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Archived questions from: 16 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Facing a separation and divorce, after just one year of marriage! Help, please!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - This is probably the most I have needed advice of any question I've asked on here. I am facing a separation and ultimately divorce. I'm having a lot of mixed emotions and its been a roller coaster but I'll give the background in as short a story as possible. We have been t... (903 words)

How do I handle my matron-of-honor duties at my sister's wedding? I'm on bed rest for my pregnancy!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My sister is getting married this weekend. I am the matron of honor and therefore would have to give a speech. I am on strict bed rest for my pregnancy and can only attend the ceremony as it isn't long. Should I have one of the other bridesmaids read my speech in my absence or ... (59 words)

Should I stick it out at this school where I'm miserable because my friends say since I've been here for 2 years I may as well stick it out?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been going to this college for two years it seems to be a very prestigious college but I am just not happy. It has been effecting my grades and it seems like the harder I try the more unhappy I become. I have stuck it out for two years. My social life is all but ... (221 words)

My boyfriend never has time for me, should I dump him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend never has time for me should I break up with him ?? We were dating about 3 weeks before and things were great he was seeing me a lot then I got upset with him over him not adding me as a friend on facebook so I dumped him. I got really depressed about it well not ... (281 words)

I don't love him any more but can't let him go

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - i no longer love my boyfriend of 4 years but can't let him go. its driving me crazy as my life feels like its being wasted away before my very eyes. im 27 and fed up to the back teeth of my other half, he is disloyal, untrustworthy and does not respect me. he is not romantic ... (213 words)

I call my crush, but he never seems to make the effort to call me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupid i have a crush on my best friend of 5years. he doesnt know it but i really like him. we are very close and used to talk with each other everyday.. we say things like i love you and really really like each other alot. but im tired because im the one doing all the ca... (303 words)

Three months and he didn't mention he has kids?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear Cupid, My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months. He is 28 and I am 25. The relationship moved really quickly and I absolutely fell in love with him and him with me. This past weekend, I found out that he has two children he never told me about. I found ... (193 words)

I've lost the attraction but I don't understand why.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I really need help, I'm so stressed and I have no idea what I'm going to do! I have been with my boyfriend for 6 years we have no children and we both still live with our parents (we are 27, sad I know!) At the first 2 maybe 3 years our sex life was really good an... (495 words)

Do you believe there's someone for everyone?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - I think the media hypes love by saying there's someone for everyone, don't give up on love. etc. NOT everyone finds love. I think society just says this to make people who've been hurt feel better, as well as to encourage procreation and sell their hallmark and Valentine's ... (71 words)

His ex intrudes and I take my anger out on him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - We've been dating for 2 years now. things are great between us. We both have a kid of each from previous marriage and both kids are all grown (counting the days to send them off to college lol). Lately, I've been having some issue and I am having hard time adjusting to it. It's ... (392 words)

Is he interested in me, and if so what can I do to stop it?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a real dilemma and I am in need of advice. I am a single 30-something year old mum and have been single for 9 years. My daughter rides at a local riding school and isn't of the age I can leave her on her own. She has become friends with another little girl whose dad ... (369 words)

Was this online guy playing me?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3922 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so here goes, i had met this gent of a guy on a dating site. And we exchanged a few emails and numbers. So for the first couple of days things were going really well, and we talked a lot about the future, what we were looking for in partners. And if i am being honest he ... (530 words)

Does that sound like he was keen to come and see me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys, I just wanted some opinions on my situation. About three weeks ago I hooked up with a guy in a band (they were on tour). He gave me his number and we had been texting back and forth for about two weeks. He's not from my state so I went out on a limb and said 'when a... (164 words)

Tricks and twists from my best friend? Do I believe him or the new guy? I'm traumatized and confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey there! I don't know how to go about it.. it's really a messed up relationship.. :/ So, i have a really good friend rather my best friend who loves me a lot..he still does but i no longer wanna date him because he has got some serious issues which i tried resolving for a wh... (364 words)

Do you think he feels guilty?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi i was just wondering do men feel guilty about a relationship after it ends me and my ex split up 4 months ago after money problems and a miscarriage to which he left me 3days later lately though he has been trying to talk to me i don't want to get back together he hurt me to ... (71 words)

I have guilty feelings from this kiss, I need opinions on the cheating!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I really need opinions and views on this as I find it hard to speak to people as I don't want my friends to judge me. I cheated on my boyfriends of 2 years (still together now) when we had been going out for just 2 months. It was heavily influenced by the other ... (321 words)

Does my boyfriend masturbate to his ex girlfriends facebook pictures?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Is it possible that my boyfriend masturbates to his ex girlfriends facebook page? He used to watch a bit of porn everyday. I didn't mind this but he said that he did it out of boredom (he works mornings and evenings and has a lot of hours off during the day). He said it wasn't ... (427 words)

Does getting oral still qualify you as a virgin?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

16 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - hey guys just a quick question does geting oral qualify as being a virgin some people say yes others no if you can help please do... (26 words)

My partner said he will never forgive me for my shouting at him because he let our 16 week baby boy roll off a chair!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - We have a beautiful 16 week baby boy who ia amazing. My partner and I have been together nearly 4 years.Our son is a miracle as we were told we might have problems conceiving. Yesterday my partner told me he did not want to be with me any more, I am devestated. We did have a ... (199 words)

Is this crazy to think we can make this? Is dating a Marine a good idea?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met this man 7 years ago, when I was 19, and he was 21. We always had a great time together and became great friends. I always had a crush on him, but I was in and out of a relationship for five years at the time. Then, he joined the Marines and got stationed in California, ... (570 words)

Is it reasonable to ask him to come to see me every time?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am starting to date this guy who lives in the city about 45 minutes (without traffic) from my house (I live in the suburbs). The first two times he came up to see me, once for coffee and the next time for dinner (it was his own suggestion for him to come my way and I liked ... (242 words)

He couldn't get it up our first time together!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm 31 and I went on my third date with a new guy (37) last night. We have known each other for about a month, but started dating just last week. The night went great and we had a lot of fun. We stayed up really late and he ended up spending the night. When we got into my bed, ... (379 words)

He loses his temper especially about money issues

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hello friends! I am in a dilema! I don't think my boyfriend is good at communicating. He waits until things REALLY get on his nerves and then he blows up on me! Like he used to hate how much rent I paid him, and he never said anything until one day we were in an argument a... (926 words)

Not sure I can trust him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm not sure I can trust my boyfriend. I discovered that, the very night we began dating, he had been calling and messaging his ex-girlfriends, asking them to come over. He told one of them "I'd rather not stop seeing you." Nothing has happened since that day (it's been a year) ... (298 words)

Does my mother have Asperger's Syndrome?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My mother has always mystified me. She is very uncomfortable showing her emotions, to the point where she has never said "I love you" to me, and my father sometimes forces her to say it to him. As I got older, I learned that she was different from other mothers by watching the ... (605 words)

I spent loads of money booking this trip, and he's gone silent!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3936 days ago

16 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 current currently lives in a different city. We planned for a trip 2 months before and i did all reservations. We are supposed to leave for the trip tomorrow morning. I have to catch a flight first thing in the morning and he'll meet me there. The p... (173 words)

I really like this girl!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

16 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I was talking to this girl on a dating site and we had been talking for nearly a month. We were getting on really well and we had similar interests, she even admired that she really liked me and I liked her a lot too but I feel really gutted. For some reason, in ... (242 words)

Where can I find a younger woman, evolved intellectually, who isn't interested in procreating?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 3910 days ago

16 July 2013 (M)

age - I'm in my mid fifties, look 10 years younger, am mistaken for being in my thirties on occasion. I find younger women attractive, but I'm afraid to respond to their overtures for fear of rejection when they find out that I'm much older than they thought. I'm conflicted because ... (121 words)