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Archived questions from: March, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

If I break up with my girlfriend I'm afraid I will have no one.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I have a girlfriend that I love. We have our good and bad times. We go to school and do everything together but now I think I should see other people because I'm not sure if she makes me happy as much as I make her happy. If I break up with he...

Over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled into a routine.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I'm in a relationship that's just hit the 3 year mark, even though I'm only 17. We also live together with my dad and older brother. However over the past few months I've been feeling as if there's nothing there anymore. As if we've just settled ...

My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - My ex and I are about to go to court over his access to our son. He has previously had weekday and weekend contact including stay overs but our relationship has deteriorated to such an extent that I don't want to see him anymore. This is obviou...

I met an older man after my divorce, one year later the excitement has gone though and I'd rather be alone. Why is this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 116 days ago

31 March 2008 (F) - I've been living a separate life with my husband for 4 years. We've got two flats and we only see each other mostly at weekends. In the end I was fed up that he was refusing to live with me so I divorced him. I am craving for love and company. ...

Why can’t I just let her go? WHY?!?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 42 days ago

31 March 2008 (M) - Why can’t I just let her go? That’s what I need to know. WHY?!? I enlisted in the army so I could have a good job, so her mother and father knew I had a good job. We had dated for four years, and on my 20th birthday she leaves me, before I was...

Should I stay in contact with my long distance ex? Is making a clean cut the right thing to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - Hi guys, would just like more opinions regarding contact with my ex. If you're unclear of my situation, check my column, but I'll give you the jist: Long distance relationship Lasted 2 Years Was completely heartbroken when she ended it (...

Why has my wife's feelings for me changed since our daughter was born?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 March 2008 (M) - so my wife says that she doesnt feel the same way about me as she did. we have been married 2 years and she said she has felt this way basically since our 1 year old daughter was born. any advice...

Am I getting upset over nothing?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

30 March 2008 (F) - Am i complicating things? I recieve the message of love through pda and gifts. My boyfriend isn't interested. He's laxed about marriage and kids. I want to go to the next step. I know I'm loved but sometimes i don't feel it. ...

People have witnessed my bf being unloyal, bf says he hasnt...who do I believe?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 117 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - I have been going out with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now. Along the way I have had 3 different people tell me that he is being disloyal.. I've comfronted my fella about this but he says that everyone is causing trouble and not to let it ...

I think my Army Boyfriend is taking advantage of me. what do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Im 16 and my boyfriend is 21, ive been with him now for eight months. It was great when we first got with each other, he used to pay so much attention to me. After we had been dating for two months, he decided to go in the army now i just feel like ...

How to know if it is the truth or his anger speaking?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hi, i've been married 8 years and my husband wasn't inlove with me when we married but i was so infatuated with him that it didn't matter. now he says he loves me but actions speak showing i'm his friend and not his love, we have a son together and ...

I have broken up with my girlfriend because we were always fighting but I cant bear the thought of her being with anyone else!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Ok so me and my girlfriend broke up cause all we did was fight now because of her im going through alot of changes such as my anger the way i treat people my self centeredness, now just tonight we had a great talk she said she had her guard up wich ...

I broke up with my boyfriend six months ago, I am not comfortable with our mutual friend updating him on what I'm doing now. Should I dump her too?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

29 March 2008 (F) - Hoping people can help here. I broke up with a guy about six months ago. I liked him but felt that the feeling was not mutual so I was wasting my time. He and I have a mutual friend and he moniters my comings and goings through her which I find odd. ...

How do I let her know I'm not interested without hurting her feelings?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

29 March 2008 (M) - Well basically there is this girl who recently told me that she fancied me cos she thought i was a nice. funny, intellegent and attractive person: she's a good friend,we have so much in common, and she's hot ....yet i don't really feel the same way ...

I want more than this friend with benefits, should I break it up?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

28 March 2008 (M) - K so, I'm with a girl atm, well, we arn't dating or anything, we're more like friends with benefits. Anyways, we talk for a couple hours a day on the phone, we get along great, and I was planning on asking her out, but as it turns out she's got ...

The love of my life is getting married, how am I supposed to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - How do I get over someone I am in love with getting married within the next year? Please help my entire body hurts. I was taken when he wanted me then he found her. I know it's not meant to be but just tell me how to get over it. Don't say time bec...

He said he wants "space" but then calls me at crazy hours! Does he still have feelings for me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi! Me and boyfriend broke up because, he said he wanted space and feel not ready to be in a relationship. It's only been a few days he contacted me again telling me how I was doing.etc. We are still friends and we go out together usually. Wha...

My ex wanted to stay friends so why is she ignoring me now?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 85 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - hi, I have a problem with my ex-girlfriend. after she finished with me we decided to stay friends and i really wanted that because i didn't want to lose her. However i've been feeling like she doesn't want to now. she never makes any effort ...

We once had threesomes with my mate does he now like her more than he likes me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - Hi I have been with me boyfriend for 3 years now, that is never a good relationship. He never cuddles me, we would never sit together on the sofa at home and we hardly ever had sex, he spent most of his time in the put as well. About 2years a...

In a relationship for six years and I don't want to ruin it but feeI have more in common with my co-worker...any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 120 days ago

27 March 2008 (M) - I am 24 years old manager at a retail store, i have know this co-worker of mine for four years, she is 22 years old. She had quit this retail job and went to work at a bank, from all the other co-workers i kept in touch with her the most, mostly by ...

How do I let him know he has to initiate getting back together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

27 March 2008 (F) - I love my boyfriend very much, but feel we need to "take a break." He is no longer affectionate and I have talked to him about this several times, but he hasn't acted upon it and I have been extremely patient. I think he would realize his feelings ...

How do I get him back in my life? I met him on facebook and he's a model!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 119 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - hey well i met this guy on facebook..we started talkin and it was going really well..and he was really hot..he is an actor and model by profession..so i dint mind talkin to him..and later on he began talkin to me more and more and asked me for my ...

It just seems like there is something I don't know about her....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 109 days ago

26 March 2008 (M) - Hey everyone! Me and my gf have been together for nearly 2 yrs now, we broke up for 4 months and only got back together a couple months ago..She was the one to leave before and now it seems that i have the power, but im not greedy or i don't take ...

Help! I'm feeling emotionally bruised, angry at the past, and guilty for what's happening in my marriage...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - I have been married for over 13 years and have a 8 year old daughter. For the last 3 years I found myself being attracted to a coworker and I am still desperately in love with him. He on the other hand has indicated he likes me many times but at the ...

When is it time to quit trying and just end a relationship completely?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - How do you know when to just quit trying with something that feels like it should work, but doesn't? I dated a guy for three years, and he was, without question, the love of my life. In all my life, I would never get bored of him, and we had ...

I won't to leave hin again but this time for good. Any tips?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 121 days ago

26 March 2008 (F) - Okay I know I am only 17 but I would really like some opinons. I have been in a relationship with a guy for 2 years, he has cheated on me once and I ended it at that but a week later I found myself back in the same relationship. There has been other ...

Is it bad to ask my boyfriend for less attention? I have feelings for a long distance friend...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - Okay well theres this guy and we've met way long ago, since then we've always liked each other. He lives in the Philippines and i live in United States. but no matter what everytime i go there its like the feelings never go away. In other words ...

His arguing and rudeness since our wedding is causing my love for him to disappear...I have no idea what to do.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - My husband of one year (although we have known each other for nearly three years) is becoming more and more insulting towards me. Prior to our marriage he was fantastic for 18 months, full of fun, loving caring and gentle. The day we got married he ...

Should I leave my boyfriend and should I tell about my feelings to his best friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - I have a problem and I don`t know what to do. I`m in a relationship and we have been living together for 3 years, some time ago we also got engaged. He is a really great man and I love him a lot, but not a way I should. I have been feeling this way ...

I met him online and then he "disappears" so is there still hope?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

25 March 2008 (F) - i met this guy on a lame site. well he messaged me saying he is also new in the city and that he didnt have friends, and i am in the same situation. so we talked. i learned that he is looking for a long term relationship, which he mentioned on his ...

Please help ... Married just under a year and feelings for another man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I can't belive I am sitting here writing this. I am so sad and guilty ... My husband and I have been together for almost 8 years. We are high school sweethearts so to speak and have been married for just under a year now. My husband has some anger ...

He said he'd never leave me but he just broke up with me....should I wait for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 110 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - Well, I've been with this guy about 2 months and knew him about a year. 4 days ago he left me. He said that his feelings for me changed, he said at first he was really happy but then about a week ago he changed. He said that he didn't love me as ...

My pregnant girlfriend has cheated on me, and I am in love with her mate. Who do I choose...?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 3years now but have fallen in love with her best mate. My girlfriend has always had a bad reputation but i gave her a chance. I have been seeing her mate behind her back for about 9 months now and really like her. ...

Do you think he could be gay?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

24 March 2008 (?) - I have been seeing a great guy for a year now and absoloutely love him to death, however, sex has never gotten off the ground, we have obviously tried it a lot but either it is over and one with before its begun or it just doesnt happen. We get on ...

Why does my wife prefer masturbation to making love with me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

24 March 2008 (M) - I've been married since 2005 and I love my wife we both work away in the mining industry our sex life is 0. She tells me that she is tied all the time witch I can understand so am I. The problem is I try and do what I can to get her intrested and ...

My husband wants a divorce and for us to go back to dating each other....

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - This is long...I have been married to my second husband for 3 years. Together a total of 5 years. He has never been married before. I have two teenagers from my previous marriage, they were 7 and 9 when we got together. About 4 months ago, I mo...

He wants to use me until he gets tired of my body and get's mad if I don't let him!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 122 days ago

24 March 2008 (F) - I have a friend with benefits for over four years. One day he told me that he will soon get tired of my body. i have been waiting for him to get tired of my body for the last three years but he just keeps coming back for more. I am tired of him but ...

My husband rarely wants to talk or have sex! Am I overreacting?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - Hello, I have been with my husband for over 18 years, our eldest child is nearly 17. In all that time he has never made me feel special. I have always worked and tried hard to be accomodating to him. (I admit that sometimes I have gone 'off t...

If I don't call her she calls me, missing me - and if I call her she is mean and hateful. We're apart now as she needed a pause, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 124 days ago

23 March 2008 (M) - ok me and my ex girl friend have been broke up for about 2 months we are still in love she just wanted to get a teenage life out of her system because she never had one when she was a teenager she had to cook clean be the mom her parents werent ...

He only became interested when it was clear I was willing to leave him... is it safe to meet him away from home?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - i have written for suggestions pertaining to my boyfriend and not knowing stuff about him, i have taken steps to finding things out, and questioning him about his family and stuff. we had a disagreement where he used curse words at me and in not so ...

I feel it'd be too cruel to finish the relationship now, as she was a virgin when I met her...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

23 March 2008 (M) - dear cupid.. I have been with my girlfriend for about a month now, we were getting on really well, seeing eachother all the time. Now i feel like i have gone off her, getting bored and texting and im interested in other girls that i meet (in secr...

I feel like I don't know who I am and that I need a break...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - ok, well i have been in a relationship now for basically 3 years..i'm 19 years old. i love my boyfriend so so much but just feel like i need a break..i don't even know who i am, except that i'm his girlfriend, that seems to be my only identity. on ...

What is happening here? I feel my husband is no longer in love with me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 124 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - Hello, I would like if you all could just give me some advice.Next month will make it 16yrs of marriage.My husband is a good provider and I know that he cares for me but I am not sure that he is inlove with me.We have 2 kids by the way. one 14 and ...

I know it's for the best, but help me find closure and seal the deal to stay apart!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - Me and My boyfriend of 3 years just broke up recently we always used to break up on n off but this time i know it's for real because this time he's said that he doesn't love me anymore but mayb we'll meet in the future, that i'm his first love and ...

I need your help about a guy who dumped me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 125 days ago

23 March 2008 (F) - ok...im seing this guy i used to like, well what i mean is that i wanted him as my man but he did dump me...we kept on talking on the phone like good friends really good friends at the point were we are sleeping together...he be acting like he ...

When do you know "it's over"?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - I love my fiance... at least I believe I do, when things are great, they are great, but ever since we got engaged and moved in together, theres A LOT less sex and since I have started school and we dont spend that much time together during the week ...

I haven't seen him for 3 weeks, is he losing interest?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - I like a boy in my year we are both 17, i have been talking to him like a good friend for the past month and have grown to like him and think he is fancyable, i think he thinks the same as me now, he always comes over to talk to me at every given ...

If you know that a relationship is not going to last then why do you bother?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - If you know that a relationship is not going to last then why do you bother? I've been with my boyfriend for 6 mths, he's 22, so 4yrs older than me. We come from different racial backgrounds. My parents do not agree with my relationship but...

My fiance bores me, there's no passion. But I'm pregnant with his baby...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - I am bored with my husband to be. I am also pregnant with his second child. I feel that I am going to marry him because I don't have a choice. Sure I love him but was never in love with him. He does not touch me, we don't even make out at all. He ...

Now he likes me, but the problem is I don't like him any more then a friend and I can't tell him this because it will break his heart.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 125 days ago

22 March 2008 (F) - I have a guy friend who I used to like, that's how I became friends with him in the first place. Now he likes me, but the problem is I don't like him any more then a friend and I can't tell him this because it will break his heart. What do I do? He ...