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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Ive been with my partner for 4 years we have a 15 month old child together. I started a new job recentley and met a guy on my there we were totally friends, but then on a group night out we ended up kissing and i ended up staying at his and having sex.nothing has come of it we are still friends he has a partner and i am still with mine. it was just a one night stand we are still friends and even laugh about it.I havent told my partner as i dont want to hurt him, but i no longer want to be with him, i think i havent wanted to be with him for a while now which is probably one of the reasons i did what i did (not making an excuse!!) but how do end it with him??? we have a child and a house and future plans. I do love him but i am definatly not 'in love' with him.I dont know what to do!!!!
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reader, PunkyPippi  +, writes (18 January 2009):
 I agree, you probably have not been feeling your partner for a while because stuff like that doesn't just happen.Do you think you all could fall back in love? 4 years is about the length of most relationships because that's about the time the love goggles fall from your eyes and reality sets in.In any case, this guy is going to be part of your life forever because of your child, so either put a real effort into making it work, or tell him the truth, sell your house and set up child support arrangements.
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