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How to make my ex's new girlfriend like me?

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Question - (15 May 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 May 2012)
A female Namibia age 30-35, *moky eyes writes:

Well here's the thing my exs girlfriend is pregnant and i want to be friends with her,i am sure that by now she is awere of the fact that i dated her boyfriend but i find her to be an intersting person that i can share great times with, so how do i make her like me and avoid the awekwardness

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (15 May 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou want your ex boyfriend's current pregnant girlfriend to be friends with you?

why?

you can't make someone be friends with you and while it may sound like a good idea.. I find that being friendly and civil with an ex is a much better plan than actually being friends.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2012):

I agree with grymsoul, but would like to add that there is no way you can not "make" someone like you at all, either they do or they don't. Personally I wouldn't want to be friends with one of my boyfriend's ex's at all, it makes things awkward and honestly it is just a disaster waiting to happen. Go find someone else to be friend's with.

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A male reader, grymsoul United States +, writes (15 May 2012):

grymsoul agony auntThere is no way to avoid the awkwardness. You' re asking to be friends with you ex boyfriend 's girlfriend. That whole thing right there is dipped in awkwardness sauce. Not only will the boyfriend object to it but his girlfriend might not like the idea of you being close to him, through her. Find another friend. It's better for everyone if you avoided this love triangle waiting to happen.

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