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writes:Heyah This is weird but Im in love with my best mates brother! He is dead cute and sexy But the problem is that Im 13 and Hes 9! Its Sick . I know but I cant help it. I have a Boyfriend Already but When i go to my mates House , I cant help but flirt with her brother and I try to impress him but I cant help but feel guitly for my bf.. Any Advice?
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reader, katzkitten +, writes (20 February 2007):
 aww. dont get too hung up on his, your only 13 dont worry about it. lads will come and go. you've got so many years ahed for this. would you concider going out with a 17 year old lad? its the same age difference but the other way round. it isnt too bad. but your both young, just like me. he may be a little too young to understand a relationship, my friends little brother is 10 and he has 40 girlfriends a week...exageration i know but think back to when you were in year 4/5. Relationships dont mean anything. And a thing with lads is, a much older lass lyking them is probably quite big, he probably doesnt need impressing. remember have fun!!! :P xxx get back to me on how it goes =D xxx
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reader, Dave H +, writes (20 February 2007):
Ok, why the big deal? You like him, i say like becasue at out age, i'm 15 by the way, we dont know what lov i, i thoght i loved someoe, but we split i though, what theheck loads more girls around ;). Anyway, you can flirt with anyone you want, but dont get srious-at all because if you 'love' him too much and yu split you'll feel gutted like i did.
But dont treat over the fact that you've already got a bf, play the field a little bit, try a bit of this and a bit of that, at our age we don kow whats right or wrong fo us yet, so flirt all you like and even go out some where like a par, gt know him better and if you still like him a lot, go for it, play it coo and smooth, think about whta you want though the most...
Hope this helps, Dave
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reader, Psyche  +, writes (20 February 2007):
OKay, well... you aren't "in love" your 13! And he isn't sexy, he is 9!What you have is a crush. Which is no big deal. The thing I dont get these days is how serious young teens are getting with relationships. 13 is an age where you should be playing with your friends and talking about boys. Maybe holding a boys hand - thats it! Anything else is inappropriate for a young woman. It is normal and healthy to have crushes on people. Don't worry about it. Just don't act on your feelings. In the meantime go play with your friends and stop letting boys control your mind. good luck
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