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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My ex won't leave me and my friends alone!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

13 July 2013 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi all, Having an issue due to the aftermath of my last thread. [ http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-cant-provide-the-storybook-life-she-wants.html ] I was going out with a girl for four years. She is very insecure and likes things her own way. We broke up two months ago b... (316 words)

Since I no longer pay for everything, he doesn't hardly see me at all!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - Ok I'm back with more questions. I am still in the LDR. But have made some much needed changes. I no longer pay for everything but with that change it means he doesn't see me hardly at all. So this is probably the last straw. This weekend I drive 3 hours to see him and he keeps ... (99 words)

Put a dent in my boyfriend's car, how do I handle this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 41-50 - I backed into something last night in boyfriends new car and now he is not speaking to me after though he was rude and acts like i did it on purpose. How long will he be mad? It isnt even a big dent (2in) also how should i handle it we live together... (53 words)

Can someone please reassure me that having a small flat will not stop me from having a loving relationship in future?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3936 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 51-59 - Advice or just opinions needed please. I'm due to move home after a very painful and drawn out split from my long term partner, who was a binge drinker and abusive. My health became very bad due to the stress of his behaviour and I could no longer pay my mortgage for my ... (473 words)

I'm shy but I want to tell him how I feel!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3867 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - i really like my cousin. hes not my blood relative cousin. my friends think its weird anyway i want to tell him how i feel about him but im a shy person and its so hard when i see him i always look my best and try to drop hints that i like him example i laugh at his jokes and ... (102 words)

I'm not her type, but she went on a date with me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone! I recently went on a date with this girl, who I've been pursuing for like 6 weeks. She and I have an extraordinary amount in common, from musical taste, sense of humor, race and even religion - the main reason behind me being so attracted to her (obviously.)... (422 words)

Is there ever love again after you lose your soulmate?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi everyone :) My boyfriend and I have just broken up, well, he broke up with me something like 6 days ago. Now he's in NYC and he's coming back next week. He broke up with me because he told me that he didn't love me anymore, and he also told me that I don't have to hope tha... (178 words)

Are they just friends, or what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - My bf and i have been dating for three months,he has a friend he talks about most times,a girl who is his neighbour,the girl usually calls her,recently we met and he said he will miss me since we will be vacating soon,he said he cant wait for the girl to come back form school ... (91 words)

Does this mean he no longer sees a future for us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - I have been with my boyfriend just under a year now. In a little confused. We used to talk about our wedding day and kids and stuff. A couple of months ago, we had a couple of big fights but are working through them and he is still affectionate and says I love you often and our ... (153 words)

I had everything planned out, then love got in the way

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3933 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi everyone, I need a bit of advice. Basically for the past year I have been dreaming of spending my life (or at least the rest of my 20's) travelling. So I worked hard to create my own online business that I can take around the world with me. Everything went to plan exc... (307 words)

She left me and now seems to be all about money and status

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (M)

age 41-50 - My girlfriend of 10 years left me a while ago. She lost a lot of weight and started hanging out in clubs with people who would never have accepted her before the weight loss. All the attention went to her head I think. A month after she left she met someone. He's an engineer ... (124 words)

I've Fallen In Love With My Oldest Friend, Help

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3939 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 22-25 - I think I've fallen in love with a really close friend. His dad and my dad are best friends so we've grown up together but now that I'm 15 and he's 16 and we've grown up from running about the back garden playing football I genuinely think I'm in love with him. I don't mean all ... (163 words)

Heartbroken, in love with ex crush

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

13 July 2013 (?) age 41-50 - Please help. I have been noticing this man around a lot the last 3 weeks and we've been flirting (staring mostly by him and lots of smiles) we have not had chance to speak but have feeling that we would have got along, just didn't have chance to get to know him. Sometimes you ... (148 words)

Does it work to not always be available when you are dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey everyone, I'm dating this guy for over 3 months!!and I'v seen and learnt from experience and also my friend's relationship,the minute you totally give a 100% your boyfriend lose interest,they love it when they have to work for it..and I don't want my boyfriend to take me ... (110 words)

Do you guys still hate or forgive your exes after being dumped?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F) age 41-50 - So my ex and I were in LDR and he dumped me out of no where a couple of months ago. I've been through every phase,grief,hating him, missing him and now trying to forgive him. I don't know what to do is better for me. I mean we've been through a lot.I was always with him every ... (172 words)

Why am I so jealous and insecure of my husband?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Im really insecure and jealous to me n my husband have been together for almost 2 years we have a 14 month old boy n a 1 month old girl. But when we first got together i was just playing on his phone and found so many pics of naked girl i mean alot n he told me he watched porn ... (422 words)

FWB should I have told him how I feel?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - I was involved in a friends with benefits situation with a guy for about 3 months. We had a mutual friend, and i would always be at their house, so was the guy. We would have so much fun together. One night he told me he wanted me....sexually. Before I got sexual with him I ... (212 words)

How do I handle nasty girls at work?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3938 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Why are these girls so horrible? I'm so upset:(? I got a new job 2months ago and the girls I started with are just plain nasty. They all formed a little group immediately and left me out and that's fine with me but they just won't leave me alone. They are cons... (186 words)

Is it bad to go to prom alone?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 26-29 - dear cupid, is it bad to go to prom alone. I feel like im a failure at life; not one boy from school asked me as his date. how do I keep things positive? looking at allmy friends preparations with dresses,andflowers,and most importantly their dates, I don't even feel like goi... (67 words)

I keep trying to date her but things don't work out and now she's ignoring me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

13 July 2013 (M)

age 30-35 - i dated this girl for 3 weeks long time ago in the year 2008,i embarrassed her in front of her friends but she dint leave me,later on at the 3rd week i proposed to her and told her i like her but she told me she has a boy friend and she is going to university and she does not ... (310 words)

Should she just be up front about the nose job?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3937 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 30-35 - Just a simple question, I know everybody has their own opinions on people who have nose jobs. But please don't be judgemental and say those who do are 'shallow, stupid, fake' or any other insulting and personal comment. Because it depends on the person and my sister isn't any ... (261 words)

Can my ex take my daughter away from an environment where she's doing well?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3939 days ago

13 July 2013 (M)

- Im not sure if this belongs on this site, but i'll try it. My 14 year old daughters mother lives in VA and is moving to Texas in a month. For the last 3 years my daughter has lived with me and done real well with school and is living a stable life, something she hadn't had when ... (459 words)

He still looks at naked pics of his ex

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3939 days ago

13 July 2013 (F)

age 36-40 - Can I still date the guy or pursue a marriage while he is still curious about his ex girlfriend and look for her online and look at her naked photos? Is this normal for a guy? ... (39 words)