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Archived questions from: October, 2014 (see latest in Faded love category)

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If he's not happy why doesn't he just leave?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3374 days ago

31 October 2014 (F - Hi, I'm really new to this site, hopefully you guys can help me with some good advice. I have been with the same man for almost 5 years now and we have a child together who is 4. When I first got with him I was so happy, I fell in...

Falling for partner's friend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

30 October 2014 (F - Hi, I have been in a relationship for 15 yrs. it's not a good relationship and hasn't been for at least 5 yrs or so, we are really only together out of easiness and we have an 8 yr old daughter. Other than that we sort of lead separate lives. The ...

Did I cheat because of how he behaves on line?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

30 October 2014 (F - i have been in a relationship for 14 years. started dating him at the age of 17 him 27 now aged 31 and him 41. im confused. i cheated on him with a friend of ours. i have seen his facebook over the last couple of years with all porn sites and stuff. ...

We got back together but the spark just isn't there

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

30 October 2014 (F - We've been together for 5 years and we lose that spark we had before. We almost argue and fight all the time and we broke up 3 months before and now getting back together again. But things have changed and so do our feelings. He said he doe...

I'm in a badly sex-deprived long term marriage!

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

29 October 2014 (M - I've been married for 22 years, and feel terribly sexually starved by my partner. If I don't ask (often beg, demand or cajole) for sex, I'll almost never get it. Once I tried waiting for three months, to see if she would think of it. She didn't! ...

He's controlling and abusive. What's the best way to handle this situation?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

27 October 2014 (F - Been with my partner almost five years, we have a four year old son together. For the last two years our relationship has been very rocky. It has been an unhappy relationship for me, since being with him he has stopped me seeing family and frien...

Am I right to stay with him when there are so many issues in our relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3431 days ago

26 October 2014 (F - I'm so confused. I don't know if I want to be with my partner of 7 years any more?? The trouble is we have been together for all this time and I wouldn't know what to do or who I am without him. It has been getting clearer over the last year that we ...

Big difficulties ahead. Will this relationship last? What other options are open to me, to consider?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

26 October 2014 (F - A year ago, I was ready to move to another city, transfer to finish school and leave sex work behind. I had been an escort for over 2 years, had a failed marriage and a child not living with me because of my unstable and crazy lifestyle (he lives ...

My ex chose to become engaged 6 days after we broke up. Should I even listen to her explanation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

26 October 2014 (M - My ex left me for another man who is fat, creepy old, and has a 19yr old daughter. The next day after breaking up, shes in a relationship. 6 days after, they are engaged. She is 23, he is 36. She Is a model and gorgeous, and he is disgusting. I su...

Separation anxiety-how long until you get better?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3409 days ago

22 October 2014 (F - Please don't judge and I'm only asking to try to learn and grow as a person. I've been in a relationship for 10 yrs. and for the past year and a half it's been miserable. I had an affair and I didn't fall in love, i did it to satisfy my sexual needs ...

I no longer fancy my wife

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

22 October 2014 (M - Hi all, I am in my 50's been married 25 years got two great kids , grown up, mootgage payed blah blah but just hate my life My wife does a lot, cook, wash, iron that's it, a housemaid She is lazy, layback, won't communicate with me. My life is c...

How do I accept that I'm in a sexless relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

22 October 2014 (F - It bothers me when my guy watches porn and gets himself off. Why? Because he will do it just before I get home, right after I leave, when he thinks I'm sleeping and I am always ready and willing. In the last 5 months we have had sex 5 times. I've ...

I'm just not feeling it for him. He should be perfect for me but I'm not feeling a connection or a spark.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

21 October 2014 (F - Is it normal to date someone and not be in love with them? And if you are not in love with someone, is likely to change? I've been seeing someone for about a month who should be perfect for me. I did meet him on a dating website--the onl...

Is my boyfriend gay? Would another guy not want me because of the acne between my legs?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3436 days ago

21 October 2014 (F - Ok my boyfriend and I have been together for 9 years the past few months our sex life has been dead! Now we are busy I work all the time an we have kids but we have had times where we can have sex but we both don't act on it I keep telling him I am ...

I think he's lost interest in me but I'm afraid to leave him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3438 days ago

19 October 2014 (F - Hey guys.. I have a "boyfriend" but it's a long distance relationship and he tells me he loves me, usually just by words.. He asked me for nudes and I said no way but he kept insisting and saying he loves me. I used to be a shy and quiet girl but I ...

Ten years later, and despite being in a relationship, I am still obsessing about this guy from the past. How can I move on or resolve this ?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3434 days ago

18 October 2014 (F - This is taking over my life. I think about this guy constantly and torture myself by looking at his picture on-line a lot! I hear through the grape vine he's a bit of a player (I hate that in a guy.) But still can't stop thinking what could be if...

Will he ever forgive me for the way I broke up with him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3440 days ago

17 October 2014 (F - I just ended a pretty horrible 2 and a half year relationship. There is no justification but I did it through text message. Each time we talked on the phone prior to break up it would start and I would say that I wanted to break up and then he ...

Is it possible to stay married, and be happy, even though you are not romantically interested in your husband?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3437 days ago

17 October 2014 (F - My husband and I are trying to work things out after many months of suffering because of my affair. I have hurt him so bad that I realized he loved me after believing we were just living as roomrates which I got so used to. My problem is that ...

Our relationship has lost its spark and I want it back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3441 days ago

16 October 2014 (M - My girlfriend and I have been together for almsot 5 years. We started going out young. But recently we both have gotten caught up with college and exams or in my case college and work. We recently have not been able to go out on dates or spend alone ...

I got married less than a month ago and I think it was a mistake! What do I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3442 days ago

14 October 2014 (F - I just got married less than a month ago and I am having all of these feelings and thoughts that it isn't right. That I made a mistake. He isn't the one. I feel so lost because I have been with him for over 5 years... since I was 19 years old. Don't ...

Am I overreacting about my boyfriend's comment?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3443 days ago

14 October 2014 (F - My boyfriend said something last night that has left me feeling insecure this morning so I would like other opinions on whether I'm overreacting and just take it as him being honest. We were talking last night about opposite sexes/physical ...

She says she's fallen out of love with me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3435 days ago

13 October 2014 (M - I'm a 29 male. I have a love problem. Me and my partner have got two kids together and she sed she has fallen out of love with me and need to find herself because she know she loves me but I'm head over heels in love with her. Now they is a bloke in ...

What can I do to fix this relationship? I think he loves me, but sometimes I doubt that.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

11 October 2014 (F - Hi, my boyfriend and I have been together for 5 years. He's sweet and treats me like a princess. I'm his priority in his life. We've both been through so many things together he's going to proposed and marry me next year. Problem is, I reje...

Why did she marry me if she had no attraction for me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3447 days ago

9 October 2014 (M - Wife suddenly tells me she has no attraction towards me... According to her this has happened 2 years ago. She stayed on to hope things will improve. I am devastated. She never really pull up major quarrels with me till she drop this bomb ...

He completely refuses to call me pet names!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3448 days ago

9 October 2014 (F - My boyfriend refuses to call me pet names. I feel so unloved. Especially after sex. Does it mean he does not love me? I only asked him to do that after we make love. Not all the time but he refused. I feel put off having sex with him. Being ...

I don't think I am that much in love with him. Is it key to a happy marriage to be absolutely in love with your future spouse?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3446 days ago

8 October 2014 (F - The story of my life is that never ever a man who I was in love with and adored was in love with me back. Every time something starts and I feel incredibly in love, after awhile an interest in me fades. My boyfriend is a very nice man. He has...

Engaged for a year. Yet he's rarely in the mood for sex. Has our relationship run it's course?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3451 days ago

6 October 2014 (F - I have been engaged to my man for almost a year. We dont go out anymore and sex that only happens when i throw a fit. He always says his back hurts but when it's work he is out the door no problem. So all im good for is to wash his clothes and...

Can a relationship survive an affair? Purely on love?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

2 October 2014 (M - Hi everybody, this is my first time asking something like this, but I guess you can say I'm desperate. I have been with my girlfriend for nearly 5 years, I new I loved her after a few months of being with her at the age of 17. She's amazing, b...

His daily gambling is getting in the way of our relationship!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3454 days ago

2 October 2014 (F - I'm with my fiancee two years and for the first time ever I feel like he prefers his phone more than me. 2 months ago he told me that he would set up a betting account and make very small bets to make money for a savings account. He said his limit ...

There's no spontaneous affection from him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3456 days ago

1 October 2014 (F - My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost two years and we live together. We used to have sex not all the time but 5 to 6 times a month or more. But here recently we haven't at all. We used to sleep naked and now he doesn't at all. He uses his ...

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