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writes:I am 16 and i am falling in love with a 14 year old boy when i am usually into men from 19 up to about 22 years old. He says he is in love with me, and he wants to start a relationship with me, the age gap is holding me bk? do you think its kinda pedo if i date him? plz help Reply to this Question
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reader, donkeyboy  +, writes (3 January 2011):
yea its normal but theres two things u need to find out because u might like him but does he like u or does he only like your toys-if u get what i mean.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 February 2007): dont listen to the chick who said dont go ther. if you like him go for it! two years isnt that much of a gap anyway. date him definately, i would ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 February 2007): Don't even go there. Wait a few years before starting a relationship with him if you want one with him.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (7 February 2007):
 You're totally normal. Yes, at your age girls are usually going for someone older, but just because you took a different turn and are crushing on someone younger, that's not weird. When I was a senior, I dating a sophomore (I was 17, he was 15), and it was fun. And hey, when you're 25 and he's 23, there will barely be a difference at all.
Don't worry about it.
xxIndia
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reader, agony_uncle_r +, writes (7 February 2007):
its strange in respect that most women your age tend to aim older as they feel older= more mature (not always the truth for sure).
but other than that theres nothing wrong with it, if you like him, then knock yourself out and have fun. if your friends take the mick just remind them your happy n if theyre real friends thats all they will want for you.
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reader, hugs2muchgal +, writes (7 February 2007):
 it's alittle unusual for an older girl/younger guy relationship in highschool, but it certainly isnt pedo or weird. i got with my boyfriend when i was 14 and he turned 16 before i became 15 so we had a similar age gap. also i had a friend (girl) who started a relationship with a boy two years younger. in the long run the only thing that matters is how you two feel (and the law so no sex is legal)
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reader, moomoomoo +, writes (6 February 2007):
 no not pedo, yes its normal, the only thing that might be weird is what your friends would say. hah
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