 2017 (F - Hi, I was just wondering if someone could give me advice I'm with my husband for 16 years married 6 and have two wonderful children we had out up's and down's over the years I've been in and out of counselling due to child abuse and suffer with ...

I'm being taken for granted and wonder if I should marry him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2343 days ago

18 October 2017 (F - I have been with my bf for 9 years now and we both dicided to get married, and we had registered. Just lately I have been very uncomfortable with my fiancee, i dont fee like i am being loved, i am only his comfort. It has been probably my faul...

I can't bear to let him near me since I discovered he is still watching porn!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2334 days ago

15 October 2017 (F - During our recent holiday, my partner and i were in our room and i decided to have a shower. To my surprise i saw my partner change channel on the tv to a porn channel! I could see the tv reflection in bathroom mirror...i alerted him to the fact i ...

She has gone off sex and I'm worried I'll lose her!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2329 days ago

13 October 2017 (M - I have a girlfriend i am 66 years old and she is 46 years old we have been together 4 years but this last 6 months she has went off sex she says she do not care she has sex or not i am getting wor...

I'm struggling with wanting more attention from him through texts!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2328 days ago

13 October 2017 (F - So I have posted about this previously, but I’m starting to get that feeling of neglect again.  I feel terrible as I know my bf is working very hard and I hate asking him for more attention.  The situation hit a breaking point a couple weeks ago, he ...

He found the girl he dumped me for was too costly and wants me to take him back.

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2352 days ago

9 October 2017 (F - So, this guy and I were dating for almost two years and he proposed to me in May. A few weeks later he tells me hes going on vacation with his old crush/ friend since high school there both 28. But they have been friends forever. So, he breaks off ...

Should I kick him out of my house and my life?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2352 days ago

8 October 2017 (F - Hi All!! First thank you for taking the time out to help me... Ive been dating the same guy for 5 yrs now. And for the past couple yrs he has changed into an unpredictable screaming heartless prick towards me. Im always caught off guard when he gets ...

He was looking at provocative image!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2326 days ago

6 October 2017 (F - Hi I'm looking for some advice I've never had to do this before. My question is how am I supposed to feel about my partner of 15 years was working on his laptop and stepped outside for a smoke I was unpacking shopping and on his screen was a picture ...

Is this just a slump in the relationship or should we part ways?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2355 days ago

5 October 2017 (F - So I desperately need some relationship advice please! Me and my boyfriend have been together about 2 and a half years now, we're both 22 and we live together. We both have very good jobs and we stay at his family house (all his family live away...

Why does this love feel different?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2328 days ago

5 October 2017 (F - 2 years ago I broke up w/the 1st guy that I ever loved.  We weren't compatible as we had different political and religious views (both things are very important to me).  I was completely and utterly in love, felt like a total dream.  He took me for ...

I am not a masturbatory toy!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2333 days ago

3 October 2017 (F - My fiancé has suffered from delayed ejaculation ever since we met. For over a year he could never reach orgasm with me unless he uses his hand, closed his eyes and tuned me out. Literally I could not speak. I confronted him and it turned out he was ...

How do I go about being just her cousin again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2358 days ago

2 October 2017 (M - I am just 20 and I hate to be called inexperienced because I have been in two solid relationships before. I grew up in the city of Abuja. so early this year I went to my hometown with my dad where I met my first cousin once removed. after a while we ...

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