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Archived questions from: January, 2013 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

Do sparks die down after a certain point in a relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4103 days ago

31 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I just had this thought and it made me wonder,do sparks die down after a certain point in a relationship?do men get bored of their girlfriends?how do u maintain these sparks? I know some of you will say,if your in love it will never die down,b...

He won't let us sleep in the same bed! How to get our love back?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Been with my husband 25 years! But we have not slept in the sane bed for 11 years and he lost interest in sex-until 2 years ago when a neighbour came on to him - he does have problem with Erectile Dysfunction. The affair is over -but he still wo...

What to do? He's abusive to me and humiliates me. I've lost confidence in myself, and in him, because he shares everything about us with his friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4104 days ago

29 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I just want know what to do with a boyfriend that listens to his friends advices for almost everything. When we planned to buy a house he took all the documents about what was happening.and talked to his friends. He has been abusive to me an...

My boyfriend is hot and cold...any advice would be helpful!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4106 days ago

28 January 2013 (F) - my boyfriend and i were dating for a little over a year when he broke up with me saying he didnt want to be in a relationship anymore and that he was unhappy. i was so confused and hurt we never had any major issues between us. i was devastated. ...

It seems that my Boyfriend of 18 months is not longer interested in me. What can I do to get over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4107 days ago

27 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend lives far from me we have been dating for one and a half years. But now he’s not responding to my messages and he's always busy to talk to me. Now we only talk through social networks only. It seems to be that he's no longer inte...

Confused. I don't know if he's cheating, or is going to leave me, and why has he now stopped communicating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4108 days ago

26 January 2013 (F) - Confused: I'll begin by saying I've been with my man for 7/years he recently came home from prison almost 2/years ago, 3/13 will be 2/years! I cheated while he was in prison w/ another man for like 3/months! That fling was over in oct/2010! Ever s...

What seems to be the problem with this relationship as we argue about many things?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4108 days ago

26 January 2013 (M) - Hi, here's my situation. I'm 19 about to turn twenty and my girlfriend is 17 just about to be 18. We have been together 2 years now. We live 56 miles away, about an hour and 15 minute drive apart. Lately we seem to argue a lot. Everyone of my fr...

I think my wife is cheating on me. We have 3 children together. What's my next step to deal with this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4096 days ago

25 January 2013 (M) - born in 1981 met her 1996 married her in 2004 we have three kids oldest is 11 years old it is now 2013 next month is our meeting each other anniversery. I suspect and i think she's cheating on me. Anyone care to conversate on the matter? i ho...

At 17 how would guys view me if I chose to have an 'open relationship?' or is it just time breakup with my Bf?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4109 days ago

25 January 2013 (F) - Hi guys. What is the male view of an open relationship? I'm 17 and although I enjoy the company of a 'boyfriend' I'm not ready to become monogamous just to one boy. An open relationship where we have the companionship but freedom sounds perfect t...

We've only been dating for a month but my feelings seem to be fading, what is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4112 days ago

22 January 2013 (M) - There's this girl who I've been seeing, it started out where I realised we had the same sense of humour and other interests. Well at the weekend (friday) she met my parents and my mum said we get on really well and what not and I had never felt do ...

He seems unfazed by our break up. Why can't he accept that I've broken up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4114 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - My boyfriend seems unfazed by our break up. It has been a little over a month now and he has been sending me texts every now and then and I have just been ignoring him. He sent me a text today and we ended up chatting on yahoo messenger. I never re...

How can I stop caring for this guy who obviously doesn't care for

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

20 January 2013 (F) - I started dating this guy 3 years ago. At first he seemed so sweet and trustworthy. After a few months we started to fight over the fact that I was still friends with my ex boyfriend. We would fight a lot because I could tell he didn't trust me...

Should I try to discourage him from wanting to be married to me? Or end the marriage? Could I get transitional housing to leave?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

19 January 2013 (F) - Married for over 11-12 years with passive aggressive husband who constantly diminishes my every move. I have 2 sons who are 8 and 10, and a daughter who just turned 1. Scared that no one will take care of me when I get old. I'm always good at my o...

Should I break up with my LDR partner whilst visiting him, or on the phone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4115 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - I've been thinking about breaking up with my bf for a while now. We've been together for over 2 years, and while there isn't anything specifically wrong, and we get on great, but I just don't feel right about it, and I know I dont want to be with ...

I don't have the strength anymore - should I end this relationship???

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4117 days ago

18 January 2013 (F) - Hi, I am in a relationship with a guy for more than five yrs now I am not married yet.... We fight often now he gets angry on me for silly reasons shouts at me in vulgar language calls me slut ...he has even beaten me several times and I have...

Boyfriend is domineering, selfish and hurtful. I try to break up but can't. What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4088 days ago

15 January 2013 (F) - Hey friends... I am going through a very depressed state of my life. I need your help to get out of this. I have been in a relationship with this guy since 4 years. Previously, everything was going awesome. But now too much of fights are going be...

I can't get over this mystery breakup.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (M) - Hey guys, well, I'm trying to find the best advice on how to move on with my life or keep fighting for my true love. My ex girlfriend and I went out for 6 months and we were a decent couple, we never had big problems or any huge fights while we...

I'm reacting very badly to this breakup. I'm depressed and anxious, can't eat or sleep. How can I get back to functioning normally?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I'll keep it very short. Advice needed please to overcome this break up which has caused me depression. I am 34, my Boyfriend who is 29 decided after 2 years together (a year of which living together) he just doesn't love me anymore and in a...

Are my expectations too high? What do I need to bring a great connection or real passion into our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4120 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Recently I have been thinking that there might be a better guy out there for me than my current boyfriend but I don't know if my expectations are too high? We get on well most of the time and I do feel that I love him, but I don't feel like the...

Where do I from here? Unhappy marriage. I've fallen for a married man I met on a dating site.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I have been married for over 23 years , with 2 kids and have been unhappy in my marriage for over the last 15 years as my husband had a drinking problem As a result I have lived in an abusive relationship. He gave up drinking about 4 years ag...

My husband is harsh and emotionally abusive to me. What can I do about the fact he makes me feel worthless?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - Dear friends. I am disintegrating and breaking into pieces emotionally. My husband is constantly making me feel small, even in front of other people. I can’t do anything without him criticizing it harshly. He will say it so harshly I feel like cr...

He abused me for years. Then he found a new Gf. Now he is ill he wants me back. What do I say? I said "no" but he's not listening.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4121 days ago

13 January 2013 (F) - I was in love with this guy in my early teens and he was 16 at the time. We were together for many years had two kids and then he winds up being over protective very mentally, verbally,physically abusive toward me. The abuse started after I had ...

Should I give her time? She broke up with me because she says my actions are like a kid, and she is more free.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4126 days ago

9 January 2013 (M) - My girlfriend told me that she needs space and broke up with me. She told me that she needs some time. It started when our friend texted her if I told my sister where i am because she seems surprised that I did no tell her that me and my girlfrien...

I hoped splitting up with my husband would result in Bf wanting to be closer. So why is he now hesitant about us getting closer?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4125 days ago

9 January 2013 (F) - Hello People I am married unhappily, and have been seeing this younger guy for 3 years, i am 51, he is 45. We see each other once ot twice weekly, at the beginning he said it was like a FWB relationship, as time has passed, i have got a lot close...

How should I handle our post break-up issues due to us now living in the same place?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4127 days ago

6 January 2013 (M) - I have a 'break-up' problem. 3 weeks ago I broke up with my girlfriend of 6 months (plus the year we dated). It was mutual, since I didn't feel she was quite herself around me anymore. It all started with a sort of alternative education we both...

Broke up due to his use of dating sites. Not civil either. So why does he try to deny or hide that he has a new GF?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

6 January 2013 (?) - My ex went on a mid life crisis spree..we split up because he was on the dating sites and setting up relationships with them every month......why ? He has stopped communication with his kids....and as far as facebook everytime he comes on he deact...

I think I want to split with my BF of 3 years but I'm scared I won't meet anyone else and doubtful about ending it. Any thought?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4128 days ago

6 January 2013 (F) - I think I'm having a bit of a quarter life crisis right now and I'm looking for some advice. I am 27 and have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. Recently I have come to realise that I don't think I can't see myself marrying him. He is quite a ...

If we are to be together he expects me to make sacrifices for him

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4129 days ago

5 January 2013 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm in the middle of a dilemma. My ex-boyfriend and I have maintained contact on and off for three years. He now lives just a state over from me, which brings us a little closer and has asked (since relocating) if I'd come to visit hi...

Do I stay with my existing boyfriend or do I go for the Hot hot hot Cutie?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

5 January 2013 (F) - I've had a boyfriend for almost 2 years. In the beginning of our relationship, I didn't really think of him in a way other than a friend (we've known each other for about 10 years). But my love developed over time, I started to appreciate his k...

Is it common to stop feeling that old love and passion in long distance relationships?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4128 days ago

5 January 2013 (F) - Is it common in long distance relationships, where you meet your lover once in 2 or 3 months ..to stop feeling that old love and passion? or is it because i don't love him anymore :( i cannot think of anyone else as my future spouse, but i just ...

GF of 6 months is blowing hot and cold. Should I be patient or let it go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4130 days ago

4 January 2013 (M) - Hi, I started dating girl a six months ago. We are both in our late twenties. She had not long broken up from a serious relationship. The first 5 times or so we went out on dates was fantastic. But since then and for a couple of months she has ...

To protect financial assets is it possible to live with man I broke up with in the home we purchased?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - Is it possible to live with your ex even though you have broken up? We've just bought a house together that is a joint bond. I've experience a lot from my boyfriend which I can no longer bear, but my problem is the house because I cannot let him ...

Why does me ex try his best to make me sad? He says we can be friends, but never marry

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4130 days ago

4 January 2013 (M) - I want to said thank you for letting me ask a question on this site. I am gay latin man that I was in a relationship for almost 2 year, and my ex put condition on me that I have to get along with his friend. His friends are his EX-boyfriend and...

To everyone on this site, and especially the person responsible for this website: Thank you

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4118 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - This is for every single person on this website: I am glad to see that there are still caring people out in this cruel world. All of you are so caring of people you don't even know. People that may be miles and miles away from you. People that...

He treats me like just another friend! I question how deep his feelings are for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4130 days ago

4 January 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been having problems. We've been fighting all day and night because of it. I feel like I'm putting my all into our relationship (quit talking to ex's for him, tell him everyday how much he means to me, ect.) I have got ...

Do I have any say since we've broken up emotionally? Does it seem very sly what he's doing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

2 January 2013 (F) - We have been together 6 years im 46 hes 44 we have not had sex in 2 yrs we decided to call it quits but we stay together only for financial reason, until we get our money in order for the next 6 months anyway. I have found him talking to som...

I'm trying one last time with my ex but I really miss the man I gave up! Help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

1 January 2013 (F) - I recently go back with my ex to give our relationship one last try . We were together 10 years and 8 months ago I walked out and met someone else. I decided to give it another go with my ex as I felt like If i didnt give it one last try then I ...

How can I get through to my wife?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 4132 days ago

1 January 2013 (M) - How can I get through to my wife ? For 6 or 7 years now I've been trying to get her to talk to me and discuss many things including our virtually non existent sex life. She's refused. She seems to want to live in some odd scenario which is more like ...

My Cheating Boyfriend won't end his "affair" but I can't find the strength to leave him? How do I find the strength? What can I do?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4129 days ago

1 January 2013 (F) - I am 22 years old and have been dealing with a major issue in my relationship with my son's father. I have been with him for 6 years and our son is 2 years old. A little over a month ago I found out my boyfriend was cheating on me. He is 29 and ha...

Can I still get her back? Am I stupid to want her back?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4133 days ago

1 January 2013 (M) - Three months ago I heard my ex flirting on the phone with a man (saying stuff like "I'm thinking about you too", they had obviously been meeting), which really hurt me and made me write a touching goodbye message to her. She told me she loves me...