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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

I was excited about the holidays, until my boyfriend got mad at me on the phone last night.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 4 years and I have just had a fight before I'm due to go away for over 2 weeks on the holiday of a lifetime. He had asked me to come round to visit him tonight before I go, and I told him I'd try my best but I'd need to see what time I finished work an... (633 words)

I've accepted that he needs time for full on sex, but I still want him to go down on me at least.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - How can I get my boyfriend to give me oral sex? He's a virgin and I have accepted that he wants to wait and is too scared to have sex. I will wait for him to make the move to full intercourse. But in our sexual contact everything seems one sided - me trying to warm him up with ... (182 words)

My friend promised me she'd get me items on her trip and I'd pay her. She's been back a week and hasn't contacted me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why have I not heard from her? What should I do? So my friend went on holiday and I asked her to get me some MAC products cause they are alot cheaper where she's going. She said that's fine. I texted her the things I wanted and said I would send her money for them or... (163 words)

Is it possible to have a relationship after a one night stand?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3892 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm wondering if it's possible to have a relationship after a one-night stand. Basically, I got with a guy over a month ago in a nightclub and we exchanged numbers then we were texting pretty much every other day and he wanted to meet up and suggested cinema but we never got ... (353 words)

I'm scared to go it alone. How do I get my confidence back?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - i'll try and keep this as short as possible but here goes... a few years back i stole a married man, yes it was wrong but it happened and we got together and made a go of it. however since we moved in together and most of the time things were great except for weekends when... (383 words)

We made plans, he didn't text, didn't show up and now I have to work with him tomorrow!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, okay so I'm 21 and work in a warehouse office which is we're I met this guy :) we have been talking a lot for about 4 months on Facebook and texting and of course in work. So to be honest he was the one doing all the chasing! Texting me everyday asking me out all the ... (252 words)

Will I be judged for my not perfect body in a bikini?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for opinions here. What do men think when they see a woman wearing a bikini who is not that skinny, and does not have big boobs? Do you look at her and think "gross", or do you respect her for still having the confidence to wear one? Would you still check her ... (232 words)

He's lost and confused after a major trauma, so he ended our relationship

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello again dear cupid. right now i feel my life is in shambles. Me and my bf broke up yesterday night. He told me that something inside him was broken since his work accident (building blew up, people died) this has affected our relationship from the start. we have been ... (373 words)

After seven months I want to try again with my ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello. I split up with my ex 7 months ago and we said we'd still be friends. We have stayed in contact and met up twice. It's been nice and not awkward. We both haven't spoken about the relationship since. But he left the door open 'lets remain friends and see what hap... (159 words)

He seems devoted to me but I'm insecure about his ex

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend is loving, respectful and we get along very well with excellent physical attraction. We have been together about ten months. he talks about our future and marriage and babies. We've had a few issues, mostly my insecurities regarding an ex who broke his heart just ... (254 words)

Demanding Sister Wants Gift for her Kid

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Last year my niece turned three years olf. She had an amazing birthday party with lots of family and gifts. My sister just confessed that she was upset with the fact I did not get her than 3 year old a gift. My niece is turning four soon and my sister expects me to get a gift ... (206 words)

Was I wrong to not want to spend a night in the same room with her and her mate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some opinions on my situation. My friend invited me to go away with her and her daughter for her daughters birthday (she was 7) and we'd also be joined by her partner - who I've only met twice before. She said she would pay for my stay in the B and B. Howev... (401 words)

Wife don't have a job and doesn't like to cook or clean the house.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

3 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - I've dated my wife for almost 10 years before we got married for 5 years, ever since I met her she never have a job. Reason I like about her was she was very old school like my mom and I thought she would make a great mom one day and she's very tradition. After we got married ... (371 words)

I didn't realize what I had until it was gone

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi All, Hope someone can give me some advice. I was with my live in boyfriend for a year and a half. For the most part it was wonderful (we were inseparable) but when we got in arguments they were intense and I would find myself saying mean things just to hurt my bf. he warne... (380 words)

Do I go on a date with the brother?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So i have a bit of a sticky situation and have no idea how to deal with it. I've just started to hang out with a few guys from my college recently, who i've know for a very long time now. I had a sort of 'thing' with one of the guys in the group a while back, nothing serious ... (342 words)

I say he is the most disloyal man ever and he says he is just being honest about his emotions. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age - I am so sad and tired. My boyfriend of 6 years has become completely disloyal to me. One example, We auditioned for a play together recently and I was disappointed that I did not make callbacks and therefore would not be getting a speaking part in the show. It is a play I ... (375 words)

Is she only messing around?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hello everybody. I really need some objective opinions here. I'm currently in a FWB relationship with a girl I like very much. As in, A LOT. But she's clearly not that into me, she has told me that explicitly and she rejected me when I asked for something more serious. We... (438 words)

I wanna know why he's being a creeper and what do I do when he brings over girls to our house.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ive spent the last year sleeping with this guy. We spent almost everyday together and I knew we weren't together and he told me he didnt want a relationship with me I understand that he's a user so I don't want you guys to reiterate that fact to me.he was staying with me for a... (415 words)

My boyfriend watches porn, what should I do? It hurts!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I recently found out that my boyfriend is watching porn. Although he always brags about our sex life with one of his best friends. He told him that he doesn't need porn and stuff like that beacause I give him all the pleasure he needs and it made me feel so great. But then a ... (306 words)

Is it bad that a guy doesn't have friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hello this may not be much of a relationship question but I was wondering if it was bad that a guy doesn't have friends?? I know it's a weird question but I have a crush on a guy at university and although I haven't spoken to him I've seen him around for about 2 years (no I ... (100 words)

I just feel like this guy is messing me around. Am I just being paranoid? What's he playing at?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3949 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - It started out with a drunken facebook hack. I was on the way back from a night out with my friend, and I used her phone to send a message to a guy she knows, telling him that I thought he was good-looking. He replied by asking her if she'd been fraped, and she explained it was ... (609 words)

Is it possible that I'm turning gay?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3943 days ago

3 July 2013 (M)

age 51-59 - I've been straight but started getting nasty thoughts progressively. Thinking about getting a prostate massage from my wife and even doggy with a strap on. Today I just thought of kissing this guy that followed me in the mall. I have been married 24 years,, but I have lost ... (93 words)

Is it wrong of me to be talking to this prisoner who I met while working in the prison? He's still in prison. I now don't work there now.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3944 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - so...i worked for a prison this year and...well i got acquainted with an inmate a year older than myself who is serving a two year sentence. i quit at the prison because it was not my type of job, i hated twelve hour shifts and working overnight. so my question is....i keep... (114 words)

Should I make conversation with crush or just let this go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3949 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Three days ago at a party, someone who I met 4 weeks ago and am attracted to said they would like to get to know me better and would like to take me out sometime. He waited until everyone around me left, approached me, and said this. Usually people I'm attracted to are... (338 words)

Advice for women with high libido?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3950 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi Everyone, I am looking for advice for women with high sex drive. I have had a high libido since I was about 18 (although I didn't have sex until I was 21, and I have only had sex with one person, my ex-boyfriend). One of the reasons I left him was because I always felt re... (188 words)

Uneasy over his lack of interest in condoms

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Is it a red flag if my boyfriend doesn't want to use condoms? (We use them for intercourse.) Am I likely to get a sexually transmitted infection/disease from giving fellatio if no semen is present? Background: I have only been in two committed long term relationships ... (407 words)

Ex has made breaking up harder than usual. How do I move on now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Me and my ex broke up about a month ago and its been very hard. We broke due to him cheating on me, and it came as a huge shock and throughout it all he blamed me for it. He had cheated on me in the past but after he did the whole "I've changed" thing I... (1101 words)

Should I accept help from this friend or from my exÉ

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3948 days ago

3 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello! Sorry for my English isnt my first language at all. I am separated from my husband for 2 years ago. When I was married I met this man at work and things didnt go anywhere because I was married so I kept this as a coworkers thats all. My hb and I happened to be sep... (579 words)