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Archived questions from: February, 2009 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

What do I do? Should I avoid her calls? Is she just upset I can't provide for her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 266 days ago

28 February 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have dated for almost a year now, but we've dated in the past as well. We've known eachother for a little over 15 years now. Things didn't get really serious till recently, talking about marriage and children and all of that ...

Is he just not that into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 267 days ago

27 February 2009 (F) - ive been going out with this guy for the past 3 months. we're both in the university. even if were dating, our status is still just friends because he doesnt want to have a relationship. it started this way. one day when we went out, we started ...

She's being cold towards me all of a sudden, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (M) - Hey me and my girl will have been going out for 6 months now. Everything has been perfect, wonderful. WE get along, similar interests, we are totally open with each other, don't lie to each other we have both been faithful, we have fun.....etc ...

Are these signs of him wanting to break up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 268 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - So my boyfriend always ignores me whenever he sees me, he doesnt call me anymore and when i call him he makes up excuses and says "someone else is calling, ill call you back" and when i say "i love you" he'll say it back but it's more of an "i dont ...

How to bring back the spark into my relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - getting straight to the point... im a 17 year old girl with a bf of over a year and i feel taken for granted/unappreciated/unloved/...etc. i miss how my bf would try to hard to impress me and go out of his way to do things for me and always showe...

My husband is a loser! How can I get rid of him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

26 February 2009 (F) - My husband is a loser! i knew that long time ago and was just in denial. Now, my problem is how to get rid of him. For the past 2 years we've been together he cheated on me 3 times, or at least that's what he admitted to, because i caught him; he ...

If I can't go away from her I continue to hurt myself, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 261 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - she is my friend from since 8 months, the bond of our relationship was so strong that i could feel her pain, her feelings, i used to solve her problems, one day i proposed her only to find no on her side. she never changed her attitude towards me, ...

Is it true that if you are not sure if you want to be with someone it means you don't?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Is it true that if you are not sure if you want to be with someone it means you dont? I am with my current boyfriend and although we get on very well, I am not sure he is the one that I want to settle with. Could these doubts mean that he is not ...

I feel like we will drift apart

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 269 days ago

25 February 2009 (F) - Hi I have been in a long distance relationship for almost two and a half years. My boyfriend did most of the travelling as I do not drive, and I occasionally stayed at his on weekends (around once every couple of months) getting there by train. ...

I'm feeling guilty for ending it all and not remaining friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

25 February 2009 (M) - i have broken all contacts with this girl and have gone away from her life forever. ours was a long distance relationship for one year and i had gone to her place in berlin a couple of times to stay with my grandparents during my holidays and really ...

Relationship has faded, how do I make it fresh again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 270 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. im almost 20 and hes 23. we have a very loving relationship, care about each other greatly, love spending time together and can always make each other giggle. however i think im the kind of...

I think he's immature and scared, but what's really going on with him?!?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 270 days ago

24 February 2009 (F) - Where to start.... Ok, started dating this guy over 15 years ago, my first everything. Dating for years then reconnected this summer after about 4 years. He was breaking up w/ this girl and we got pregnant. Spend an amazing weekend together ...

I'm feeling troubled about my relationship.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 271 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, ok so I'm feeling troubled about my relationship. In short I've been with my boyfriend just over a year, we moved in with each other after a short while as it just seemed right. I have no doubts about this, I'm happy in my living environment. ...

What went wrong? Help/Advice

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 271 days ago

23 February 2009 (M) - I was talking with this girl for about 1 month and a half. Around the 2 weeks we were making-out, kissing, and holding hands, but we were not a couple. Then she tells me that I can't see her at all any more cause of her mom. She said her mom was ...

I forgave my abusive boyfriend but I cant seem to forget!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 271 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2 years. About six months ago we had a fight which lead him to pushing me and choking me. He told me he could never be with me because of what he had done. I love him so much that I couldnt let him go. ...

My ex wants to find god first, should I wait for him or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - Hi, what should I do. I just broke up with my bf, we were together for 3months. At first it was happy then he got stressed with work and we both dunno how to handle it He needed space while I felt neglected but we both tried to work it out. Ov...

How do you know you aren't in love...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 270 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - ...or is it something else? I'm in a relationship with a really great guy - treats me like gold. Recently, we've been having more downs than ups (all because of my reactions to things I've learned about him that aren't horrible by any stretch o...

I want to leave but maintain a friendship for my son's sake.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

23 February 2009 (F) - I am a 24 year old female, I have been with my boyfriend for 10 years and we have a 7 year old son! I moved out with my mom for about 4 days and came back for all the wrong reasons! I have been back for 3 days and still want to be on my own but he ...

I thought he was the one, he can't be if I keep wanting to break up with him though, can he?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I dont know what to do, I'm going out with this boy and I really like him but we always argue and I doubt our relationship and sometimes I want to dump him but don't know if I should. I met this guy over IM and one of my friends knew him so I went ...

Husband emotionally cheated a year ago. Now I feel very unattractive and suspect the affair was sexual.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 253 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have been married for 22 years my husband had an emotional affair with my friend and i have a feeling it was sexual but they both denie this how can i stop feeling like i do I feel like he destroyed what we had and i thought it was something ...

Need ideas on how to break up, without hurting her too much?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 272 days ago

22 February 2009 (M) - I want to dump my girlfriend but i dont know how. We have been going out for a year and i have gone off her. I know it sounds really mean but i cant help how i feel. I have fallen out of love and dont fancy her anymore. I dont want to hurt ...

How can I stop him from making me feel worthless?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for about a year and 8 months and I love him to pieces - more than anything but the problem is he does not make me happy. A few reasons are: 1) He will never admit he plays any part in any argument we have- he will al...

Do you always listen to your intuition? What should I do in this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 272 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - Do you always listen to your intuition,or you just say no to it? I do. I know long time ago ,that my intuition is suffering from repressing it, but if I go with it, I must leave my husband ,and that is the biggest step in my life , after I went to ...

How can I make our relationship fresh again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 269 days ago

22 February 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 7 months now. im almost 20 and hes 23. we have a very loving relationship, care about each other greatly, love spending time together and can always make each other giggle. however i think im the kind of person w...

My girlfriend is confusing me and hurting me...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 265 days ago

21 February 2009 (M) - Hi all my girlfriend is being really confusing latley, i have been with her for 2.5 years, and i have been in the army for 1.5 years. the other day she told me that she doesnt think we should be together anymore, or shes no sure if she loves me as ...

How do I know if I'm marrying him for love, or for the kids?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 273 days ago

21 February 2009 (F) - How can i tell if i'm marrying this man for love..Or for the kids?I think i love him..But he always gives me a reason not to trust him..He has been unfaithful atlease 2 times that i know about..I have two boys with this man.I think alot has to do ...

Chance to get back with my ex from a long distance relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

20 February 2009 (M) - I've been in a long distance relationship with my ex about a year and half from the beginning. We were best friends and soul mates that I had a no doubt I would end up with her until death do us apart. I'm a college student, so I only could visit...

I'm think I've fallen out of love with my husband, HELP

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

19 February 2009 (F) - Ok, here's the deal. I have been married for 8 years since right off high school. My husband is such a great guy, but he has his faults. When we started the relationship, he made it very clear hat he could not promise to be in a faithful ...

The romance rut!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - I feel that me and my boyfriend of over a year have fallen into a romance rut. I want to try something that will really wow him and hopefully spark something inside of him to make him show more affection. Any suggestions?? ...

Am I right what I feel?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hello!Thank you for this kind of opportunity, beacause I am confused I want somebody to give me an advise. I've been married for more than 5 years, we have two lovely daughters.But, I feel not in love with my husband, just becau...

Was he having pity sex with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - This is kind of embarassing for me even though it is anonymous, but here it goes. My husband and I have been split up for a little while now. It just seemed as if we couldn't spend 2 minutes without getting into an arguement anymore. Since this was ...

I'm confused between friendship and love....

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 277 days ago

18 February 2009 (M) - Last year I started loving a girl whom I have been knowing from the past 3 years. She has been a very close friend of mine. I always admired her and also told her that I like her the way she looks and etc. We have even gone very close and have been ...

My boyfriend says he doesn't know how he feels about me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Right, some background. My boyfriend and I met through a friend. We had flirted on a few nights out and ended up kissing at a party a couple of weeks back. The next day, we had a long chat, and we have been talking every day since, and seeing each ...

My abusive relationship is now over, but I'm wondering if I've become an abuser myself!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 276 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - This is going to sound so strange, but I have been in and emotionally and verbally abusive relationship for 3 years and I finally told him to get help or leave, he denied he had a problem and left saying I kicked him out. I have decided to get ...

I'm not IN LOVE with him...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

18 February 2009 (F) - Hey guys and girls. Here's the thing - and it's a pretty big thing to me so need some help! Been with my fella for 3 and a half years. I know that I love him. We get on amazingly and are really similar, have a laugh etc and understand one another. ...

I'm contemplating an affair because my marriage is unfulfilling!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 274 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I need some help. I have always been the kind of person that would not cheat under any condition. I have had opportunity and have never done it. I am once again in a very bad situation, my marriage is not fulfilling at all, I am really still ...

Scared to break up because I'm used to him and don't want to be alone!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 277 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I am very confused and unsure what to do anymore, I have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 years now. We have lots in common , he is a kind man, I can trust him and rely on him. Before I met him I had not had much luck with men, always got hurt ...

How do I make him wrapped around my finger?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 275 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - okay I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years... everything was great and we were very happy He always showed he loved me and said nice things to make me feel good. but these past few months he has been showing that he doesnt care, he has ...

What should I do to make him show that he cares?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

17 February 2009 (F) - I've been dateing my boyfriend for about two years now, we were very happy at first and i was extreamly in love with him .... however, things started to change in the past few months. He is acting like he does not need me and he does not give me the ...

My g/f is close to her male friends, I'm scared to ask about it in case there is more to it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 278 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - I've been seeing my girlfriend for about 2 and a half years now, she's 22 and a half and i'm nearly 27, when we first met i was in an unsigned band and out a lot but due to work commitments i had to leave the band which meant my social life has ...

I always run back to him although the relationship makes me feel depressed, help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I am a women over 40 and been dating a guy for 6 yrs. now. If u size it up may be considered 3 yrs.total because of the long distance. I am I feel totally depressed all the time with this relationship. I think he is a BAD HABIT like being addicted ...

Is there any hope to bring my husband back... and his old self?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - My husband and I split up a little while ago. He has caused me a lot of pain and no matter what we did we just couldn't see eye to eye. I know that I poured my heart and soul into our marriage and wanted to fix what ever was broke up until the ...

I fell in love with my soulmate but it's a friend of my wife...

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

16 February 2009 (M) - Hello, Let me just come right out and say it, I fell in love with one of my wife's friends. Yes, I'm sure I will get bashed here but it wasn't something I planned on doing. I have known this person for 7 YEARS and always found myself with her even ...

I must be the world's worst girlfriend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 278 days ago

16 February 2009 (F) - I've always had a problem with commitment and very rarely do I get past 3 months with a guy. It normally gets to a point where sex stops, I don't get in the mood for it, any little things that they do really irritate me... but it's not them, I know ...

Dump or no dump?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Today is Valentine's Day and I got a Valentine e-mail from the guy I've been dating for a year. I know things are tight, but come on... For Christmas, he asked what I wanted and I said I wanted charms for my bracelet. Guess what he got for me? ...

What can be done about the lack of passion and all the other flaws in my marriage?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 280 days ago

15 February 2009 (F) - Hi all, this is going to be long and complicated but I would really appreciate your help. I met my husband 8 years ago and we have just had a gorgeous daughter. Up until around 6 months ago we had a good relationship. Now I am all messed up ...

I don't love him any more but I don't want to lose everything I have worked so hard for and hurt my son.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 280 days ago

14 February 2009 (F) - I have been with my partner for about 8 years. We have a son together who is 7 years old and I also have a 18 year old son by a previous marriage who lives with us. My partner is a functioning alcoholic. He drinks daily, starting ususall...

I just want a bit of excitement in my life! What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 281 days ago

13 February 2009 (M) - I have been with my current girlfriend for 4 years. I still love her but the thrill I used to get from being with her faded some time ago and I really miss it. Recently, I've been noticing this really cute girl in my college (went back to college ...

I can't but feel that I'm missing something with my b/f!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 281 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - I've been with my guy for 4.5 years now, and while I know that I love him, and that he loves me, I can't help but feel that something's missing. My bf is a wonderful guy, he's sweet, smart, and kind. However, I've never really lusted after him at ...

Has he lost interest because I neglect my looks?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 279 days ago

13 February 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid I have recently found out my husband has joined facebook. He looked up a old schoolfriend he was once inlove with in school. He has only written twice to her, cause I found out and approached him. He told me he done it cause his unhapp...