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writes:hey there, well i am 16 and have sort of just got into a relationship with a guy named matt who is 20 years old (so a bit older then me) now i just want to state for the record we are both not together for the sex or anything like that we both are inseprable and really like each other. anyway yesturday we both really wanted to have sex with each other it wasnt planne or anything it just happened. u see that day we were in bed all day just doing everything other then sex to each other. and he was so turned on that day but when it came round to sex and he put a condom on and we started having sex he kept putting it in me but it would slip out becuase he couldnt keep it up! even though he had been erect for about 3 hours! i really thought it was me so we had to stop and he was so embaraseed and so was i thinking cuz i was younger i wasnt good enough and he didnt want me! im so confused is something wrong? did i do something? i have only had sex once before so would it be that? PLEASE HELP!!! will we ever have sex!!!! thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2009): If he had already gotten off once (or multiple times) before you tried to have sex, then he won't be ready to get off again right away. That's how males are built. A young guy will take a few minutes or hours but an older man will take hours or days.
It was probably just performance anxiety. Same with how lots of girls get too nervous to have an orgasm, guys can get too nervous to stay hard.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (18 October 2009):
It's nothing either of you have done, so don't blame each other. Two things. It could be that he had been erect for so long, he simply couldn't keep it up. It could have been performance anxiety. Just relax when it next happens, and make sure he's relaxed or this will get worse.
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