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*onfusedTeenager
writes:Well hear goes, I am 19 years old nearly 20 and i have been with my over half now for 7 months. He is 42, i have never minded about the age difference, he also has a little boy who is 2 which i also get along with, but the thing that is really getting to me is he also lives with someone but not the mum of the boy, she is his age and has lived with her for about 1 and a half years now. But i just seem to be a little secret as none of them know about me, i am gettin to a point i really dont know wot to do. I have spoke to him but he never answers my question's. He has always said he doesnt want another child but i do, I really love him but wot do i do in this situation, i dont want to get rid of him cause i dont think i could handle it but then i want a family of my own. Help me plz XxXxXxXxX Reply to this Question
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (19 February 2007):
 You are not only his "little secret" you are also his bit on the side. He is playing you. Put a stop to it immediately, you are only going to be sloppy seconds with this guy. Dump the louse.
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reader, dragonette  +, writes (18 February 2007):
 Dear Confused,
Are you sure that at the age of 19 (nearly 20) you would like to have a child with someone who doesn't even tell his co-habitant about his relationship with you?
In fact, I'm very curious as to why he never told her about you. Could it be that he and she are living together as a couple? Could it be that he enjoys being with you, but is ashamed of what people might think if they were to find out that he is having a relationship with a woman who is so much younger than he is?
I think you need to talk to him and demand that your position in his life be clarified.
And as for kids: you're still young and you have time. There are so many things that you should be doing while you're young. Traveling, studying (if you want), pushing for a career, doing stupid things with your friends. Once you have a child you have so much less time for these things so enjoy your youth now and maternity later =)
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