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Archived questions from: June, 2009 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Girlfriend focuses more on work than our relationship, what should I do?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - Wow I better add a little to this, it seems that I didn't describe enough. My girlfriend and I have been together just over 10 years. Last year I did what I shouldn't and had an affair. But I had the affair after one year of us NOT having sex. The ...

Do you think waiting is the right approach? Will ignoring him get him back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone Thanks in advance for your advice. I am a 26 year old woman in the process of applying to medical school, and began dating a man, who recently turned 32. Our first date was in the first week of March, and it was quite possibly...

I feel like I should move on but would I regret walking away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (M) - I met this girl about a year ago through a couple of friends,she expressed interest right away but I just kept it friendly until about six months ago. I ran into her and gave her my number. She called me that weekend and I met her out for a few ...

Did I find another horrible man?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

30 June 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 1.5 years. We met three weeks prior to me moving two states away, maybe a week and half after my move he showed up saying how much he wanted a relationship. I wasnt ready for one but he was so sweat and swept me ...

Wouldn't he make more of an effort if he was really interested?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 113 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - Hi, i met this guy two months ago and we really hit it off and i think i am falling for him big time. The only problem is i am not sure how he feels about me now, i had sex with him after a few dates (about one month after meeting him) I feel he is ...

How should I break up with a guy that is obsessed and emotionally attached to me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 133 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - okay...i'm 14 and my boyfriend is fixing to be 16. we started dating may 6th and have been dating for a while now. he was in miami for a good month and i couldnt take not seeing him...i cheated a few times but he doesnt know about it... the truth is...

He sent an email saying it was time to move on, but he's just told me he still loves me! So confusing!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 144 days ago

29 June 2009 (F) - hi i have been in a relationship for 7 years. my boyfriend broke up with me last year october because he couldn't marry me beacuse of religion. anyway he is with someone else now. since he has been with her they break up and make up beacuse they ...

Stop feeling love, all of a sudden

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Been in the relationship since the past 9 months. It's my 1st ever. Things weren't easy. She was scared to be in one after a pathetic and disastrous 1st experience. We realised we were really in love in about 3-4 months.I know its a short time. But ...

Although I've been dating the same girl for 4 years, I still have feelings for my ex.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 146 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - I have been dating a girl for 4 years now but still fancy my ex gf whom I dated in college. My ex girlfriend says no she will never date me again, what do I do now?...

It feels like we're incompatible, he doesn't show any affection anymore. Should I stay or go?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 140 days ago

29 June 2009 (M) - Ok, im a guy and im Bi. Im 27. I met my boyfriend who is very closeted eight months ago and he is 21 and very nice and intelligent but immature. I came out of the closet for him and I changed my entire life. He has made almost no changes for me. ...

So many half-commitments! Why can't she just tell me ...yes or no?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

28 June 2009 (M) - Hello. My girlfriend and I broke up a few months ago. I admit, as I did to her recently, that I realize that the way I was acting was kind of abusive towards her. Actually, I made a huge mistake and did and said something when she was leaving me ...

Where did I go wrong? Everything was great at first and now he has me in limbo....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (F) - what is happening??? I met this guy in january, he has the most bright smile i have ever seen, we just click, or at list a thought, he ask my help for a project he wanned to start, and we start to spend a lot of time together, he call me for what...

It feels like her love for me is fading, is there anyway I can restore it?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 148 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Hi...I have a situation that I don't know how to turn it around. I'm currently in a long distance relationship. I'm in a different country then my girl. I have been away from her for close to 7 months now. We would video chat almost everyday ...

Ladies: Are the flowers and chocolates I send making her distant?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

27 June 2009 (M) - Here is a question for the women. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 2 months. In that time I always sent her flowers and choclates. Which I know she loved. Because of her hectic schedule I never knew if she would be there to get them before ...

I'm scared he may be falling out of love with me. Could it be due to depression?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 29 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - K, well me and my guy have been dating 11 months next week. We work together and we were friends before we dated. But since roughly March, he has become depressed. He has been depressed before and he got out of it. Im scared he may be falling o...

Lesbian - but afraid to lose my husband. Please help!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 147 days ago

26 June 2009 (F) - Hi everyone, I'm in a horrible situation... where I have to choose. Making a decision so big is always scary and difficult... Well, here's my story. I'm married to the best man in the world, who truly cares about me and wants to make me ha...

Is this relationship going nowhere?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 149 days ago

26 June 2009 (M) - I have been dating my girlfriend for about a year and a half. It started out great. But recently I have been wondering more and more about how long we will last. I see all of her faults no matter how hard I try to ignore them. I find myself wishing ...

We're drifting apart, I'm contemplating divorce, what should I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 134 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - I have been married for 2 years and with my spouse all together for 3 years. I have a child from a previous relationship that I took sole custody of. She has a daughter from a previous marriage. The first year that we were together was amazing. ...

I don't feel like I used to feel about her

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 151 days ago

25 June 2009 (M) - Hi all, First the background. I've been dating my g/f for about ten months now so we are pretty serious, firstly I asked her out but as she'd been hurt before she said no and just wanted to remain friends, but the fact I actaully did stay m8s ...

I'm worried I smothered her and have lost what we had

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

24 June 2009 (M) - i am 45 and after almost 20years of marriage my ex decided to leave me coz i never paid interest in the family, we have 2 boys aged 14 and 11. She was right, work has always been my focus, i loved her, tried what i thought was best and always done ...

Together again after his affair...but I feel like I'm with a stranger

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 118 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - Well I am back since my husbands affair, you know I thought things would change they have a bit, I feel more strength in myself. As for my husband, who I cherished the ground he walked on, he looks weak, he no longer is the man I loved and ...

Do I hold onto someone who doesn't want to be held onto?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 152 days ago

24 June 2009 (F) - My boyfriend recently broke up with me because he says we rushed into things too fast. We were together for 2 months and had sex after the 1st month. I wanted to wait and so did he but one thing led to another. Like after we did it everything was ...

Break Down of communication with my husband of 25 years!, please help.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

23 June 2009 (F) - Please can someone advise me, I have a problem with communication with my husband of 25 years. We had a dissagreement which was extremely minor and then he went off in a sulk to the pub to meet his friend. He did not return home that night and in ...

After 5 years and many hardships, she leaves. What's the best thing to do next?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

23 June 2009 (M) - So after 5 years and many hardships when things go south and she leaves and says theres no changing her mind, you knowing you have said some mean stuff and acted in mean ways whats the best thing to do after shes gone and you desperately want ...

What can cause a man lose sexual interest in his wife?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 154 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - What can cause a man lose sexual interest in his wife? Is it something very common,or it isn't? Are most marriages going toward no sexual intimacy? Because its hard to know what goes on, if your life is different from others/ So ,what is REA...

I lost my attraction to my boyfriend and broke it off. Was it a mistake?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 153 days ago

21 June 2009 (F) - Over the last year things in my life have fallen apart. I've been unemployed for the year, had medical issues, and recently broke up with my bf of four years. My bf is a great guy and I do love him, but I have found my attraction to him waning. He ...

I'm loyal to my boyfriend but slept with another guy. Which one do I go for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 131 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are together for almost 2 years until just lately I kissed another guy whom I'm spending my night with for almost 2 months. This guy is just a friend whom I'm working with on a job. I never thought I can do this to my ...

What did his comment "it would kill two birds with one stone" mean? I'm not sure what to do and if I'm overreacting.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

20 June 2009 (F) - 8 years ago I met a man at work, after going through lots of horrible relationships and a alcoholic dad. I wanted to be finally happy. He made me happy, he was a nice sweet kind guy. We worked together for 3 years before we started dating, once we ...

How can our marriage be saved now that I've found out about his mistress?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Hello I am in my early 40s. One year ago, my husband told me that he didnt love me anymore and that he had been unhappy in our marriage for the last year. He said I didnt support him or love him they way he wanted. I was in total shock - I knew w...

Am I in denial about my feelings?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 155 days ago

19 June 2009 (F) - Heres the story: my husband of 7 years left me 5 months ago for another woman. We have two kids together. It wasnt a happy relationship anyway and I was hurt about how he went about things but I was also relieved it was finally over. I have been ...

Should I leave her be, or remind her of our times together?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - So yesterday I wrote of my five years coming to a end with a girl I did wrong in ways but she walked out of my life the night before and so I got my first full 24 hours alone! SUCKED SUCKED...So what do I do try and contact her? it angers me when ...

Am I wrong for wondering if she'll ever care about her appearance?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 145 days ago

18 June 2009 (M) - This autumn will be 6 years married, 7 years in the same relationship and i will be 26. My girl is really good to me, but she is really overweight. I figured eventually she could lose weight, but there's never been any motivation. I've tried ...

Worried I've lost a good friendship and possible future relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - Hi, I need some help understanding what a lad I know is thinking about our friendship. We met by chance through a mistake on a networking sight and are both very similar with lots in common and both hurt in past relationships so it seemed fate had ...

I want to feel loved by my husband. How can we save our marriage?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 150 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - OK, I'm 31 years old, he is 39, and I been married since I was 18, we have two girls, 2 and 6 and for years our only issue was lack of sex,until we decided to make a schedule!! and I dont know how but it worked for a few years, we were happy with ...

WHY do I still love my ex husband?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 157 days ago

18 June 2009 (F) - I am 43. Still in love with my ex husband. We have been divorced for 6 years, but still have sex about once per month. Last weekend he asked me to meet him at a bar....I did, and he was all over another woman! So, I left. Then HE left me a ...

I don't know what to do anymore! She broke up with my and together with someone else!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 158 days ago

17 June 2009 (M) - What should i do..this is a long winded story cut short. Met this girl when i was 15, we had interests in eachother through out the years and always confessed it to eachother yet nothing happend..we went out with other people but they ended becuase ...

I don't think he feels the same way anymore

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 158 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - I dont understand this really, it might even be confusing. Im in an LDR. We text eachother because neither of us like to talk on the phone, anyways he responds to me in one word and he makes it seem like he doesnt care. Yeah i understand you ...

I love her and want commitment, but she doesn't seem to feel the same

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (M) - So where to begin...I guess five years back when I met this girl I swore would become my wife...She is from Italy and is very beautiful! She likes to flaunt her ass around and attract other guys attention but denies knowing this! Through the five ...

I cancelled the wedding due to serious doubts, but he is crying and begging..please help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 159 days ago

16 June 2009 (F) - Ok, so I have been with my fiance for 3 years now and everything has been wonderful. Just this past weekend I have cancelled our wedding which was to happen in 3months from now. He is 7 years older then I am and lately I have been feeling distant ...

Been with my boyfriend 2 years but falling for another guy..its like we have a connection!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - I'm with my boyfriend for 2 years now. Ups and downs in our relationship but I love him a lot. But now I think I'm falling for a guy whom I've known since we were really young. We happened to reach each other through the internet last year, we ch...

He will not end it but he will not talk about it either! It's very frustrating!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

15 June 2009 (F) - Am I being too hard on my boyfriend. I have known him for 26 years. We have not been together that long but we both had a relationship before we had kids for other people. We got together in 2000 again as if it was unfinished business and now have ...

Pregnant with his child but I'm not sure if hes "The one"

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 160 days ago

14 June 2009 (F) - Hey everyone, My head is overloaded with questions i don't know the answers to so i have decided to come here to ask for your advice. I'm 18 years old and I am pregnant, im overjoyed and so is my boyfriend..... Me and my fell...

How can I leave him after 23 years? Hes making my life hell!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

13 June 2009 (F) - I am in a realtionship for 23 years, we have a 15 year old daughter. We are not married, that is not the issue. The issue is, we get no respect, I am constantly getting yelled at like I am a verbal punching bag by both my daughter and her dad, ( ...

PLEASE HELP! Should I stay or should I go!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

12 June 2009 (F) - i am with my fiance of 10 years, we have three wonderful kids together however, for a while now i cant help but think we just aren't meant to be together, he is not a romantic man and i love to be romanced, we don't do things together, he gets to go ...

I don't think he's in love with me! Should I even care?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I am 28 he's 31 we've been married 3 years now. we haven't had sex in over a year, we kiss hello and he helps me around the house and stuff we don't talk much unless it's house or bills related. I suspect that he's seeing someone and when i asked ...

I'm feeling a little bored in my relationship. He doesn't want to go out and party, I do....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 164 days ago

11 June 2009 (F) - I'm feeling a little bored in my relationship. I do love my boyfriend, we've been together 6 months. He's 27 and I'm 25, although I would say he acts older and I act younger - yet we work well and can be mature/immature when needs be! So his fr...

I want to make a change! I'm ready to move on, but am I being selfish?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 163 days ago

11 June 2009 (M) - Is it time to move on!!! I need help, 8 years going and i find myself in a rut that i just cant get out of... I have been with a guy now for 8 years , we have had several problems but nothing i could not deal with. i was so motivated with l...

Is he married? Or am I just one of a few?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 162 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - Ok is he married....or am I just one of a few? My friend and I have been dating for about 2 years or so..and I had questions of him being married and he clearly said no..I took him at his word and enjoyed teh dinner and time we spent togeather ...

Has he changed because of the steroids?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 165 days ago

10 June 2009 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 3 months and up to a week ago we were very much in love, we both felt we had found our soulmates. about a 6 weeks ago he started taking steroids to beef up and quickly gained mood swings, two weeks ago he sto...

She can't seem to connect with me at all

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 161 days ago

10 June 2009 (M) - We met 3 years ago in july. Moved in together that december and were happy until around April 2008. She became distant, withdrawn and didn't seem to want to connect emotionally with me. She wouldn't tell me she loved me nor would or could she ...