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writes:I'm 24 years old, nearly 25 i've been dateing this 16 year old girl who really likes me. I really like her so much.The problem:I've fallin for another girl. When i first arranged to meet this 16 year old girl it went a bit wrong and i didn't turn up and i rearranged the day till the day after but that day i went to a girls house i know and i really like called Sam. Ok, the way i look at is that the 16 year old is young but shes good looking and i love her in less than a week. I wanna spend every second of the day on the net just to see her write stuff to me and when i'm not with her i miss her so much.I've also fallen for a 21 year old girl. You would think i would use my brain and dump the 16 and date this girl but this 21 year old but she doesn't come without the headaches from my ex girlfriend is her best friend and this 21 year old mom and dad because they only know me as cheryls ex so they wouldn't agree to this. Sam is hot not hotter than the 16 year old but shes still hot. I told her i liked her the other day and since then we seem to be getting on so well.My ex said to me tonight " dont think your gonna date my best friend because i would hate you if you did " and i dont want that.Ok, the problem is the 16 year old has no kids and i'm nearly 25 and im looking towards the future for kids and maybe marriage the 16 year old will not yet.21 year old has a kid is hopeing to find a another man so she can have a kid with her but if i do decide to dump my 16 year old things would get weird for me.My ex's mom and dad would hate me. My ex would hate me and where good friends. Sam's mom and dad will hate me. She's friends with a lad i cant stand because hes my ex girlfriends ex and he hates me because i dont bow to him.What should i do?I dont wanna cheat on my 16 year old girlfriend because i'm not like that i wouldn't do anything with Sam unless i think things are going so wrong i want out of my relationship with the 16 year old. I know the logic move is date the 21 year old but i really like this 16 year old girl shes everything i've been looking for and i think i want a fun relationship not a boring one like i had with my ex and she was 20 years old. So i worry that if i got with the 21 year old things would be the boring same as it was with my ex, but this 21 year always goes on about my ex girlfriends ex likes hes superman or something. How can i get this 21 year old out of my head?
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reader, hiddenspace +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Firstly, I highly doubt that you're in love with the 16 year old, after only a week. And I wouldn't really call it a relationship with her.
Also take into account that the 16 year old's parents would probably also disapprove if they found out about you. But more importantly, the 16 year old is young and you say you're 24, that's 8 years difference. The girl probably hasn't had this kind of relationship before and won't be thinking about settling down.
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