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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Which path to follow.....your head or your heart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - How do you know whether to follow your head or your heart? I'm a 23 year old gal, I like this girl I met a few weeks ago she seems cool, don't know much about her but my head tells me she seems nice, we joke together and flirt a bit and she's hot. She's a few years old than m... (160 words)

What are the chances she has broken up with husband turned gay? Do I make a move?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Ok, this woman I am into has recently split from her hubby. We've flirted for months now, I wasn't sure if he was still around as she seemed to enjoy my flirtatious being. I really like her, but not sure what to do. Firstly, what the chances she's broke up with her hub, turned ... (107 words)

Should we go seek counseling or it just makes no sense ? I found out he was cheating while I was pregnant

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - how to deal with this situation ...had a baby for the man that i love dearly on October 1st of last year we were going through alot of problems which i had already made up my mind to deal with whatever problems we may encounter during our life together . now to me a new chap... (328 words)

How to help my depressed boyfriend and our sex life?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend of 8 months has depression and erectile dysfunction. He had problems with erectile dysfunction that was quite mild our whole relationship but we still had a good sex life. But now that hes depressed as well, he never wants to have sex with me and when we do try, he ... (364 words)

I don`t want to cheat but I`d like some affection from my friend

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok heres the dilema, I'm married and have 2 kids. Years ago I met a guy who totally blew my world away, we only saw each other for a short time and were never intimate sexually. I had to break it off because my ex wanted me back in my life and like a fool I took him back. ... (163 words)

Are they my real friends? I can't even trust to tell them my relationship which I am so happy in?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - My friends hurt me sometimes but i'm afraid to let go because I dont know are they my friends? Are they my real friends? What is your opinion.? So I am in this group of 6 girls. I'm 18 and they are 16 and 17 year olds. I started school late and so i'm older. I am the sort... (574 words)

I'm the first and only man he's been with, but will we ever actually be together?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Im an Asian guy whos luckily considered really good looking in western's eyes. despite what people see, i want them to look at me cos more than a good appearance i've got, there's a good heart i own. i know i don't have to be with a good looking person in order to find ha... (504 words)

My boyfriend gives me butterflies, but I'm not crazy about what he's wearing... how can I focus on the less superficial stuff?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I know I would be judged for this and be called superficial but I really need some input/advise on my situation.. I am seeing this guy for a little over 3 months, he is head over heels in love with me,compliments me a lot, he is very attracted to me! I like this... (134 words)

Why is my fiancé suddenly looking at porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have just found out that my fiance has been on a porn site. I am worried he is getting fed up of me. He has always said that he hasn't looked at porn since he has been with me (3 years now) so why now all of a sudden? Any advice please?... (53 words)

Is he making up an excuse not to see me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age - I'm a 50 year old lady. 6 years ago i met this guy in the same age group as me,we really hit it off, but after 7 months it ended. One of the reasons really was he had never been married and i think he had commitment issues. anyway after a while i got back with my ex of 18 ye... (174 words)

How can I get my son's father to see him more often??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I've been practically begging my son's father to see him more often/call/anything-to no avail. He treats me like I'm nagging and then accuses me of making it sound like he doesn't love or care about his son. He sees him about twice a month. We live 20 minutes from each oth... (238 words)

Does guy from work want something to happen between us all?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Well I seem to have got myself into an interesting situation to say the least. Last year I met a guy at work,I'll call him Sam, well we became friends chatting to each other at work but no contact outside if it, he flirted often with me and one day admitted that he found me ... (335 words)

I've tried a couple of times to engage with her -- should I give up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - Dear aunts and uncles. I hope all of you are having a great and relaxing summer with your loved ones! First of all I just want to warn you guys that I am a horrible writer, so forgive me if the explanation of the situation is difficult to understand :). Now to the predicame... (567 words)

He's done it all before, and I want the relationship to be as special for him as it is for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 8 months (both of us 20 years old). We both knew from the start that it would be a serious relationship and I think of him as my best friend as well as my boyfriend. The thing is this is my first relationship, but not his. He's had tw... (327 words)

Should I worry about his porn use? He said he tried to give it up but lasted only 3 days!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I know this is going to sound stupid to most people because it sounds stupid to me but it annoys me and set of my jealous streak.. (I know I'm going to get some 'hate' probably for what I've done) So me and my boyfriend have exchanged intimate pictures and videos for each ... (309 words)

How do I make her love me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (M)

age 26-29 - i am in class 10th and love a girl who is a year younger than me.. The problem is that she hates me a lot. Once i had proposed her but she said no with a reason that she thinks me as her brother.... I can't take big steps because it's school days so please suggest some easy ... (69 words)

Why are the people I work with so nasty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are the people I work with so nasty? I'm so upset:(? I've gotten a new job 2 months ago and I love my job but the people I work with are just pure nasty and bitchy. They are all friends and one big group and they've just left me out. I had an argument with o... (160 words)

He keeps telling me he'd rather be dead than a dad. I don't know how to handle this!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Help!! iv recently found out i am pregnant i have been with the baby's farther 7 mths i know that not long and it wasn't anything serious the pregnancy wasn't planned. i told him about the baby and at the time he said he will support me as much as he can which t that i s... (194 words)

He lied about who was calling him, should I bring it up? Is he worth my trust?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - dear cupids, my boyfriend had a phone cal while we were together and he didn't pick up, i asked who is it, he said it was mr.x. later in a chat with mr.x i asked him if he called my boyfriend today and he said no. i told my boyfriend and told him that i hated the idea of lyin... (225 words)

Should I tell him off for giving my friend herpes?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3940 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - My friend had sex with this guy she hardly knew (we're on holiday) and firstly he stole her headphones and totally avoided her, but now she has got ulcers on her tonsils and it looks like herpes. Plus she has all the other symptoms like muscle ache, tiredness, fever etc. W... (108 words)

She has pain during sex but refuses to see the doctor!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - I been with my girlfriend for 6months. Our relationship is great. We doesn't like to have sex everyday, but it's okay, when we do she gets pains down below after 10mins and I always have to stop as she claims to feel diZy and in pain and it ends badly. I feel unsatisfied... (172 words)

If he goes traveling, I may resent him. If he stays here for me, he may resent me. What do we do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - hi there I am such a mess right now and really need some advice: My boyfriend and I have been together almost a year we get on so well and have recently we have have had a few minor disagreements - nothing really bad but more so than usual - nothing I feel we should break ... (486 words)

Should I be giving up my best friend just because I have feelings for him? He said he's happy to stop having sex, but doesn't wanna lose me as a mate?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I have fallen for someone I can't have, but I knew that when we started and now its too late. I met this guy about 9 months ago, we clicked immediately, he had a gf but decided to sleep with me.. I knew it was wrong but he said it was just a bit of fun, no strings attached... (213 words)

Should I be expecting him to call me or should I just stop?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I've been talking to his guy since January and dating him since may. We're both pretty messe up people (based on the past) and we've had maybe a couple arguments before we dated but then began having more when we started dating. Lately when we have fights he doesn't text me ... (277 words)

Should I be jealous that my B/f might become interested in this girl and leave me for her?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend last year at the gym I train in. He is a personal trainer and we got along really well and started dating after a few months. We now live together and for the most part it is a really good relationship! We have lots of fun and laugh and great sex. We can talk ... (280 words)

I really want to know if she likes me or not but I don't want to ask her because I don't want to ruin our friendship if my friend is wrong.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - So I have been friends with this girl for about a year now. We're best friends and everything was fine up until recently when one of my friend told me that she is bi and likes me... Which I don't have a problem with seeing as I'm bi. I just find it soo hard to believe that ... (283 words)

He goes MIA to watch porn, or go to a strip club. I'm feeling very deflated. Should I stay?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - My husband and I have been married for 7 months and dated for 5 years. Recently our sex life has been few and far between. I am a very sexual person and would have sex everyday if he was in to it. He denies me sex but has no problem watching teenage porn on the internet. The ... (184 words)

Please tell me how I can end this!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Thanks for Reading..... Friends please help me in getting out if here actually from last 7 months I am in a relationship with a girl but I really really don't love her but she is ve4y much serious about this relations but when i came to know all about it....it makes me feel lik... (146 words)

Should I continue this long distance relationship or try to cut it off to avoid heartbreak?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3916 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - About five years ago I met a guy, along with a handful of other people from all over the world, while playing an online game. I've kept in good contact with many of these people throughout the years. This guy in particular has been a great friend, though a long distance on... (393 words)

Why would he throw away 7 years and me for that mess?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age - I'm hoping for someone to enlighten me on why my ex fiancé would dump me and marry someone who resembles his ex wife. My ex was married to an alcoholic like himself for 14 yrs. It was a very abusive marriage to say the least. When we met he was just out of that marriage and ... (1174 words)

Why do I still get jealous if I don't love her anymore?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3941 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Long story, so please bear with me! I met this girl, she's 26, I'm 31, and I was head over heels for her. I knew she was gay, but she was still deep in the closet when we met. We started going out but she treated me like sh*t. She would always keep me waiting, not answer m... (298 words)

She seems to send mixed signals. I'm so confused?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's a girl I really like and know through my summer job. We talk quite a bit and I enjoy her company. We can be really honest with each other, she tells me about things how she felt a bit overwhelmed away at school or goings on in her life, etc. I asked her a while back if ... (369 words)

Do you think sexual chemistry could really be gone and if so, do you think it's possible to rekindle to salvage this budding relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi readers! I'm a long-time lurker, first time poster. I'd like to thank everyone in advance for reading this post; I realize it rather lengthy, but I do hope it's easily readable... For the past couple years, I have had a "friends with benefits" arrangement with a friend of... (1550 words)

My b/f only wants to talk when things are good

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid My bf of 3 years talks to me only when im happy and hv no problems @ work or anywhere else. He stops talking and avoids me when i have problems. I am not a complainer but once in a while i want someone atleast to listen to my problems. Is that too much to ask from... (155 words)

Am I shallow for thinking that the cosmetic surgery took something away?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

10 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - There's this girl that I used to date, she was so beautiful and now she's had a nose job. Nothing drastic, she just got rid of the bump on her nose to have it straightened and had the tip raised a bit. It looks really good, if I didn't know her before I wouldn't have noticed ... (225 words)

Things seemed to be going so much better, then he broke up with me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3943 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so confused, can someone help me make sense of all of this. I dated my boyfriend for 14 months he is 22 and I'm 23. He has always been so much more immature than me and we used to fight a lot over his lying and being inconsiderate and selfish a lot of the time and we broke... (479 words)

Anyone else get cranky when they've been without for a while?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3942 days ago

10 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Out of curiosity, do any of you ever get cranky when you have not had sex in a while? I find that my irritability increases significantly, and I feel like a volcano that's about to explode!... (39 words)