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Archived questions from: April, 2013 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

The Crying Game: what to do other than leave this relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4012 days ago

30 April 2013 (M) - Im 40 years old and tired of a four year relationship with a 33 yaer old woman who cry's all the time. Ive asked and tried to comfort but she does it and has done it so much it infuriates me to hear her whiney voice and its always over attention she ...

Should I feel guilty? My ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids, we haven't had sex in over 2 years, and I have started seeing someone!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4013 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - my ex-husband and I live together and take care of our kids we have had no sexual relations in over 2 years he hasn't even tried. he doesn't kiss me or tell me he loves me. He doesn't even touch me in anyway. I have talked to him about it. he said ...

My boyfriend of 3 years has lost interest in me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4014 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid I believe my bf of 3 years lost interest in me. He is not calling/picking up calls when he is away. Not spending any time with me even @ home. Always fighting. I'm not nagging, I don't fight, literally do everything he ask for. What s...

How do I get his attention without seeming clingy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

30 April 2013 (F) - I've been dating my boyfriend for 2 years now and he's told me how much he loves me over the phone and in person. However, lately, he's been very independent. He doesn't talk to me near as much as he used to. I've been trying to get him to pay ...

My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc., but I have some big concerns!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4014 days ago

29 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend/boss might be let go at work and now, he wants to officially meet my family, go out more etc. No one knew about us but some did suspect a little not because we did anything but because one time, during a small meeting where it was a bit ...

I haven't told my parents about him. If I break up with him he'll tell them and I'll be homeless.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

28 April 2013 (F) - So I have been with my boyfriend for 2years and want to break up. If he breaks up with me that's all fine and dandy his family knows everything about us. But if I break up with him... I dont know what he would do my parents don't like him and they ...

We both lost our feelings for each other overnight. How does this happen?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3990 days ago

26 April 2013 (M) - On January 20th, I met this girl at a club and got her number. The next day, I texted her and since we were both bored, we ended up going meeting at the mall later on. Instant connection... We had the best time. Afterwards, we continued textin...

I'm worried that I'm falling out of love

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - Ok, I have been with this amazing girl close to 2 years now. We were friends for 2-3 years before we started dating and we have a great time, rarely fight and I just love her so much. We live very close and see each other every day. We've talked ...

Long Term Relationship Transitioning out of the honeymoon phase

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year. We have lived together before and currently live together again. I believe that I am transitioning out of the honeymoon phase (he did a lot earlier than i did) and I don't know how to handle ...

Is it time to leave? She issued me with an ultimatum: The bachelor party or her

This question has 25 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - My girlfriend(who I live with) and I have been at odds everyday for the last week. My friend has a wedding coming this weekend, and their bachelor party on Friday night. So she has made an effort to fight with me everyday. But to cut to the chase...

I have moved on. But some of my friends from the past have not. How do people handle a situation like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - Hi there, I am a women in my early 30's. For the past 3 years I have made significant positive change in my life in every way......career, education, health etc. The changes have been gradual and have involved moving away from my hometown to ...

We don't have any kids and I even hate to mention this, but should I run before it's too late?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

25 April 2013 (F) - My husband is a jerk and very careless with money! I don't even know where to start!!! Ok, I've taken a few deep breaths and I think I'm ready to explain. My husband is very naïve when it comes to all things money. For example, he wants to tak...

Do the good guy's ever win back the one they love, from the bad boy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

25 April 2013 (M) - Hi, girl's. My question is after women break's up with a good guy, she's been seeing for a little while, because her ex, the bad boy want's her back, the one who treated her bad, he cheated on her , hit her, just a bad guy all around. They alwa...

My boyfriend has told me he has lost interest in me. So should I care about his wish for me to be more "rough?"

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4019 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - So recently my boyfriend has told me he has lost interest in me. He also commented to me saying he wants me to be rough. Since I am soft I don't know how to become rough. He doesn't mean to be rough while having sex but he means for me to have a r...

He says he loves me, but the way he treats me, it doesn't feel like it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4015 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My boyfriend tells me he loves me but his behavior suggests otherwise to me. About 2 weeks ago we got into an argument and he told me he had been wanting to break up with me since I miscarried 4 years ago. We have been together for 6 years, living ...

If I stay with him is it possible that he will just make me even more unhappy? Because he's not the Bf he used to be. He takes me for granted.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

24 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I have dated for almost 3 years. We've never dated before so being in a relationship with eachother is our first. I have made a few mistakes in the past such as lying. When I first met my bf I lied to him about a few things such as g...

I feel stupid for falling for guys who do the same things to me, so much that I want to leave the country! Advice?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4016 days ago

23 April 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, just looking for a bit of advice and a rant. I am 25 and dated someone from when I was 15 to 20. We grew apart so since then I have been looking for 'the one' I suppose. I just realised that we only get one life and wanted to meet ...

She has no feeling towards me now cause I've acted childish through the whole break up and that I've hardly gave her room to breathe or think

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4021 days ago

23 April 2013 (M) - me and my girlfriend at the time had our first fallout in our 9 month relationship because i started to mention things about our future as a couple. the only reason i said those things was because she couldn't see me as much as she could cause of ...

I pushed her away in the past, but now we've rekindled the spark, but we are both married and not sure how to proceed.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4022 days ago

20 April 2013 (M) - This is hard to share. I met the love of my life (I'll call her Jane) in High School. It sounds typical, but it's true. We dated for three years, and it was love from the very first moment. Those three years were the best of my life. The feelings...

My ex boyfriend now claims he wants to be friends but I don't

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4025 days ago

18 April 2013 (F) - my boyfriend broke up with me a week ago but at school he always stares at me and i'm trying to get over him but it's impossible bcoz he told me that he lied to me so many times and i dont rlly know how to handle it. what should i do? he said we ...

He is not the "one". So how can I break up with him? He gets so upset when I mention breaking up.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - Hi thanks for reading, I'm looking for advice on how to end my relationship without hurting my boyfriend. We have been together for around 18 months, and he is the sweetest boyfriend I could have imagined... But he is not 'the one'. To be h...

How many more years am I suppose to invest in this relationship when I am already tired and over him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

17 April 2013 (F) - My head tells me to leave him but my heart tells me to keep on fighting for his love. He is so indifferent towards me he no longer comes to have lunch with me and he is gone all day. He says his works keeps him busy but what about me what about hi...

I don't feel like I love my boyfriend anymore. Should I leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4020 days ago

16 April 2013 (F) - So my boyfriend and I have been together for over a year now and recently I feel as if I do not love him anymore. He has been all of my firsts. The only guy i have ever dated. Lately it seems that I am wanting more, like maybe for him to surprise me ...

Is he commitment phobic? He told me he loves me but then destroyed my trust in him. What's his problem?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4010 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - Hi, Would like some thoughts on the following... Dated a guy for two years and for the last seven months we have been going through a rough patch about living together. We arranged to sell our houses and live together. I sold mine first and ...

How can I have a better relationship with my mom, boyfriend and children??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4026 days ago

14 April 2013 (F) - I need help. I have "relationship" problems with my mom, my hisband AND my kids! Im 24 years old, and currently moved in with my mother and grandfather to help them care for themselves. My mother is a hoarder. She has many emotional issues, and Her ...

She said she loves me but I think she doesn't understand me and I m thinking to leave

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4026 days ago

13 April 2013 (M) - I'm in a relationship with a gf i really love from 3 years. At the beginning everything was amazing,now i'm having real troubles. I m not working for 4 months,i have bills to pay and not enough money (unfortunately my dad passed away last year and i ...

I think my g/f is getting bored with me

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4031 days ago

12 April 2013 (M) - Hey guys, so my gf of a month has just passed her driving test and now she's seems very off with me. I mean we can spend the day together and not have a real kiss at all, we have gone all the way so it's just really weird. She tries to get rid of me ...

My unemployed boyfriend has HIV, but I still love him

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4024 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - Hi 3 years ago my boyfriend told me he had HIV. I respected him and we went to the clinic and used condoms. His HIV was well under control. We've had some wonderful sex, however he kept it secret, and fell out with me for no apparent reason ...

My boyfriend's parents think I am not good enough for their son

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

12 April 2013 (F) - So this is my deal ..... I dont feel good enuff for my boyfriend and his parents ... cuz I dont act a sertin way or cuz I was brought up differently then them or cuz my kid dosent act the way that they want her to act cuz, im not in school right now ...

Am I overreacting?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. Ever since we met we have pretty much been connected at the hip. We have been talking for hours and hours every day. We have pretty much spent the past 7 years together, like every day except for maybe when ...

Our text life is not going well, nor is our LDR, help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

11 April 2013 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for almost seven months now, and it seems like at the beginning of our relationship everything was good and we always talked and had a good time. Keeping in mind that this is a long distance relationship. Now she ...

I give expensive gifts because I think it'll keep them interested in me for longer!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4033 days ago

11 April 2013 (F) - Hey everyone, Background: I never really had a father -daughter relationship with my dad,we never were really close,but he would always give me the pocket money as a child and give me anything I would point on! Fast forward to now, This has b...

When the breakup comes should I ask him to return the gift?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4027 days ago

10 April 2013 (F) - On Christmas I went way overboard and bought my boyfriend a very expensive gift. A bit over $300. I know. But I'm young and stupid and I guess it's one of those mistakes that when I'm older I'll look back and tell myself "well, that was ridicul...

Is it wrong to cheat if our sex life has sunk to the point of nothing? And possible ED that he will not seek help for.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4034 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - Is it wrong to cheat if your sexlife with your partner is zero? My partner is 43 and I 37. He doesn't have a high sex drive and over the past 6 months we have only been intimate twice. When we are intimate he completely focuses on himself and u...

My current Bf and I have sunk into "too comfortable to be romantic". So how should I handle this growing closeness with my ex-boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4036 days ago

8 April 2013 (F) - I have been dating the same man for two and a half years now. We were high school sweethearts and he did everything so wonderfully. His parents hated me and he stood up for me, even when they told him it was me or them. He picked me. But then fou...

No sex for three years! If he was attracted to me when he married me, why isn't he now? Should I try going to counselling alone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

7 April 2013 (F) - My husband isn't interested in having sex with me and my frustration is turning into anger. I don't know what to do or how not to feel angry and disappointed. Our sex life was great when we dating which made me even more attracted to him. We've been...

I don't think I want a boyfriend anymore, I just want to be alone for awhile. How can I tell my boyfriend this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4038 days ago

6 April 2013 (F) - my dad has just passed out recently and my boyfriend has been supportive and all that but I just feel like I d0nt need him in my life anymore.i wanna be alone not being involve with anyone is the way I feel normal or not coz I have been moody around ...

HOW do I stop being so foolish with and about this man who treated me so appallingly?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4035 days ago

5 April 2013 (F) - So. This isn't really a big deal, but it is something I find really frustrating. I have a bit of a complicated situation with a guy I was with about a year ago. I met him in my home country, we had a fling for a couple of weeks, and then he went...

Lost feelings for my husband, fell for another guy ...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4039 days ago

5 April 2013 (F) - I am 33 and have been married for 3 year, dating for 5. I was coming out of a bad relationship and this older, successful man came into my life. after 2 years, i figured it was time to get married. I started doubting my happiness in my marriage ...

My girlfriend claims we got too close too soon

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4018 days ago

4 April 2013 (M) - I'm so confused on what my gf is taking about. She said she's to attached to me to soon and feels she needs to take a step back. . We've been dating 3 months. The other day she's talking about me meeting all her family and her son and now this. I ...

This constant love/hate thing we have going on has me so confused. I need some advice!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

3 April 2013 (F) - Ok, this might be long just as a pre-warning. I'm not really sure what I am asking here, just people's opinion of it really. A few years ago I had a really messy break up and honestly thought I would be alone for the rest of my life. It took me ...

I want him to make me feel like the luckiest girl in the world!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4042 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - Im 16 and have been in a relationship with my boyfriend (also 16) for almost 13 months. We haven't really done anything physical besides making out a bit but we both decided that PDA is gross and we don't want to risk pregnancy and we also are both ...

Lately arguments seem to be tearing us apart

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - Me and my partner have been together for 3 years, we both love eachother alot and have had our fair share of problems but we cant seem to be apart. Recently we have been having a lot of arguments and it is begining to tear us apart. No matter how ...

How can I get out of this unsatisfying relationship? I want him to leave.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4041 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - Stuck in a Rutt and can't get out! My live in man is 45. We split briefly last year and I now totally regret us getting back together. He set up home on his own after our strained relationship failed due to his abusive behaviour. After almost a yea...

Do I hope for too much too soon? Sick of being "the other one". I know it may sound dramatic, but I need any form of guidance or help. Please?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4036 days ago

2 April 2013 (M) - I have a huge dilemma, I thought I could get text one of my friends for help. Alas, I feel so helpless and I didn't know where to turn from here. So I met this guy on a phone app not a hooking up app, he hit me up first. We quickly started ...

Time to let go? How do you know when you're not in love anymore?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4042 days ago

2 April 2013 (F) - Dear cupid, I would like some advice and opinions on my situation. This may get a bit confusing so I apologize and will be happy to answer any questions you guys may have. I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half. He is the only serious...

Is it normal for a guy not to come everytime?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4043 days ago

1 April 2013 (F) - My bf and I lost our virginity together, he never came the first time. After a year he still doesn't occasionally. And it seems like it takes lots of effort to come. He admitted an addiction to porn halfway into our relationship, and he's let that ...