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writes:So I'm pretty sure that my professor is interested in me, but he doesn't want to make moves because like any professor with an once of brains, they realize the consequences if their passes are rejected. However, I'm completely interested and I was wondering if anyone could give me advice on how to make him realize that I like him, without being overtly slutty.Side note- I'm 19, and he's 51. He has a son but never mentions his wife and doesn't wear a wedding ring. I've heard that he's slept with a student in the past. If you're going to respond telling me that it's morally wrong, it's just a waste of time. Also, my school doesn't give a shit if a student is caught with a teacher outside of school because it's so common to do that here. Thanks for your help. Reply to this Question |
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reader, Anonymous_NF  + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
 well.... very interesting. I'm kind of in the same shit. I fell in love with someone 9 years bigger then me but he's not my professor . People think that it's crazy and stupid. At first I thought so too but now I guess I don't really give a shit. Life is tough there's no doubt about that, just follow your heart, try not to listen to what the people say around you. Try SHOWING him how you feel, flirt a bit and stuff like that.
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (25 October 2009):
 I shudder to think what kind of school has the attitude of turning a blind eye to teacher's getting caught with a student, as most schools take a strong view on this.
I will tell you that it is morally wrong if he is married because it is!It is also professionally wrong.
I also think your going down the wrong road here your 19 he is 51?
After the sex what do you think you will have in common? because most of these things are only based on one thing only, and why would you want to go with a 51 yr old man?
What is wrong with the boys your own age?
I think your also very wrong to have the attitude the school does not bother because you know what if anything was to happen between you, you might be the one and him that they will use as a deterrent to other teachers and students to not get involved, he could lose his job for one and at 51 he would find it hard to ever get another teaching job, unfortunately this would be in his reason for getting sacked, and to be honest i would be thinking of that more than how i could attract him.
I also don't like what you say about they realise the consequences if the passes are rejected, what does that mean you will go and report him for something else?
I think you need to forget this idea it is wrong and ask yourself what a 51 yr old would have in common with you apart from using you?
Gina
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reader, Mystery16 +, writes (25 October 2009):
Mayb you should just try walking by him more often and give him one of those side smiles that says " hey i like you, but want to keep it a secret " .
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