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Archived questions from: April, 2008 (see latest in Faded love category)

Faded love: Help and advice

I'd like some suggestions as to how we forget the past?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 69 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I was with my boyfriend for a long over a year before we broke up. Things weren't good. When we split up, i was devestated, and rebounded almost immediately with a boyfriend, who treated me like a god. My ex and i began to get in contact again, a...

I'm in love with my lecturer at university, should I tell him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 68 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I'm in love with my lecturer at university. He's kind, sweet and intelligent. I'm 20 and he's in his 30s. I keep thinking about him and I don't know what to do. I have a boyfriend of 2 years who I love, and I don't want to hurt him, but I'm ...

Why can't my ex-boyfriend be my friend at least?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - I am 31 years old and many of you may be wondering what is she doing here? But believe me it gets worse with age....I fell in love with someone who dumped me 2 months ago. I didnt see him for long, only 4 months but found him to be just the kind of ...

He hardly talks to me on his own. The relationship is going downhill, as his school results!... What to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - HI... I'm sure youi get like a million letters with the same problem as i seem to be havin, but that doesnt change the fact that it makes you feel pretty much miserable. Well.. here goes... My boyfriend and i have been together for two and a half y...

Sall I call him, or leave it, but I know if I don't , he probably wont talk to me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

30 April 2008 (F) - there is the boy that i got to know through a dating site, he was really lovely and great we text each other every day and called each other alot then we decided on meeting up but on the day before he decided that he didnt want to see me anymore, ...

Scared of making a mistake since I am not sure what I want. I love him but am not IN love with him any longer!?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Rite guys.. I've been with my boyfriend for 18 months now. But I've met some new friends when I went to college and didn't really have any this good at school. I am really ejoying goin out more and am wondering whether I would enjoy being sing...

Went to a foreign country and slept with 3 male prostitutes. Should I tell my husband?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 37 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I had sex with 3 male prostitutes last week while visiting a foreign country with my female friend. I feel so guilty now, and I want to tell my husband. I know he will most likely leave me though and we have two children, one is just 6 weeks old and ...

I'm a virgin and have developed a tense brooding state and a sort of unusual complex since my mother touched me sexually!! Please advise.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - Hi friends I am virgin guy in my twenties. Please read this carefully and come out with a good solution. I discuss with my family all my problems. I was a bit tense those days due to my job and also feeling alone.There was whitewashing going on...

He always talks dirty to me, say he loves me-how do I tell him I'm sooo not interested?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - theres is this guy, he fancys me but i dont fancy him, he always talks dirty to me, say he loves me, loves it when we talk shall i just tell him im not interested i dont wnt to upset him...

The bomb my wife has dropped on me was her telling me that she is not sure she is still in love with me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

29 April 2008 (M) - My wife and I are working out our problems in our marriage. The bomb that she dropped on me was her telling me that she is not sure she is still in love with me, but she still shows me affection, and we still are very intimate. Is she confused or ...

He will never offer help if I am struggling as a result I'm feeling very insecure!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - My husband have been together for 20 years, married for 17. I am not sure how to fix things. He is agood guy, but seldom shows any care or concern. My whole life is set up around him and the kids and I love it I like to care for them and to take ...

I want to trust my husband but I don't think he cares if he loses me or not!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - I have been married for slightly over a year and into our 4th month of marriage I found a text where my husband is saying he is thinking about some other girl. I asked that he stop talking to her and he didn't. Then once again I asked and he did ...

Should I walk away again because sorry doesn't seem to work?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - This is classic . . and I know you guys here this all the time the girl who fell for the guy . . who never payed any attention blah, blah, blah, Well no SURPRISE I was that girl. I had deep feelings for a friend and I never told him he was always ...

Can you just stop loving someone?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 70 days ago

29 April 2008 (F) - Is it possible to just stop loving someone??? can trust be regained for keeping a secret for a long time if the secret was not your fault??? ...

Is it over exposure that's causing him to not find me attractive anymore? He's looking elsewhere!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Here's the thing, last week my boyfriend and I spent A LOT of time together, going places and being together and it felt good, EXCEPT for him it doesn't seem to count for anything!!!! He says he's not attracted to me (although he certainly was a ...

We are total opposites and I don't see a future for us, having many joint arrangements makes a possible separation more difficult and confusing!? Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

28 April 2008 (M) - I have been with my g/f for 3 years and two months i am 24 and she is 21, recently things have been going down hill and we have been drifting apart, this has been happening for a while, i dont want to hurt her on one hand by bringing this up but ...

My fiance says because I'm so controlling, I'm making him the way he is. Is he letting go of our relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - Help! I've been with my fiance for 4yrs, we've had bad times, he used to be a bad gambler, and I had to take control of his money to help pay his debts so he had no money to gamble with. luckily this worked and he hasn't gambled for a year. we s...

I feel like a temporary girlfriend to him. Should I keep my distance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 71 days ago

28 April 2008 (F) - I'm my boyfriend's first serious girlfriend and his "first". (We're in our twenties but he's several years older.) He told me he loves me and I told him he doesn't. We all think we love our first serious partners but then we later realize that it ...

I don't think I love him anymore, I care about him though and don't want to hurt him...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years and we have been together since a young age. I don't feel the same about him, i don't think i love him anymore, i care about him though and don't want to hurt him. He cheated on me after a year of being ...

He saw me misbehave when I was drunk and is now avoiding me! Help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Theres this guy I really like that I work with.. He has a bit of a reputation as a slut and for some stupid reason I've slept with him.. Twice. For me, this has just made me like him even more and I don't really know what to do anymore. He's made it ...

He's starting to get on my nerves now...should I stick with it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - Im really frustrated in my head at the moment and im really hoping you can help. I have been with my bf for a little while, but recently he has been really frustrating me. everything he does gets on my nerves and he makes racist or stupid re...

My boyfriend stopped caring... what is left to do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - My Boyfriend Has Stopped Caring. I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months we were happy to start with, got engaged and everythin, now everythings changed. he wants more time alone and when i decide to go out on the town with my mATEs he hates i...

Does he really want me out his life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

27 April 2008 (F) - When I was 18 ( and a Senior in High School) I met this cool guy ( 17, and a Junior) we became fast friends .. . he called my everyday and hanging out led us 2 hook up 3 times. When I graduated he called me for a month straight , but I never ...

What's her game plan and what is she up to?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

26 April 2008 (M) - Opinion please. I go out with a girl for two years, I find out she has being seeing someone else by chance… I don’t know the full details but I say, fair enough and walk away heartbroken, but maintain my dignity. Weeks later she comes to me with ...

Every time we have got back together, it has always ended the same way: he gradually loses interest! I'm trying to understand his behaviour!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 72 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Hi, About 4 years ago I met this guy and we went out for a few weeks. I was a bit dubious about going out with him because he was 8 years younger than me, but he seemed charming so i thought what the hell, age is just a number! Anyway he was re...

I'm constantly just too tired for sex!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

26 April 2008 (?) - I'm having a real big problem here. My boyfriend is CONSTANTLY horny. And I am CONSTANTLY tired. When we have sex, I do love it. He always makes sure I orgasm, and he always cums at least twice. It's just, I don't have the energy for sex every nig...

I have no shortage of men willing to take me out. But the ONE guy that I really want won't give me the time of day!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - So there's a guy that I CANNOT stop thinking about. I'm an attractive, popular girl, and I have no shortage of men willing to take me out. But the ONE guy that I really want won't give me the time of day, and it's driving me MAD! We've worked t...

Is there anything my boyfriend and I can do besides sitting at home?!!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 59 days ago

26 April 2008 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for a year and a half and we love each other very much. we are both at uni and we find it hard to see each other. He doesnt have his lisence but if he did he couldnt afford a car anyways so to see him i pick him up from ...

He seems to detach better than I do when he wants space. Am I unhealthy for not being able to do this?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

25 April 2008 (F) - This is rather embarassing 'cos I know I'm WRONG and UNHEALTHY! Me and my BF have been together for a year and 8 months. Lately I've been sensing he wants more space or something. Yet I can't detach the way he seems to. He's the most important p...

Is this just male stuff he's going through or is he really gone out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

24 April 2008 (F) - i met this guy three months ago,and things loked like they were going really well till he just got distant,didnt call.After a while he came back things got back to normal and we were now at that stage of making things solid as we had both gone for ...

Can I win my Ex Back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 75 days ago

24 April 2008 (M) - Briefly as poss, my ex broke up with me nearly 2.5months ago now, said it didn't feel right anymore and didn't fancy me, we were together 3.5years (she lived with me most of time in my house round corner from her family home) and incidentally she ...

Don't know what to do about my husband - we sleep in different rooms and he isn't attracted to me anymore.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - Hi, This is the first time I have written to one of these sites so here it goes. I am a 37 year old mother of 2 young children and I am at a loss. My husband of 6 years in July(known him for 9)lost his job a month ago and hasn't found another one or ...

So confused! My Husband 'doesn't know what he wants anymore' and now I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 71 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - I am a 34 year old Women and have been married for 7 years together for 8. We have 3 Beautiful. My husband has just recently told me that he does not know what he wants right now. That he is very confussed and that he still loves me and loves our ...

We divorced our spouses in order to be together, then my past became a problem! How to explain him my past so that he understands?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 76 days ago

23 April 2008 (F) - ok everybody i need advice...i was married and met the man that i am with now. he was also married when we met. i was living an open marriage with my ex husband at the time and he had been cheating on his exwife from time to time. we met and my ...

I would love to diversify our sex making but I fear she will think I am perverted to suggest more than the traditional style?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - Am facing a serious problem in my sex life coz of monotony. My girlfriend and i have been enjoying our quality time but its become very boring of recent especially for me. She doesnt seem to have any interest in trying any other sex style apart from ...

My pregnant girlfriend left after an argument, part of me wants her back but I also want to go back to the time I enjoyed celibacy...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - Hello, I have been going out with my girlfriend for 10 months, The relationship moved quite quickly and she moved in after 3 months and was pregnant by 4 months. Everything was fine until just before xmas, she was 1 months gone and I started to ques...

Do guys who keep telling you they are busy just trying to avoid you?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - hey, i do not get my boy friend for 5 days b/s of that he told me that he is always busy. what shall i do? and what does he really mean that he is always busy? 10q...

I cant talk to him because he gets really angry and doesn't want to talk about our relationship

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - why is my boyfriend always moody with me?? we have been together 6 years. he does work long hours and doest get alot of sleep..when he is off work , he likes to go to the casino or play poker, he does smoke marawana . a week ago, he did start cry...

Did he just use me for sex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 77 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I met this guy 6 months ago unfortunately l let my guard down and had sex with him. We have been comunicating, I have been out of a relationship for close to 3 years. I like him but am worried he is just after sex how can i tell what his up to?...

I will never love her the way she loves me....what is a good way to manage this situation?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

22 April 2008 (M) - I have just ended a long phone conversation that seems to keep occuring, i do not know what to do so i have turned here for some advice.. I met a girl a year ago and we moved into a relationship at what i feel now was far too fast, after the last...

Am I just being spoiled or is there really a serious problem here?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 78 days ago

22 April 2008 (F) - I have been in a extremely serious relationship since I was 16 with my boyfriend. i am now 21 and he has NEVER hit me, verbally abused me, degraded mme, or anything but, he is neglectful. Not in a huge way but he just dosen't pay attention to me and ...

Help, lack of intimacy with my husband is driving me toward another man!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 73 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - I am 36 years old and my husband is 38. We have two children. One is 12 and one is 5. For the past 3 years my husband has lost all interest in having any type of intimacy at all. Including even words of endearment. i complain and then he puts a ...

Two people that love each other with all there heart - but can't be together...why???

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

21 April 2008 (M) - Hi, Two people that love each other with all of their heart and never cheated on each other, and still haven't to this day...here is a bit of my situation. I've been with my girlfriend for the past 5 years and in the last 3 years we broke up 5 t...

Why can't I get the truth out of him, of why we broke up?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - How are you supposed to move on from a relationship that has ended when you don't even know WHY it ended??? My b/f broke up with me 1 month ago and I still have so many questions about why he ended it. I don't believe the broad/general reason he t...

The more we are together, the more I doubt we will ever be close, emotionally. Please assist.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - Dear All I am in a relationship that is turning a year, but I feel like we have not at all grown closely. I always feel like our relationship has not developed emotionally but time really flies. I oo not get the emotional boost I hope for. I need...

How do I get him to forgive me and be with me before it's too late?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - my now ex boyfriend and I have dated for two and a half years and I thought with my joining a band (although it isnt workin out now) and attending college and working, that I wouldnt have time to be the best girlfriend I could be for him so we went ...

I'm tempted to stray because he can't give me the attention I crave!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 79 days ago

21 April 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for three months now and im really starting to fall for thing. however im having some problems with how often we see each other. we both work part time in a bar job at weekends so i see him maybe twice a week at work (...

The girl that I love is one that I work with but I don't think she likes me back

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 77 days ago

20 April 2008 (M) - the girl that i love is one that i work with. i never stop thinking about her, but i dont think she likes me back. when i fist atarted liking her she was friendly to me, but know she seems distant and talks to the other lads more. i sent her an ...

Any ideas on how to spark up a relationship again?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 80 days ago

20 April 2008 (F) - So I have been going out with this guy for 11months now. We had 4 months together everyday, then a month in december everyday together, other than that it was jst seeing him every weekend. We sometimes would argue but then be playful toward each ...

10 years and the love has faded. Should we give up or carry on the relationship without intimacy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 69 days ago

19 April 2008 (F) - I have been in my relationship for 10 years, we get on great and he is my best friend but after 10 years neither of us is sure if we want to get married (which people keep asking us). Also, we very rarely kiss (properly) or have sex, it has never ...