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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

Have you ever stayed in a relationship just to not break lease?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Have you ever stayed in a relationship just to not break lease? I'm a college student in a serious relationship. We moved in together because we are going to the same school, and it was convenient. I love him, but he is a nightmare to live with. (Yes, I know it... (251 words)

My boyfriend doesn't like me confiding in friends about our problem but he confides in a female friend when we fight

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I are in a serious relationship for almost 2 years. We had a spat, and he went to his friend who is a girl and told her all about it, and confided in her!!I don't like it It upsets me because he does not like me getting advice from other people, if he kne... (91 words)

I feel like I'm in love with my teacher and I don't know how to stop feeling this way

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (M)

age 22-25 - I feel like I'm in love with my maths teacher and I don't know what to do. I'm quite young and I know it's not legal for me to have an intimate relationship with her but I just can stop this feeling. The last thing I would want is for her to lose her job because of me saying I ... (115 words)

I'm never really physically attracted to guys and I don't know why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I am 28 and I've never been properly physically attracted to anyone in real life. Is that weird? I have had boyfriends who I think are nice enough looking I suppose, and I have enjoyed sex with them to a certain degree because it feels nice once I get into it, but I've never ... (184 words)

Does the fact that my best guy friend, whom I like, and I are not a couple yet mean that he's not into me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3688 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My best guy friend and I've became best friends since our high school years. We talk and text each other almost every single hour. We share our moments and stories together, even when we both had relationships with other people. Lately I started to have feelings for him... (112 words)

Should I get in touch with the guy I like, wait until we're at the same social event again, or just leave it altogether?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I went to a posh boat party a month ago, and met this guy there, for convenience lets call them "Tom". We spoke and for about 20 minutes and I realised we had a lot in common with football, tennis etc! I then went to a garden party and he was there last week but I only spoke... (235 words)

Would it be creepy if I texted the girl I like to tell her I think she's cute?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi. Girls in the forum, I wanted to ask whether you would find the following thing I'm thinking of creepy or not: There's this girl whom I find to be really attractive whom I've met (or rather come to know of) as part of occasional workplace meetings. I hadn't really ta... (190 words)

Like a fool I told my crush how I felt ...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3901 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - So I told my crush of 6 years I liked him and he replied "I understand. Bet you feel better now that you got that oft my chest." See he was a good friend. I was dating my ex when this guy and I met. We totally hit it off and since my bf was a truck driver, I always went ove... (274 words)

I feel unloved and unwanted in this marriage

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I love my husband of 10 years but for the past 6 months he has become totally disconnected from me. I am 47 and my husband is 49. We have no children. My 85 year old mom lives with us in a 2 bedroom 2 bathroom apt. We haven't had sex in 6 months and I am hurt that he do... (342 words)

Anger overcame our love

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was with him for 3 years. We loved and cared for each other more than anything. But now every day I hurt and I cry and I'm so sad to be without him. This initial break up happened about two months ago and since then we've spoken, yelled, argued, loved and been with each o... (429 words)

Can a relationship survive or be strong when sex is not involved?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Whats your opinion....can a relationship survive or be strong when sex is not involved?...am asking cos i dont wish to have sex until i get married.thanks... (26 words)

I don't want to leave it long enough that he finds another girlfriend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey I'm a 17 year old girl and I really like a 25 year old guy that has just broken up with his girlfriend. I'm aware of our age difference because he's had a live in relationship with a girl and I've only had a couple of boyfriends my age. I think he's interested in me too but ... (237 words)

Divorced and interested in dating a divorced distant friend

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (M)

age - I'm divorced for 3 years. My female friend who I've know for decades is divorced for about a year. We were never close friends and we never had any kind of issues. I find myself very attracted to her but really don't know if she has any interest in me. Knowing it took me a good ... (140 words)

I think my b/f might ask me to marry him and I'm not ready to say yes!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, so me and my boyfriend have been together 5 years, and last week he announced he would be taking us on a "break" together somewhere really nice that I'd never guess... He also asked my opinion on a "ring" says that his work collegue gets many of them because of her "... (279 words)

Boyfriend has a bad temper, what should I do

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm 27 and my boyfriend is 26. We live together and most of the time we get along very well. However, my boyfriend is extremely touchy and if I say the "wrong" thing to him he gets very angry very fast. For example: Today my boyfriend and I went to the beach. After be... (652 words)

Is she just not interested or has something suddenly come up?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Thanks for reading...I'm in a bit of a tizzy and not sure what to think so need an outside perspective... I met a girl in a bar a couple of weeks ago. She seemed lovely and we took photos and she put her number in my phone. We spoke for a few days and i asked her to dinner. ... (546 words)

How can he go from loving me to not loving me in 24 hours?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - I was seeing a guy for a little while, he told a friend he fancied me and wasn't sure if I was interested. To be honest, I hadn't really thought of him like that but agreed to go on a date with him, I really enjoyed myself and thought he was great. My friends all said I am way ... (363 words)

Why wouldn't my ex say goodbye? I just want everything to go to an end.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - This is my last post. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-guys-still-hate-or-forgive-your.html My ex and I are in two different continents which is about 7000 km away. We will never see each other again. I know most people recommend no contact after breakup, but I t... (248 words)

Advice for a untidy boyfriend!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - My boyfriend and I have been together for 2.5 years, lived together for a year. We are both social extroverts with a passion for new adventures and life. Where were very different is cleaning and tidyness, with me spending much more time doing household chores. I dont think im ... (186 words)

LDR boyfriend and I discussed marriage and kids, now he hasn't returned my calls for 3 weeks.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Me and my bf have been in a relationship long distance for three months now, we met 3 years ago And dated then but then he got sent to Iraq twice and we lost cobtact over time, he got into contact with me at the beginning of the year by email and asked did I want to continue... (207 words)

After our weekend away together, my boyfriend called me a slut and a whore and said I never leave him alone.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3928 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am in LDR now with my bf of 4 years. We went for a trip few days ago as we didn't meet for few months. As far as i could see the trip was great and fun. We came back to our respective cities. I called him next day, he sounded ok, but he cut the call short. Yest... (212 words)

I broke off a bad relationship, what can I say to him so that we can be on good terms?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with him about a month ago because he was mistreating me, yelling too often. I know I broke his heart. We had a bitter breakup, he got very cranky and both of us said we didn't want to speak again. After less than three weeks of no contact, he called me. I missed the ... (206 words)

I've never been able to achieve orgasm through penetration.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3930 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi, I need some helpful advice please??! Here's the low down... I've been sexually active for 12 years now and have never had an orgasm via penetrative sex. Oral and hands I'm fine with... I can reach clitoral orgasms just fine ( thankfully ) phew!!! At first,... (703 words)

I wish sometimes that my boyfriend's friends would back off!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (F) - My boyfriend and I are both 29 years old. He is the love of my life and the best person i have been with. We both always say how Much we love each other and have stated we want a future together. We are both saving at the moment but are thinking of moving in next year after ... (241 words)

My boyfriend talks about himself a lot and rarely asks me meaningful questions!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi all, I've [29/f] noticed recently that my boyfriend [30/m] talks about himself and his job and stuff quite a lot. He asks me questions like how was your day and that kind of stuff but we never really expand on that... I offer up information and ask him questions about ... (447 words)

Part of me hates him, part of me loves him. What am I supposed to do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago, we were together for 2 years. We broke up basically because we weren't getting along for a long time and he refused to communicate his issues. I didn't want to break up with him because I loved him, but I was the only one invested in ... (198 words)

I know we can't be together so how do I get over him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 2952 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I really need advice. Me and my ex boyfriend met 2 years ago in the summer of 2011 we formed a relationship which lasted around 2 months. We ended things because he got a job in a different country and we both mutually because we felt that we could not survive the long ... (290 words)

He would make plans to come visit and then totally avoid me the day he was supposed to come! Why?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3932 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I had been talking to a guy for about 6 months, and although we live about 2 hours apart we would talk almost every day. I'd visited him a few times where he lives and we had a lot of fun. He then told me he wanted me to be his girlfriend so I asked him to come visit me this ... (338 words)

Should I break up with my baby daddy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3933 days ago

20 July 2013 (?) age 30-35 - Ok well ive been with this man for 2 years and i have a child with him. Our relationship has been terrible for the last year. I cheated on him. I really do regret it. I wanna tell him but the thing is it was with his brother. It was a mistake but ive been still talking to him. ... (108 words)

He's living with his mistress and driving her SUV only 2 weeks of leaving our home.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3931 days ago

20 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - I had my husband of 15 years to move out of our home because I discovered more evidence that he's having an affair. He moved out, but refuses to talk to me about anything. He's been doing this every time I try to talk to him. The isolation from our children started months ago. ... (101 words)