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Archived questions from: 17 July, 2013 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

He finishes so fast, before it even starts to feel good for me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So me and my boyfriend have been having sex for about two months now. I get him ready and he gets me ready and every time we go to do it he always cums so fast before it even starts to feel good for me. It's happened about 5 times now and it's so frustrating for me. He says I ... (140 words)

My husband just doesn't want to do 'normal' things.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My husband just doesn't want to do 'normal' things. He is very fond of drinking whilst I'm not bothered. All his plans involve drink and drinking buddies as I call them. He won't make plans with me to go out or walk with the dog, take me out a drive, visit somewhere new, ... (335 words)

Should I carry on until he leaves and let it die out or do I tell him it's wrong?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Dear aunts and uncles, I think I'm in deep with this one. Someone I met through work recently started talking to me a lot more than they used to. We had a flirty relationship at work but he was like it with everyone so no one took it too seriously. Well our recent conversat... (320 words)

67 year old father dating a girl almost 50 years younger than him. I don't know whether to laugh or cry

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My 67 year old father has been dating a 19 year old girl for a month now, and she is already living with him. She does not work or go to school, she just stays home and lives off him. I, along with my three siblings, are upset and disgusted. What upsets me the most is the fact ... (240 words)

My partner has convinced himself I have had sex with someone else

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok...where to begin. I came in from work asked my partner for a kiss, he said no. When I asked why he said...it's a bit difficult but then said during sex last night he had noticed I felt different, He then said I had taken a long time while I was out yesterday and as I had ... (163 words)

I'm willing to give them a deposit on a home, but I want them to make some contribution too

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

17 July 2013 (M)

age - Following a divorce over 20 years ago I haven't lived with children who are now both in their mid twenties. Over that time I have maintained a good relationship with them and have always seen and spoken to them regularly. I am now in the position where I can gift them each a 1... (166 words)

I can't tell what's up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi Aunts and Uncles, I've been seeing a guy for a number of weeks now, been on a few dates and I really enjoy his company. He's the first guy I've ever really been with without considering looks, I adore his personality and that he can have a laugh with me, all my friends t... (367 words)

Would writing to him help me get over the breakup?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3935 days ago

17 July 2013 (F) age 41-50 - My ex of 4 years dumped me out of nowhere. It's just too harsh for me then. I keep myself busy and move on and I think I'm doing better though I still cried to bed some nights. I think I forgive him in my heart and wish him the best. Does anyone think I should write him an ... (64 words)

What does no love lost between two people mean?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Someone told me that there is no love lost between me and my son's mother-in-law. what does she mean? Has the mother-in-law badmouthed me?... (26 words)

I'm on holiday and my sister is driving me mad! How do I cope with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am currently on holiday with 4 other people, one of whom is my younger sister. I know sisters often clash more than friends, but she is driving me mad and I need some advice on how to deal with her and get through the last 6 days (we've been here 8 already). FYI, we are in ... (785 words)

Break up after 12 years together, she's moved on and happy but I'm miserable!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - Hi there. I read someone elses story and mine relates a bit. I am really hurting bad and I need advice. My girlfriend recently left me. A bit more than a month ago. We were together for 12 years. We were always good together. No cheating, no fighting. She decided she wanted a ... (210 words)

A new potential step parent vs a teenager

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3934 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I need constructive advise about a situation that is bothering me. Im widowed 5 years now and have 3 kids (14, 11 and 10), I finally met the most amazing man and he proposed to me recently. A background on the guy, he is the type of guy that is a go getter and wants everything ... (496 words)

I don't know how to feel about what my friend said about me. How would you feel?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

17 July 2013 (?) age 30-35 - I feel really sad and confused right now. My friend of so many years whom we both had feelings for once..said something rather hurtful when I was speaking to him yesterday. He said he can't deal with me and that we haven't got a long for the past few years. This is completely ... (305 words)

Should I go back to see the man I met on holiday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I went on holiday to Jamaica at the beginning of the year to celebrate my birthday. While there I met a guy there. I was not interested in him on holiday at all I thought he was drop dead gorgeous. But I just don't go on looks I go for personality too. Aside from a kiss one day ... (277 words)

Should I have broken up with him for voicing his ambivalence about being in a relationship?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, I've posted a few times previously and been very pleased to receive genuine advice from people. To cut to the chase, my boyfriend and I, together 3 years, have recently come out of a very rough patch where a lot of things were said. The main thing that happened was my ... (415 words)

Should I buy this house with him, and try to make this marriage work?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I need some advice. I am 6 months pregnant and my parents have given me and my husband some money, so we can buy a house together. We have found a place and have applied for our mortgage, we are hoping to exchange contracts by the end of august. We are currently rentin... (357 words)

My boyfriend lets his ex control everything!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - my boyfriend of 9 months, wont stand up to his ex about me. his life basically runs on her schedule, because they have a beautiful daughter together and she has full legal custody. Something he is well aware that she uses to control him. She even said she'd send their daughter ... (513 words)

Why would my lover ask his wife to pick me up?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age - I have a really strange question to ask. Iv'e been involved with a married man for over 8yrs.and please i'm not here asking for comments regarding the long term affair.but today when i texted him and said i will not be home till later this afternoon as i am going to see my d... (201 words)

My boyfriend's cousin is ruining our relationship and destroying our love. :(. What should I do ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I've been dating my friend for almost a yearalong . I came from rich family and he came from poor family. It has started with him being carying, nice, concerned over me. First we both never thought that we would be dating eachother. I realized that he was a guy I was looking ... (279 words)

Why is he acting like we are together but says its nothing serious help!!!!!!!!!!!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - This is quite a confusing situation !!! I met this guy weve been hanging out for about 2 month there was a little drama in the begining but that is over now. And we are still hanging i asked him what was going on with us and he said im not seeing anyone and neither are you but ... (174 words)

Should I be more vocal about my interest in my friend? Or maybe just let this one pass?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi guys. I have a guy friend I've known for a few months that I've developed romantic interest in and I think I can see signs that might signal at least some level of attraction on his part. A lot of contact which he initiates, plus there's the occasional friendly/flirty or ... (296 words)

Do you try to work it out or walk away?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year now and lately all we do us argue. I have trust issues from a previous relationship. I don't like his friends and can't stand to be around them so I prefer to not go to social events with him. We bicker over the littlest ... (206 words)

Is love really racist or Is it just my mind?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi Friends, I am really trying to understand something here. I am working in a private sector firm and I like someone at work. I am an South East Asian and she probably is White/Mix. She started working at my company couple of weeks ago. When I saw her for the first time i... (238 words)

I don't think I'm going to be the smartest any more, any tips?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (?) age 22-25 - Im known as a super smart kid in mt school. next year im going to a charter school for eighth grade.its a brand new school just built. and all the kids there are super geniuses. like sheldon cooper smart.and im scared i wont be one of the smartest anymore. i really value ... (60 words)

He works nights and we don't do anything together. I'm afraid of being alone, what do I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3937 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone so im a little new to the site. But I'm needing some advice. i'm 20 years old i have a 2 year old daughter. Through out my whole dating life i've only dated 4 guys. They were all serious relationships. Any way. My last relationship was with my 2 year olds father w... (362 words)

By leaving him completely, will that make a guy come back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

17 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - ok, I have been cutting a client/guys hair for a many yrs, and his kids too. after he got separated from his wife, not divorced yet,about 5mo, he asked me out.btw he has full custody of his kids. it was a whirlwind relationship, for 3mo we were all about each other, after 2 mo ... (228 words)