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Archived questions from: July, 2013 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

What are your opinions on pretending to be happy in a broken relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3882 days ago

30 July 2013 (F - I am wondering what your thoughts are for situations like these. A lot of people cannot leave relationships immediately for various reasons...kids,illness, compromises... I am wondering if you guys have ever needed to pretend everything is ...

Do I stay with someone I am no longer in love with because its a safe option and convenient?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3884 days ago

30 July 2013 (F - Hi everyone, any advice given would be greatly appreciated. I've been with my boyfriend for 3 years and 7 months, we got together at the young age of 17. The relationship was obviously a teenage fling at first but now we've grown into our adult y...

Stuck in an unhappy marriage. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3880 days ago

30 July 2013 (M - Hi everyone, I've been married for over 15 years. For the most part it has been a good relationship. I've always been an easy going guy and not a lot rattles me, but over the course of the years I've really felt like I've taken it on the c...

The relationship has been going down hill for the last year ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

25 July 2013 (F - Dear Cupid My bf of 4 years was not nice to me for the past 1 year, he behavior towards me is deteriorating as each day goes by. I am not sure whether all relationships goes sour as days goes by or its just me. He never picks up when i call, g...

Should I stay or should I go? I could start over...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

25 July 2013 (F - I am a 39 year old mom of 2 who is in my 2nd marriage. I divorced my kids' father because he has a narcissistic personality disorder. He spent money wildly on basically fake businesses deluding himself deeply into thinking he was a gifted ...

After she moved away, we barely talk anymore because she's always too tired or too busy or talking to this guy! Do I break up with her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3886 days ago

24 July 2013 (M - I've been in a relationship for 3 years with this girl now. Last year, she moved to another city with her family. She used to call and message me all the time. After 3months,she joined a college for her further studies. She became friends with a guy ...

He's become all clingy and weird due to his depression and I'm wondering if I should suggest we not speak during my holiday to think things through. Thoughts?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3889 days ago

24 July 2013 (F - Hi everyone. Please bear with me for a bit. I know it is long. The situation is very strange. The man in question is a friend of a friend. We met in March and he was not supposed to be anything but a fling, an one night stand even. I was fine w...

Boyfriend is withholding affection after argument

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3890 days ago

24 July 2013 (F - My boyfriend and I are both in our late 20's and we've been living together for 3 years. Four days ago we got into a pretty bad argument where I suggested a break up in the heat of the moment (not something I want at all) and he agreed to. I then ...

I need to get unbored of my realtionship please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3891 days ago

23 July 2013 (M - I feel like I am being bored in my relationship. We have been going out for almost 6 months, and I'm starting to slowly not like her anymore. I used to love her so much, then I went on vacation for 5 days and now I dont like her as much. I dont know ...

Decided to end the relationship then he sprung a trip on me

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

22 July 2013 (F - I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years. I have not been happy for quite a while and I finally made the decision to finish the relationship when I was on a short vacation with my family last week. However, I got back to find out he has ...

Committed relationship, but things have run their course ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3893 days ago

21 July 2013 (F - Hi everyone, would really appreciate any advice you have to offer! Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years, everything was amazing at first, but now i feel like things have taken its natural course! I feel like weve bee...

Why did he react that way to my confession ? Please help me to understand...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3896 days ago

18 July 2013 (F - Hello ! So here it is, sorry in advance for the length of this message... but I'd really need an enlightenment on this :/ I'm at university and I met a guy almost a year ago in class: he is the one that approached me at school. We talk...

He works nights and we don't do anything together. I'm afraid of being alone, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3898 days ago

17 July 2013 (F - Hey everyone so im a little new to the site. But I'm needing some advice. i'm 20 years old i have a 2 year old daughter. Through out my whole dating life i've only dated 4 guys. They were all serious relationships. Any way. My last relation...

My boyfriend never has time for me, should I dump him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

16 July 2013 (F - My boyfriend never has time for me should I break up with him ?? We were dating about 3 weeks before and things were great he was seeing me a lot then I got upset with him over him not adding me as a friend on facebook so I dumped him. I got really ...

I don't love him any more but can't let him go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3897 days ago

16 July 2013 (F - i no longer love my boyfriend of 4 years but can't let him go. its driving me crazy as my life feels like its being wasted away before my very eyes. im 27 and fed up to the back teeth of my other half, he is disloyal, untrustworthy and does not res...

I've lost the attraction but I don't understand why.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3898 days ago

16 July 2013 (F - Hi, I really need help, I'm so stressed and I have no idea what I'm going to do! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years we have no children and we both still live with our parents (we are 27, sad I know!) At the first 2 maybe 3 years o...

Since I no longer pay for everything, he doesn't hardly see me at all!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3899 days ago

13 July 2013 (F - Ok I'm back with more questions. I am still in the LDR. But have made some much needed changes. I no longer pay for everything but with that change it means he doesn't see me hardly at all. So this is probably the last straw. This weekend I drive 3 ...

Six dates already, why is he not asking me out again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

11 July 2013 (F - Hi, So I have just started dating a guy about a month ago. At the beginning, I was very reserved and didn't kiss him till the 5th date. We always hang out and he always texted me after the dates saying he cannot wait to kiss me. I told him, I don't ...

I was with him for 13 years, once a week, how do I accept it's over now?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3903 days ago

9 July 2013 (F - I am in a relationship with a man for 13 years. He is 50 and I am 42. He has never invited me out and neither have I met his family or friends. We use to talk on the phone regularly at nights and on weekends. We are intimate once every week from we ...

I finally told my girlfriend about all the concerns I've been holding back. Was I an idiot? Should I have just kept my mouth shut and carried on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3905 days ago

9 July 2013 (M - My Long-term GF Leah and I have split up, at least for a while. We've been together just over 7 years now, had a couple of bumps down the road, but nothing we couldn't overcome. I met her in college the opposite side of the country where I'...

I thought he was the one, now I'm not so sure

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3906 days ago

8 July 2013 (F - Hey guys i really need your help. I thought i loved my boyfriend more than ive ever loved anyone in my life. i know im only 19 but i thought it was different this time. i saw our future together and looked forward to a happy perfect life after we ...

I resent my boyfriend for what he said and I don't feel as if he should "benefit" from the relationship in that case!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

8 July 2013 (F - Hi everyone. My question is about my boyfriend of 3 years, he is 8 years older and has 2 kids. He does not want more and told me he would never have chidren with me. I was not sure what I wanted, but have now decided I don't want to have kids. So ...

Is it possible that I'm turning gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3904 days ago

3 July 2013 (M - I've been straight but started getting nasty thoughts progressively. Thinking about getting a prostate massage from my wife and even doggy with a strap on. Today I just thought of kissing this guy that followed me in the mall. I have been married ...

Am I overreacting here? Or do men do this??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3912 days ago

2 July 2013 (F - Ok, my bf and I have been together for 3 years. He's 35 and I'm 31. We've hit a rough patch the past year, where we've had more fights and just can't seem to get along as much anymore. Sometimes when I ask him a question he won't give me a full ...

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