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Archived questions from: November, 2006 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I want him to realize that we can do this long term, how do I go about this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6357 days ago

30 November 2006 (F) - How cnn you convince someone that you are right for each other long term? My boyfriend is having a crisis that we cant make each other happy if we stay together and get married, etc. He doesnt feel the way he used to - that we were definitely going ...

I'm 25 and fit... She's 23 and has piled on the pounds... how do I fix this?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6337 days ago

30 November 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years now, earlier this year we unepectedly had a kid. I love my daughter and girlfriend very much but my girlfriend and i are suppose to marry next year and my girlfriend has piled on the pounds like no business ...

There is nothing wrong with him, other than I am a little bored

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6348 days ago

28 November 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now (we're both 20). For the past three months, we have spent literally 24/7 together. We have all classes together, are together even when not in class, sleep together every night, I don't even SHOWER ...

Now he has been thinking and wasn't sure he liked me

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

27 November 2006 (F) - Ok so I like this guy and according to his friends he liked me too. We hung out a lot and he even put his arm around me and held my hand while we watched a movie with a bunch of his friends. Yet two days later I went to his school's hockey game with ...

We have one child and he left and I still do not know why! It's like he gave up on us so easily. Help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6360 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - we have separated after 10 years and one child and i still don't really know why??? i found out last year that my husband had kissed an old friend of mine whilst very drunk! i felt betrayed but would have given him the benefit of the doubt as he ha...

Bf told me doesn't want marriage and lids and is basically ignoring me now! What can I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6252 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i need some advice, ive been in a relationship for just over 2 yrs. i love my boyfriend very much. however we have been having some problems recently. he doesnt want to go out with me anymore, goes out with his friends. hes lost interest in sex and ...

Our relationship is missing the privacy we need! I'm distancing from him and I'm concerned!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

25 November 2006 (F) - i've been going out with this guy for a year. i thought i was really in love with him. Hes started this job and now i hardly see him. i used to only see him at weekends bt now i only see him for maybe and hour and a half a week. im completely bored ...

I love her but I feel our relationship is not going anywhere! Are we just too different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6360 days ago

25 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriend and I are both 20, have been dating for 2 years since we met in high school. Coincidentally we both planned to go to the same college (before we got together), so we've dated since. However, I feel like our relationship isnt going ...

I think she is seeing someone else and she is brushing me off. I think I love her but is it too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6363 days ago

24 November 2006 (M) - Hello, I am 28yrs old, have been in many relationships. I started dating a 32 year old about 2 months ago. Things were going great with us, so I thought...one day she was upset at the fact that I was not being affectionate with her and didn't k...

He always has a problem with my friends, is he a lost cause?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6364 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - Things are a bit rocky with my boyfriend. Since March we've split up twice but always got back together after a few weeks. When we are together we get on really well and i love him to bits but we always argue about the same thing - he always puts ...

I don't want to be his sex buddy...it's all or nothing for me! Is he a lost cause?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6364 days ago

23 November 2006 (F) - 6 years ago I started a relationship with this guy, I was his first, and due to my insecurities regarding our age, im 9 years older , I eventually broke up with him, to put it bluntly I hurt him a lot, mainly because of my feelings for him and ...

He's become distant and hardly phones me! What should I do about this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6365 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - The guy I have been seeing the last few months has suddenly become quite distant after being very attentive, caring and telling me how much he liked me. He now hardly phone and hasn't wanted to see me as much. We are in late 20's. I really like ...

I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years! I cant get over it!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6335 days ago

22 November 2006 (F) - I broke up with my boyfriend of 3 years tonight. We always seem to break up once and a while and we get back together. Tonight he was snooping through my mail and checked out my credit card statement. He immediately begn to call me irresponsible, ...

My guy is "too busy" to see me because he's always doing work at his house!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6366 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - This bloke I've been seeing for about 8-9 weeks has recently moved into his new house and been there for about 2 weeks now. Before he moved he was perfect and always wanting to see me and take me out. Now however he says he busy all the time wit...

He offered to visit me while I'm in the hospital..is he just being sympathetic or is he really interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

21 November 2006 (F) - Hello. I am a bit confused. was seeing quite a bit of a guy for couple of months, recently we haven't seen each other for few weeks, as we have both been busy. I spoke to him and told him I was going to go into hospital - he offered to come and ...

I feel like she's having second thoughts... Is she?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6356 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - My girlfriends emotions seem very flip-flopped. When she has a very bad day, it's "impossible" for her to say "I love you" to me, even if I say "I love you" first. She claims that she does, but just can't say it... it's very confusing. Many other ...

My BF is avoiding physical contact, because it might lead to sex...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

21 November 2006 (M) - I recently found out that my bf of years has been avoiding physical contact like kissing or hugging, as it might lead to sex, which it would seem he no longer wants very often. I was gutted that he felt like this and now feel as though I can't ev...

He gets to flirt with other people... I don't. What's really going on in his head?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6366 days ago

20 November 2006 (F) - Does he still love me? My bf says he loves me, but lately it just seems like he says it to keep me around rather than actually meaning it :( he meets up with girls and constantly flirts, but says i cant meet up with my guy friends and h...

How do you get over someone?? Saw him today and it's really upset me..what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6369 days ago

18 November 2006 (F) - how do u get over someone!! i liked this person 4 about a year but then he moved and i kinda forgot about him after a bit but i saw him today for the first time! and iv been realy upset all day! i realy need to get over him any tips...

He told me he loved me and would wait for me; later I told him I loved him - Now he needs time to think! What's that about??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6370 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - Okay, I have been in a serious relationship for about 8 mths. We are in our late 20s. He told me he loved me and would wait for me to feel the same. Well, about 2 months ago, I opened up to him. Then 2 days ago, he tells me that he can't picture ...

I feel we've grown apart - should I leave my husband?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4389 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I Love my Husband but am not In love with him. I have been with my husband for 18 years ( he was my first relationship), until recently i thought we had the perfect marriage 2 children , nice home etc. Then i met someone at work who i am very att...

I felt like his texts mean he's pulling away... Am I right?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

16 November 2006 (F) - I'm going to try and summarise my situation as much as possible. met 7 months ago. He found my number and starting texting me. we live 8 hours drive away from each other. He was warm and exciting and text me 5/6 a day, telling me what hes' ...

My husband left me for a girl that's our daughter's age. I still love him! Please help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6371 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - i was married for 23years have 4 kids and grandchild on the way my husband who always told me he could never stop loving me no matter what has just walked out on me he told me he does not love me any more and fell out of love about a year ago. i am ...

He says he doesn't love me anymore, but I don't think that's completely true. I'm so confused! Plese help!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5558 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - i recently fell in love for the first time with my boyfriend. who in my eyes is the most perfect person ive ever found.but then he finished me a few weeks ago.and i am heartbroken,he wont talk to me face to face even to get his stuff.he still ha...

I want to split w/ my husband but feel guilty about it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6372 days ago

15 November 2006 (F) - I have been married for 18 years and have 6 children, I want us to seperate because I dont fancy him anymore. He is very hurt and I feel so guilty and confused and I feel I am abandoning him. We have tried to seperate twice before and I changed my ...

I'm falling for someone else and can't bring myself to end it with my current bf!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - I dont know what to do. I'm in a bit of a rut with my current boyfriend. I've been with him since I was only 15 and I'm now 19. I feel like I've out grown the relationship and hes done some things in the past that i cant get over. The problem is ...

Why does my bf act so differently now? Is it because I get so jealous?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

13 November 2006 (F) - My bf has totally changed way he acts, now i am always accusing him and getting jealous and the other day he said he doesnt love me as much as used 2. So i dnt give him any space its cos i love him and there is distance. he is always talkin to ...

Things have cooled between us..Should I send him a naughty text?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - Hello, I have been seeing a guy a few months and things seem to have cooled a bit. He is away with work for a few days and I was thinking of sending him a naughty text - for example me in my lingerie. Do you think I should and do you think he ...

We've split up but I still have to work with him! How do I get through this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6375 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - I have just been dumped by the guy who I thought was "the one" as he is going throgh some family problems and needs to be alone and just focus on his family. To make matters worse we work together, we actually sit beside eachother!I am mad about him ...

If I think I love him still, then why did seeing the old pics of us together..make me feel physically ill?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6375 days ago

12 November 2006 (F) - Ok, so I'm still in love with my ex boyfriend, and I'm struggling to get over him, but I have to because he has a girlfriend. I was just deleting unused files off my computer when I found photos I'd saved of us together, kissing and being intimate. ...

My ex has turned wild and is hurting herself and me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6376 days ago

12 November 2006 (M) - Worried about a friend... Three months ago my girlfriend of 2 years broke up with me - she said her feelings changed for me (and they had suddenly, which I am certain was mostly due to a medication change for her chronic depression). It...

Our relationship isn't what it used to be, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6377 days ago

11 November 2006 (F) - Well... me and my boyfriend have been dating for 9 months... this is the longest relationship iv'e ever been in. We have been "taking breaks" thoughout this relaionship though. For the last couple weeks i have been feeling different about him. I ...

Can't stop thinking about him and it's driving me insane! Help me!!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5027 days ago

10 November 2006 (F) - ppl i need your help so so much. im at uni, 18 years old, not bad looking. back in may i met the most amazing guy ever!!!!!! i have never ever felt the same about anyone before. he moved to america when we had been together just 3 months. I ...

Should I just ask him what is going on? Perhaps I have scared him off..any advice?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6377 days ago

10 November 2006 (F) - Okay someone please help me out here. Was seeing a guy 1-2 times a week for the last few months. It was all good and he took me out for dinner and treated me really well. He was even planning on introducing me to some of his family. His b'da...

I am in love with my bf's best friend. Please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6377 days ago

10 November 2006 (F) - My boyfriend of 10 yrs best friend and me are in love, nothing physical aside from a kiss has happened. Been feeling this for 3 years now. Got busted emailing back and forth a couple of times...don't know what to do. To add to the turmoil we all ...

Why is love such a difficult thing? Bf and I are drifting apart...any advice?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

10 November 2006 (F) - why is love such a difficult thing? i have been with my boyfriend for almost 2yrs and with me away at college its getting harder for us to stay together. we are in love and we both agreed that we where going to get married when i graduate in a ...

She doesn't love me and I am finding it hard..to move on- Help me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6376 days ago

10 November 2006 (M) - i broke up with my girlfriend and i still love her but dont want to because she dont love me and im finding it hard to move on. can someone help me please?...

I feel like his babysitter how do we overcome this!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6353 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - im confused about my feelings when my fiance of 5 years goes drinking without me. im always invited to go and sometimes i choose to stay at home or do something else. im some what okay with him going. i have no reasons to distrust him. but i get ...

Why is it that nothing stays the same forever?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6379 days ago

8 November 2006 (F) - is there anything called a perfect relationship?or is it a matter of adjustments?i somehow feel that in a relationship the starting is gr8 then slowly u reach a point where u wonder where were we months back are we ever gonna be like that again i ...

Porning husband or a "true" gentlemen. Is the grass greener?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6373 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - porning husband or true gentleman?? I have been married 10yrs. My husband reads porn and ogles other women when we are out. Even though I have told him it hurts me he has toned it down but seems to have trouble stopping. I also have a male frie...

A year on and we argue every day. I think it's become unhealthy - should I act?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6381 days ago

6 November 2006 (F) - Hey Dear Cupid Agony Aunts, I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend a little over a year now, and things have always been really shaky with us. We argue everyday and sometimes the arguing gets on a "near breakup" level Although neither of us ...

We're due to get married but I'm soo bored with our relationship. How do I tell her it's over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6316 days ago

5 November 2006 (M) - I have been with my girlfriend for over 3 years and are due to get married next year. The only problem is that i really don't like living with her and i'm bored of our relationship. I don't know how to tell her that it's over, i'm hopeless at thin...

In our break I met somebody else. Now I don't know what I want!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6383 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - Hello i hope someone can help me make sense of what i am going through just now, i have so many mixed emothions and feel really confused. I will try to keep this as short as i can. Well the thing is I was with my fiance for 4 years, i am 28, he is ...

My boyfriend wants to "take a break"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6141 days ago

4 November 2006 (F) - my boyfriend of four years wants to "take a break"..he says that he feels like he his holding me back from something in life and he just doesent want a relationship right now....he still says he loves me but he says not as much as he used to.....im ...

I hurt him to avoid missing him! What am I doing!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6266 days ago

3 November 2006 (F) - My Boyfriend of almost 3years is in the army, he has been there for about 6months now. the reason im asking for advice is because when he is away and i really miss him i'll start an arguement over nothing. i find that if we are argueing i dont miss ...

I keep getting mixed messages from my ex. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6384 days ago

3 November 2006 (F) - My bf and I broke up in August and basically had no contact for 2 months..I only saw him once and he only called me once (he ignored all my attempts). Our breakup was primarily because of our distance apart and being busy and dealing w/other non ...

My boyfriend has been ignorning me for a week! He emailed me and said he needs time to himself. What's going on?!?!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6385 days ago

2 November 2006 (F) - PLS I NEED HELP RIGHT NOW!!! backround: me and my bf have been going out for almost a month, and weve been really close untill last thusday or friday. all a sudden, he stops talking to me in school, stoping hanging out with me in school, i...