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Archived questions from: May, 2011 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Why aren't I sexually attracted to him when he's the hottest guy I've dated?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4707 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My boyfriend is smokin' hot. We both have really deep feelings for eachother. He wants sexual activity, but the idea to me makes me gag. Normally I love being sexual with my boyfriend but its different for him. Why aren't I sexually attracted to him ...

We haven't spoken in months, but he has kept me very much a part of his life. What does he want?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4713 days ago

31 May 2011 (F) - My ex and I were together for 3 years and 8 months. Most of the time our relationship seemed nearly perfect except for the fact that we lived an hour away from each other. We both have children. My daughter lives with me and he likes to spend alot ...

A choice between two people!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4715 days ago

30 May 2011 (F) - Hi! I have sort of a dilemma, and was hoping I could get some advice.. I have been dating with person x for a period of 2 years now. It has been a very rocky relationship with lots of break-ups and problems the main being that he lives with his...

I'm wondering if this is all for nothing!

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29 May 2011 (F) - I've been married for 3 years and I thought we were doing okay. My husband's has issues with the way I raise my children two teenage girls whom has been with us for 4 years now. He is very emotionally needy for a Soldier. I do everything around the ...

He left me heartbroken. How can I get over this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Your Open Question: Why is he doing this? am so hurt:( he broke my heart:(? I loved my ex bf so much. I thought we were happy and in love. He use to tell me he loves me everyday. Then he started acting weird and broke up with me. After ...

How do I leave the man I love and start over at my age?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4708 days ago

29 May 2011 (F) - Ummm....I am confused because I am in love with someone that is not willing to love me the way I had hoped to be loved. We have been in a relationship for over 8 years and I know that both of us have been faithful to each other. He is a workaholic ...

After her miscarriage and being diagnosed with cancer, she somehow seems less interested in me. Why is that?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4714 days ago

27 May 2011 (M) - hey agony aunts, im in a pickle and need some advice. Ive been with my girlfriend for a little over a month now, and the first few weeks went great, but then she started feeling sick and went to the doctor and found out she was 6 weeks pregnant f...

Should I be with this guy or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4718 days ago

27 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I'm in a long distance relationship since 4.5 yrs.. My bf is nice and caring but he doesnt put in the extra effort that is required in a long distance relationship. Initially i used to send him hand-made cards or few other personalised stuffs.. ...

I think the girl I like is over me. How can I get over her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4719 days ago

26 May 2011 (M) - well im starting to to think the girl i like is over me. we use to have a thing but now things have changed and she barely talks to me anymore. i really like her but idk how to get over her. any suggestions please? i mean i wanted to ...

I'm just not feeling it anymore with this relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4720 days ago

25 May 2011 (M) - Ok so it's coming up to the 6 month Mark of my relationship, and I'm just not feeling it with her anymore. What first attracted me to her wa that she is really nice and sweet. But I think we don't have a lot in common. As time goes on I find myself ...

Should I try to contact her one last time or just say bon voyage?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4551 days ago

24 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone! So here's the deal, my ''ex'', and I met over an internet game, at first we really didn't care for each other - I thought she was a terrible player, in turn she thought I was an asshole. But then as time went by we kind of grew on ...

I just can’t be just a friend because I will always want her. Please help.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4722 days ago

23 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I have a huge shot in the heart right now and its been two weeks and still feel the same pain from the moment it happened. The final result before you all read the story is that she emailed me and said she wants to be friends, that she ...

I'm in frustrated love!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4723 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - I'm "still" in love with my friend who is kind of still my boyfriend except we don't have sex now. I think he thinks we might not be quite right for each other in the long run, and so doesn't want to. But we spend endless hours together and he ...

He dumped me, but now he wants to be friends

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

22 May 2011 (F) - What is going on here? am I being stupid? My ex boyfriend dumped me saying he doesn't want a relationship and that he fell out of love with me. He was devastated when we split, we got back into contact again and he's saying he wants to be f...

My long distance boyfriend has changed!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4716 days ago

21 May 2011 (F) - i m 17 in committed ldr relation since 2 years.my bf is 18. lately i have realised that the things have changed. my bf has stopped paying attention.he doesn't wish me gm, neither he texts me.at night he hardly calls. what to do so that my ...

I want to apologize, but he doesn't want to tell me what I did wrong!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

19 May 2011 (F) - I want to apologize to a man that I did something that he doesn't like. I don't know what they are but he seems not interested in me anymore and got mad also. we're staying in the same house and he doesn't want to come close to me or where I am. I ...

Emotionally scarred by my ex. how do I move on from this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I want to cut my "ex" from my life completely and its too hard. We live in different country's now but i'm the kind of mug that would jump the next flight out to see him, where as he wouldn't. Its been also 3 years we have been seeing each other, ...

Why do some men not care about women's feelings?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - Why some man are so unconsidered of someone elses feelings... He stringing me along for over a year, always coming back saying that he wants to try things out, knowing how in love i was, I was always honest about my feelings hoping he would make ...

I''m falling for my boyfriends friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

18 May 2011 (F) - I'm falling for my boyfriends friend, what do I do? He gives me more attention then my boyfriend does!...

He dumped me but seems emotional - does he still care about me?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Is it true that if a guy gets emotional towards you after he dumps you, it means that he still cares about you ?. My ex recently dumped me, but he said some cruel things, so it seems like he hates me, but i read that sometimes guys act like that ...

How do I forgive my husband and fall in love with him again?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - I've been married for 10 years. I chose my husband because he led me to believe that he was honest and spiritual. I thought he was perfect. As the years progressed, I found out that he was into porn, he would skirt around the truth a lot, and ...

Did my married lover ever really love me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

17 May 2011 (F) - Does my married man really love me? I also involved with a married man for almost over a year. we were ex-coworkers. At the very beginning we are just friends, I have no feelings for him at all. however, I had problem with my own marriage, was th...

Wife will not have sex with me if she's sober

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4716 days ago

16 May 2011 (M) - My wife will not have sex with me unless she has several drinks in her. We have been married for over 20 years and this has been the case since the begining. When I was younger, I knew that this was kind of disfunctional and I tried to talk to her ...

I have four kids and I am afraid to leave. Should I stay just for the kids?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4727 days ago

15 May 2011 (F) - Hi. I have four kids under 5. My relationship with my husband has gotten cold and I feel extremely lonely. He has been looking online, as I found out not long ago for a companion, because he feels lonely too. He did not tell me anything about it. He ...

I don't want to feel this pain anymore. Need advice on getting over my first love.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4730 days ago

15 May 2011 (F) - My ex girlfriend and I broke about a month ago after 2 years and I'm pretty sure that she already likes someone else and is moving on...which really hurts me :( But I now realize that I really need to move, but the thing is...I don't know how:( I ...

How long should I leave him to have his space?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

15 May 2011 (F) - Well it seems every relationship i have ends up a distaster! Been with my bf for 4 months so not that long really but we get along great and we also work together in the same company so share mutual friends. Recently hes been distant with me ...

How do you respond to someone telling you they no longer find you attractive?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

15 May 2011 (M) - So I'm a gay male that has been in a LTR with another man for over 10 years. We are both in our early 30's and are monogamous. At various points in our relationship, my partner has emotionally and mentally been exploring the idea of being with ...

Wife just admitted to sleeping with my friend when we were dating!

This question has 35 answers - newest was posted 4725 days ago

14 May 2011 (M) - Hi everyone. I am a 33 year old man who has been married for almost 9 years. When I was 19 and gettign ready to go into my second year of college, I met what would end up being my future wife. i was instantly attracted to her. She was amazing. ...

How do I get my unambitious too laid back boyfriend to move out?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4732 days ago

13 May 2011 (F) - I have this live in boyfriend. We have been together for 17 yrs. He's a caring guy but he doesn't want to hardly work. I care about him and I was so in love with him when I first met him.... But he just don't have drive to want anything in life...

Should I let her go? My wife says she loves me but is not in love with me.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4729 days ago

13 May 2011 (M) - My wife told me she loves me, But not in love with me. how should i react to a statment like this. She's been comming to me with these crazy idea's. Like wanting to move to FL. from MI and discussing what would happen to the kids if we were to di...

I'm now in love with my best friend instead of my boyfriend!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4734 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - I am a girl and i have a boyfriend( we,ll call him bob) andy best friend whos a girl ( we ll call her lucy) well the otherday lucy was round and she came out to me and i have always been bisexual and before i knew where i was we were snogging and ...

How do I improve my sex drive and our sex life?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - My husband has only slept with 2 people in his life - myself and one other that was a drunken moment when he was a teenager. Consequently, I found him to be a bit inexperienced (he was 33 when we met) so sex has always been polite and nothing ...

He puzzles me. Why Can't he show love for me? I miss his smiles. He doesn't listen and ignores me.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4730 days ago

11 May 2011 (F) - Hi I have been married for 3 years, blessed with a son. The only problem is my husband.. he rarely smiles at me now, doesn't talk a lot with me, never spends his precious time listening to my "evening chat". When I married him 3 years ago, he wa...

Other people have good relationships. How do I get over a relationship that I ruined, learn from my mistakes and move on?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4734 days ago

11 May 2011 (M) - Over 5 years ago the relationship with my then girlfriend of 3 plus years ended very badly and I have still not been able to put it out of my mind and move on. Before I go on I would like to make it clear that I do not want to get back together with ...

How do I fix or get over these relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4675 days ago

10 May 2011 (M) - I admit I'm not the smartest one when it comes to relationships. I've tried to get her to talk to me when we argue. Its like talking to a wall when I call her over to talk to me. She doesn't like talking on the phone she txts all the time. I've been ...

I promised to stay with husband through thick and thin but I can't take his drinking anymore!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - My husband and I have been married for almost two years now. At the beginning of our marriage he was drunk all the time and very abusive, both physical and verbal. I promised to stand by his side through thick and thin, but lately I just feel like I ...

Husband told me he doesn't love, and he never really has!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

9 May 2011 (F) - I've been married 20 years and my husband is curently deployed overseas. He's been gone for about 5 months. about a week ago he told me that he doesn't love me any more and never really has loved me the way a husband should... He has recently had ...

He loved me when he was married and now he's divorcing he doesn't seem to love me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4736 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - Hi, I've been dating a married man for more than one year. He was never happy in his marriage and during our dating year, I gave him advice about how to protect himsel financially, etc. He is now divorcing his wife and going through a mediator. ...

Is it over? Why does he lie and hide things from me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

8 May 2011 (F) - I Love my man so much, but he lies to me and keeps secrets. I now this as I'll confront him and he'll admit it... Why not just be honest with me in the first place? We went out last night and I knew he had business whilst we were out, he said he'...

He won't commit but I want to build a life with him, what can I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

7 May 2011 (F) - I have been in a relationship (with a mini-break 2 years ago) for 6 years and I love him dearly. I get really frustrated that he wont move forward and commit (ie live together properly) and I voice this to him occasionally. He simply answers he's ...

I don't understand why he says he misses me, yet then is completely ignoring me. Help!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4726 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - Three days ago, my boyfriend and I broke up. We recently just moved out of our apartment together two weeks ago to move back to our parent's places for this summer (I am a student, and he will be in January) I am turning 22 in August and he is 23. ...

Bf and I haven't had sex in 7 months. Should I be concerned that the spark is fading?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4739 days ago

6 May 2011 (F) - My fiance and I have been together for three years and we haven't had sex in seven months. I realize that most people would leave in that situation or at least try to to do something about it but oddly enough, we're both perfectly content. We do get ...

Why am I so upset by this guy?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4738 days ago

5 May 2011 (?) - A guy I used to be sort of "friends with benefits" with, and who I still like a lot, wants to sleep with me even though he now has a girlfriend. He's been with her for nearly 2 years but he's been coming on to me for about a year and a half. We he ...

We're losing the spark and arguing alot! I don't know how to stop it!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - i really need some help, my relationship is really loosing its spark and i don't know what to do, i love my boyfriend so much and i cant walk away from everything we have together, but its just i get annoyed so easy and i pick little petty arguments ...

I'm scared to lose her but she has lost love for me, what can I do to get her back in my arms?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 May 2011 (M) - Me and my girl started dating last year march 2009, things became solid in April, thats when life time promises started...we promised to love each other no matter what obstacles may come our way. We both started so smooth and even when hard times ...

I want to help him and he wants nothing from me!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4740 days ago

5 May 2011 (F) - i met my soulmate 3 years ago. when you know ,,you know. We were friends for 1 year.. than he took my son and i into his home. He has been divorced twice and hurt. I have never introduced my son till now when he was 8. He is 11 now.. He got us out ...

Is this a sign he doesn't love me as much as I love him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Does my hushand love me? Sometimes I feel like my husband does not love me the way i love him, its like when i call him sometimes he don't answer his phone but if he calls me and i don't answer my phone he gets mad. Could this be a sign? Please h...

We are drifting apart, what can I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4741 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for nearly two years but recently i have noticed we are drifting apart rapidly when we are together we hardly talk he is always with his friends and hardly comes over too me our sex life is not really even there and i ...

I still love my ex but I felt a great connection with this other guy...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4741 days ago

4 May 2011 (F) - Why do I feel so guilty?? I asked this question earlier but it got no response so Im gonna try make it shorter now. Im a single 21 year old girl. On Sunday night I went out with friends drinking for May day. I had the best night, I swear its ...

Is it too soon to move on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4439 days ago

3 May 2011 (F) - Please give me advice as im confused. I separated from a 5 year relationship about 12 weeks ago. Although my ex is saying in his head its been over for approx 18 months. We have a child together and I love him but he says we will never get back ...