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Archived questions from: 20 July, 2009 (see latest in Cheating category)

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Cheating: Help and advice

I read his emails and I think he will cheat! Why do men cheat?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hi my boyfriend cheated on me during the first year we were together, i stayed around and convinced myself that we all make mistakes, but, i also found out his password to his email account, and since then i have occasionally had a look about and ...

I want to end this relationship with a married man, but don't know how!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5396 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I'm been seeing this married man about a year now. I just don't understand how he can sleep with me and then turn around and sleep with her. i think the best thing is to stop this relationship but not sure how. Does anyone have any advice? ...

What is he thinking? Why does he still talk to me but makes no plans with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am not here to ask if cheating on my spouse is wrong because I know it is...so that said, I am confused about the way the "other man" is feeling. We have known each other for almost a year. I felt the attraction between us almost from the start, ...

I know this is a relationship cul-de-sac, but it's so exciting. What should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5395 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - I am currently in a realationship with my boyfriend of three months,although this seems like a short period of time to be serious,he has introduced me to all his family and friends and there is a very strong bond there.However,he is leaving in two ...

Is there an instrument that detects infidelity?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - if i have sex with another man will my husband know? i hear there is an instrument which detects that on this date you had sex with another man is it true? please assist?...

He cheated on me and then dumped me. I love him--should I wait for him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5391 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hi my name is ashleigh and im 15 years old. ive been going out with this kid who is also 15 years old for one and a half years. He recently cheated on me and told me straight up that he did, he hooked up with another girl. i respect that he told me ...

Do I stick it out with the current bf or give the new Welsh guy a try?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi, I'm feeling very confused at the moment. I have had a very on and off relationship with my current boyfriend for just over three years now. I have recently moved to Wales and he's still in the Midlands and we have found the long distance thing ...

How can I get her to see sense, I have seen her boyfriend cheating on her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi... My bestfriend is being cheated on.Shes going out with a guy whos 19 shes 16. When he goes out to clubs she doesnt go with him because she wont get into them. Anyway after a night out people constantly come back to her and me and tell us he w...

Am I pathetic or is it normal to feel like this for so long?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Hi, Some of you may remember me from a while ago. Last June after going through a very unloving, frigid time due to the menopause (I think) I found my husband had been texting a work colleague and continued to do so (I naively assumed it had stop...

I have a gut instinct that my husband is cheating on me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - hi cupids i am in a dilemma i think my husband cheating just a gut instinct so far an there a few signs he mite be like diet an exercise when i ask he says doing 4 my health he works a lot also i dont no any of is work mates he aint based anywhere ...

Should I contact his new girlfriend and tell her what he is doing?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, My ex has recently started to text me again, he was been makin small conversation at first, then he asked was i still with my new boyfriend, Even though i said yes, he asked me to come over to his cause he had a free house only to 'h...

My boyfriend excludes me from EVERYTHING. He lies and he cheats but I love him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - Ok, Im 26 and im Bi and im out...my BF is 21 and he is severely in the closet. We have been together almost 9 months. Nothing in our relationship is going good. But I love him to death and I know he is my soulmate (im not just saying that) If ...

My friend said my best friend is cheating on me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - well ive had a crush on this guy for three years and hes been my bff for 3 years and he asked me out yesterday at the movies and ive known this guy to cheat on numerus girls and i said yes and my other friend said he was cheating on me with this ...

Is it possible that a relationship can survive after one person cheats, please help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5398 days ago

20 July 2009 (F) - About a week ago I found out my boyfriend cheated on me. I wrote another post regarding this, but now I need so more help. During last week we had no contact at all. It was killing me inside, but I knew I had to be strong. I miss him every single...

Is she worried or cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5397 days ago

20 July 2009 (M) - my girlfriend used to stay with me quite a bit, lately she has been giving me excuses on why she cant. one nite i went over and she and 3 others were partying and she got mad i was there and asked me to leave. she says she hasnt cheated and its ...