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Archived questions from: January, 2017 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Gave up my family and now he treats me badly

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

30 January 2017 (F) - Hello all. I'm married for 20 months now. It was a love marriage, a run-away marriage actually. My husband was the nicest man ever. So polite so caring so adorable. After I ran away from my home and few months passed he changed. He has become...

How can I end this selfishness in my marriage?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

30 January 2017 (F) - Hi guys. Im just looking for a bit of advice. Im 24 years old and I married my husband last year. Lately he has been very selfish and entitalled. Every morning he is rude and angry. He always complains about having to go to work. I am so sick and ...

I want a prettier girlfriend who cares about being fit and healthy. What do I need to do?

This question has 23 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

29 January 2017 (M) - I want a prettier girlfriend. I've been with mine for a few years now and it seems wrong to leave. I love her but the lack of effort (exercise counts) is making me less attracted to her. Bringing it up makes me the bad guy. What should I do?...

Should I give up on men? Is there such a thing as a normal guy? I want a relationship with a man.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2461 days ago

29 January 2017 (F) - I have have asked for advice before here and wanted to come back a year later to ask maybe what I am doing wrong. I am a woman in my early 30s that has given up on love. I have only been with three men and two had a relationship with. Through t...

I don't want to have a relationship with him but I'd like him as a friend.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - Me and my ex (who i've known my entire life) split up a year ago because he started to treat me bad and was showing signs of unfaithfulness. However, a year on me and him were supposedly over the relationship and he requested that we be friends. We ...

He has told me he no longer loves me ... but we have been happier than ever.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I am having some troubles with my fiancé. I am 22 years old and we have been together for four years now, we also live together and have a mortgage on our own house. Over the pst few months he keeps saying things like "I need some space" and "I wa...

Affair with my best friend but I have a partner of 18 years and a one year old that we had after years of trying. What do I do now?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

28 January 2017 (F) - I've been with my partner for 18 years I do love him and we have a one year old which we tried for years to have. But for the last 3 year I have been having an affair with my best friend who's showed me so much love , a lot more love than I seem to ...

Shall I tell him? Do I let it out or just walk away without saying anything ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

19 January 2017 (F) - Do you tell the person you love that you have feelings for him ? Despite the fact he is not that friendly to you and never indulges you in their personal thoughts and life ? I have been thinking about telling the guy I love that I loved him but ...

Is there any way I can change his perceptions about me? How should or could I attract him back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2654 days ago

18 January 2017 (F) - Its been 50 days. My boyfriend broke up with me.. It was all my fault. Its been 2 years. For 1 year we were together when i was working ..but from last 1 year we are in long distance. I live with my parents and i am jobless. My career is ...

I'm in a long-distance marriage and at a loss! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2656 days ago

17 January 2017 (F) - I am in my second marriage and my husband and I live in separate states. There is, of course, a backstory...but my main issue is simple. He does not make our marriage a priority. In this day and age, I don't even hear from him every day. If I do, I ...

Why do I have to hunt down my vacationing boyfriend by text before he answers?

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

15 January 2017 (F) - I need your help. I need to know whether I should end a 3.5 year relationship. My boyfriend is traveling outside the country with family. He has been in touch by text because it's expensive to send texts and make phone calls. So his texts...

Do I stay with this guy or do I leave?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

15 January 2017 (F) - Hi. I am needing advice. When I was 18/19 I got engaged to my ex, we were together almost three years. I was 21 when we split. I met my current partner within three months of my ex and I splitting up (my ex cheated and got engaged to s...

My boyfriend says I can't leave him because he's planned the next 5 years around me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2658 days ago

13 January 2017 (F) - Have I fallen out of love with him or am i just depressed? Recently i can't bring myself to say i love you to my boyfriend. We have been friends for 3 years and have dated since last May. In October i felt the same way as i do now just feeling dow...

My crazy abusive ex got a job where I work.

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2664 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I was in a emotionally abusive relationship for years. I finally had the strength to get away. For years, the cycle was that she would do something horrific to me, and then break up with me. We would proceed not to speak for a while until she ...

My husband wants me to date other men for sex!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

9 January 2017 (F) - I have been married for 17 years my husband for the past 5 year asks med to have sex with other men while we are having sex it gets him harder, should I? I have explained to him sex is more then sex to me, he says for me to go out and date then. I ...

I need advice on making my marriage better. Should I feel guilty about the flirtation I had on a weekend away?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2663 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - I need some advice on making my relationship better. I'm married and have been for 13 years, the first thing I want to say is I love my wife. I am in my mid 40's whilst my wife is 7 years older than me, up until last year I was fairly overweight ...

What do I do? How can she still want to be with someone who she is not sexually attracted to, nor IN love with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2648 days ago

8 January 2017 (M) - Apologies if I ramble but I have some much to get off my chest ?? My Fiancée of nearly 14 years and the mother of my 2 beautiful daughters (11 and 6) had told me she loved me but is not IN love with me several years ago. We have also not had...

I'm dating one boy but think about another.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2670 days ago

4 January 2017 (F) - Hi I'm a sophomore girl in high school. I'm dating a junior boy, well call J, but I like a freshman, we'll call F. Any way J and I have been together for 2 months and he doesn't even hold my hand, I'm not sure I like him anymore, but he says he's ...

My boyfriend didn't include me in his birthday plans

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2669 days ago

3 January 2017 (F) - Is my boyfriend trying to distance himself from me? Or is he trying to break up with me slowly? My boyfriend is acting like a jerk and didnt invite me to his birthday celebration. We spent NYE together and everything was normal. He was ...

Is there still a chance for us ? Maybe it has been way long over and I just didn't want to accept it? What can I say?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2673 days ago

1 January 2017 (F) - I've only known my boyfriend for eight months and we've been dating for sixth months but it has been an on and off relationship. The first few weeks or month was everything I ever wanted to be in a relationship where my boyfriend would take me ...