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writes: I've got a big problem, and it hurts me more all the time...Me and my boyfriend of 16months are madly in love, and have always been ever since we first met. But he's been having a bad few days recently, including today, and he's started being a bit nasty towards me. Today, I think I over-did it a bit on the make-up and he told me, ''By the way, you're face looks horrible today.'' I swear, my heart broke on the spot. He's never said something so uncaring in the past, why now? Is it because he's just having a bad time? He just keeps doing little things that make me feel as though he just doesn't love me. Other girls' boyfriends hold them when you're cold, and treat them like princesses. He used to, but now, I feel unappreciated... but I love him so much.What do I do? Please help... Reply to this Question
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (11 February 2008):
 hi,Talk to him as the other aunt advised. And dont keep it inside and pretend what he says doesnt matter. Let him know the instance he says it that it is unwarranted and not nice. Even if he wants to express his opinion they are nicer ways he could do that. Make your stance know and i bet he will soon start watching his speech!Lots of luck. kelly
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reader, BrknHrted  +, writes (11 February 2008):
You need to have a serious talk with him. You dont deserve to be treated like that. I'm not saying just up and break up with him. Let him know that you are not going to tolerate being treated that way. If he has a problem with what you are trying to say, maybe you shouldnt be with him right now in the first place. 16 months is when a relationship goes more into the comfortable, commitment stage, which is a big change from the honeymoon, infatuation phase. People begin to show their true colors. Just see how it goes. If it doesnt get any better after the talk, or he blows you off, you need to reconsider if you want to be with him or not. I hope I helped.Good Luck!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2008): Talk to him and tell him that you dont appreciate his cold remark. If you did over do the makeup then it is not up to him to be so nasty about it. Ask if just what he is playing at, i would. Tell, that he used to be different and you are not happy about the way he is. If he is having a bad time then there is no need to take it out on you. Talk.
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