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I'm 15 dating a 19 year old guy. Is anything wrong with that?

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Question - (21 February 2007) 9 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2007)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i am 15 dating a 19 year old guy is somthing wrong with that?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2007):

Hey, I am is the same situation. I am 15 and my boyfriend just turned 20. I know alot of people will think you're crazy, but as long as you are happy there is nothing wrong with that age gap. Just remember to stick to your morals. You don't owe him anything, and no matter what you don't deserve to be pressured into anything. Make sure you communicate what you want. Have fun !

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A female reader, livi United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2007):

livi agony aunthey,

i dont think so. i think it comes down to how you are as a person and how he is as a person, As long as he treats you decently and doesnt try to rush you into doing things you are not ready to do, then it seems ok.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 March 2007):

it really depends.

on the person that is.

think mentality level.

is he mature for his age? immature?

but ask yourself..

hes 19. can he get girls his age with more experience?

why is he going for me?

also,

is he ashamed about the relationship?

if he doesnt want to tell is friends, than he thinks there's something wrong with the relationship.

otherwise if hes really open about the relationship (i.e. public affection) than there's less to worry about.

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A male reader, maxsteel86 United Kingdom +, writes (22 February 2007):

maxsteel86 agony auntThere's always something wrong with everything so long as you look hard enough. My advice: dont look!:-P really, if it feels like he's decent, dont think too much about it

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom + , writes (21 February 2007):

kenny agony auntYou are both still teenagers. 15 & 19 is no age gap atal. I say go for it, no doubt you will soon be 16 anyway. After all age is only a number. If you love each other it dosen't matter what the age gap is.

Good luck x

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A female reader, AskEve United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2007):

AskEve agony auntThere is nothing wrong with that if you are grounded and have a good head on your shoulders. You are very young yet and too young to have sex so don't let him pressure you there.

Concentrate on your studies for now and continue to get to know one another and bond. If he really does have feelings for you then he'll respect you and would never pressure you into sleeping with him, if he does, the alarm bells should ring in your head and you should maybe even cool things down with him. Like I said, if he cares for you, he'll be happy just to be in your company and wait until you're older before he even thinks of going down that road.

Eve

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A reader, anonymous, writes (21 February 2007):

Hey, theres nothing wrong with that but do be careful. Im 19 now, dating a 21 year old, but when i was 14 and 15 i dated a 19 year old, who turned 20 while we were going out. Im not saying there is anything wrong with it, if you both care about eachother and really love eachother, but be careful about beong pressured/forced into things. I was, both mentally and physically forced into things I wasnt ready and made to feel guilty for not giving him everything within the first few months, because he wanted to move a lot faster than I did.

Just my thoughts, no theres nothing wrong with it so long as hs a good guy and loves you more than he wants full on sex.

Also you could be ready for more than I was at that age...!!

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A female reader, Evangeline  United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2007):

Evangeline  agony auntHi,

The age gap is quite big for someone of your age - you grow up and mature a lot in those four years.

Im 17 and I dated a guy who was 24 for a while - which i soon thought was too big of an age gap. But you dhould definately keep seeing him if you feel right in the relationship - if your happy and having fun, and if your comfortable with each other. You shouldn't really treat it any differently than if you were dating someone of 15; the only problem is that parents/carers might think badly of it (purely because they care about you). 19 does seem older.

I would just ride it and see how it goes - you never know how things are gonna work out. so enjoy!

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A female reader, here to help..x United Kingdom +, writes (21 February 2007):

here to help..x agony auntthere is nothing wrong with this if you feel like you have somthing good there is nothing wrong.

if you love each other thats all that counts.

this is your life dont let anyone stand in your way.

..x here to help x..

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