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writes:Hi guys, okay so I'm 21 and work in a warehouse office which is we're I met this guy :) we have been talking a lot for about 4 months on Facebook and texting and of course in work. So to be honest he was the one doing all the chasing! Texting me everyday asking me out all the time etc! So last week he asked me to go out for a drink on Saturday with him and his friends and for me to bring his friends to which I replied I was working Sunday and couldnt, he was persistent and I ended up saying he's and asking my friends to join us. So we all finished work Friday and we arranged to meet at 3 o'clock on the Saturday! I was excited :) so Saturday came, I had text him in the morning to which I got no reply (strange) had a feeling he wasn't going to show but went along with my own friends anyway, at 3 o'clock his friends turned up and also said they couldnt contact him. I text him and no reply I stayed out for a drink and eventually went home and text him on the Sunday to which I got no reply but I could see he was online on Facebook! Again very strange so we have been on different shifts this week but I will be working with him tomorrow! Any advice in how I should approach him? Should. Say anything atall? Thanks
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (5 July 2013):
 I'd not only ignore the incident i'd be sweet as pie (BUT VERY professional) to him.
I'd not make plans with him again... clearly he's a game player and not worth any effort to have a relationship with him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2013): Yeah, I'd ignore him. This guy sounds sketchy...sounds like th kind of guy who just likes the chase. Unless he has some sort of great excuse (like a family tragedy that day) if he starts chasing again I'd stay away from him.
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reader, CodyLeamcdowell +, writes (4 July 2013):
CodyLeamcdowell is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI know I think I will just ignore him! Before he was too full on and now nothing! He needs to find a medium!
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reader, cute angel  +, writes (4 July 2013):
 Dear OP,
This guy was soo persistent you come,and when u say yes he takes a back seat..(Very wierd) you called/texted he doesn reply..I think the guy was wrong,if he couldn't make it the most decent thing to do would be saying he can't make It which he dint..he ows you an explanation which he dint do as well..the best you can do now,is ignore him when u see him a work,just keep It at work level,you don't bring it up,cuz you did twiice and got no answer..so if he doesn't care enough to tell you,I don't see why you should run behind him for an explanation!you can address the topic if he brings it up if not then just pretend like it never happened! And if he does bring it up,do tell him what u felt that day..
Thank you
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