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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

Do I tell my b/f that it all just happened so fast?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5198 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hey everybody I need some help I have a boyfriend and he lives far away from me and there is this really great guy and and we have feelings for eachother and we met up and we are just really good friends and then we started kissing then it led to ...

He didn't cheat on me when we were together, so how can he cheat on her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Feel used and abused. My ex has been there as a friend which I am fine with. He has dated since us but said he has no girlfriend although his friends said that he does did. He was there for me when my father was dying, hospital, dinner, etc. He ...

Is it just human nature to cheat?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Does anyone have a straight-forward, happy, long-lasting relationship these days? My Mum and Dad divorced when I was a teenager, and my bf has recently cheated on me (nothing physical, but exchanging flirty texts and phone calls with a girl from ...

Cheated on me with her cousin and dumped me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - Im not kidding you, I was with a girl for 8 months and I truly loved her but, she ended up cheating on me with her cousin, I fell into sadness and depression and felt as if I would never find anyone. One of the reasons she dumped me was because I am ...

Should I split from him, hes never physically cheated!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hello readers, I hope you can give me your perspectives on my situation as it's making me sad. I've been with my bf 10 years. We lived together pretty happily for 7 years, until last year, when he broke up with me, saying he didn't know what he ...

Aahh!! Boys are confusing as hell!!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - love. the only word to describe the way i feel about my ex-boyfriend. he dumped me for another girl 2 months ago but i cant get over him. since we broke up weve talked EVERYDAY, and madeout twice. well spend the day together and lay on the same ...

A week of the ex-factor. The more I learn about men, the more I hate them!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - i have had the worst week of my life it started at 10 am last thursday i got a call from a friend of mine saying that my ex had just been arrested and is in jail on 4 felonies and a misdeminor. first of all this was my bestfriend i was fucking for a ...

My roommate's gf woke me with a bj! He's promiscuous so I wasn't feeling guilty, but now I am....

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5074 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - OK so I have a roommate who always has girls spending the night at our place. I don't mind since it is his room and his business. Since we have moved in he has had at least thirty girls. Sometimes they moan really loud which turns me on at night ...

How do you forgive and forget the lies and deceit?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4917 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Two years ago my husband had an affair and ended it. The affair lasted about eight months. I didn't know about the affair, but I was suspicious about his whereabouts during that period. Against my better intuition, I chose to trust my husband at the ...

One night stand with Lothario leads to pregnancy!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - I went on a girls night out a few weeks ago, had a good time, had fun, but unfortunately I couldn't resist the advances of a good-looking Lothario, and I slept with him. I didn't plan to sleep with him but was under the influence at the time. A se...

He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant part 2

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hey. Don't know if you remember my last problem - "He is seeing me and his ex at the same time, now we are both pregnant." I am in a relationship with a well known Scottish Football player. As you know from my problem both me and his ex are ...

Cheated....how should I feel?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5390 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - my wife cheated on me just before we separated. she then slept with another 3 guys while we were apart, 1 of them she works with. we are now back together and she finally told me about it after someone let part of the story slip. now she is always ...

Girlfriend wants to have sex with another man

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - My girlfriend wants to have sex with another man. First of all i know this question was probably asked on here thousands of times but i really have no one else to talk too. This all started over a year ago i was working it a job that i needed b...

I had an affair with a married man and now I'm worried his wife will confront me at work!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hello, Iv got a problem, I slept with a married man now things are kinda getting freaky, I slept with him a couple times, i work very closely with him, i called it off after he told me that he "loved me" His wife became suspicious (during ...

Should I tell my friend I caught her boyfriend cheating? I don't want her to lose her virginity to him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5400 days ago

17 July 2009 (?) - I saw my friend's boyfriend cheat on her at this party that my boyfriend was hosting at his place (he lives on his own). She was looking for him cause he told her needed to a phone call half an hour ago. Anyway she asked me and my boyfriend if we ...

Is my husband cheating?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5401 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - Hello all.I would like to get feedback from both men and women on this one. I am in a marriage crisis right now and at this point, I am leaning towards a seperation. My husband of 10 years looks at porn all the time. One day he left a porn clip on ...

My ex has a new GF but we still have sex. Should I keep trying?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5399 days ago

17 July 2009 (F) - My ex and i broke up 4 months ago. Even though we broke up, the sex hasn't stopped. He has moved on and it kills me. Because we still talk and have sex I'm still attached. I still love him and want to be with him. He tells me he still cares but he ...

I've just found out she had a threesome and this is eating away at me!

This question has 19 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

17 July 2009 (M) - I really need some help here. Me and my girlfriend broke up a couple months ago. I had sex with one girl, shortly after the relationship ended and again two weeks later. She found out about both as i admided to it. She then procieded to have sex ...