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*rat10041
writes:Hi, everyone, hope your day is going well. I have been with my boyfriend for two months now. He lives an hour away, I drive to see him just about every weekend. When I go all he wants to do is play video games. So, for hours I just sit there and watch him. I have told him that I will play the game with him; so he got another contoller. The next weekend I went back he had taken it back to the store. I ask him if we can do something else he gets annoyed and say "what you want to have a conversation"? In a rude way. So, I just say forget it then. I don't know if its me going to see him all the time. I really love him but, for some reason I have a feeling he's gonna break up with me. He also, has been calling me names like: stupid,retard and has been implying the worst name you could call a girl "cunt" but says "cuntry girl" instead. He knows that I hate that word but continues to say it. He keeps saying sorry "I'm not the one for you". I asked if he was breaking up with me he said no, but that "I made a bad choice in dating him". Idon't know what to do, any kid of advise will hwlp.Thanks
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (10 December 2014):
 Save your gas money, honey.
HE isn't as into you as you are into him. And do you seriously think if he treats you like this after ONLY 2 months that he will become NICER down the line?
He Is right about one thing, you DID make a BAD choice in BF when you decide to date him. WALK away.
And in the future DO NOT let anyone, BF, Friend, stranger call you retard, stupid or "cuntry girl". LEARN to say no, this is NOT how I want people to treat me, I will NOT allow it.
Dump him. YOU are wasting your time on a VERY immature little boy.
YOU know WHY he is telling you he is no good? Because he KNOWS that you think you can "fix" him and if YOU just love him enough, TAKE enough of his crap, he will REALIZE how wonderful you really are. It's an EXCUSE to treat you poorly. Because he has told you he is a "bastard" you should just sit there and take his abuse...
ARE you really that desperate for a relationship that you think this is healthy or normal?
Come on, girl. WANT more for yourself. YOU DO deserve better.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (9 December 2014):
 Some boyfriend!!!
Save the two hours (one, there; and one, back) and "donate" that time to a homeless shelter, animal shelter, library or ANYTHING ELSE that has the potential to advance the human condition... AND gets you away from - and not thinking about - this creep... WHY waste your time and mental energy on HIM??????
Good luck....
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reader, BrownWolf  +, writes (9 December 2014):
Sorry...but you love the abuse. The abuse makes you feel awesome...because what does this mean to you..."I'm not the one for you" ???
Or this "I made a bad choice in dating him"???
If none of that has sunk into your head, then what will? Because he has made himself as clear as ever.
His video game is more important than you. So much so, he took the other controller back so you do not spend time with him.
What are you look for in a man? Does this give that to you??
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 December 2014):
 This relationship is not going to get any better it's best you just put it out of its misery. You can do and deserve better, my dear.
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reader, WhenCowsAttack +, writes (9 December 2014):
Uh, why haven't you dumped him? And how can you love someone you've only been with for two months who calls you horrible names? That isn't love. Are you sure you know what a loving relationship is?
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reader, lifesgreat  +, writes (9 December 2014):
well it sounds asif he is trying to break it up with you or has a lot of self pity for him self.
but why do you want to stay with a man of which you travel and hour to see him once a weekend and then he doesnt spend time with you?
heck you even get a pad to get involved and he gets rid of it?
he is a total prick ! do not date him .. there would be some bloke out there who would actually want to spend time with you and would actually do things for you.
why are you wasting time on this pratt?
And after 2 months there has not had time for something special to bond between you.
just dont bother texting the Cuntry boy again and dump him
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