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writes:Hello all, I'm in a bit of a tough spot right now. You see, I live with my wonderful fiance, we love each other to pieces, and we live with another roommate who happens to be my good friend. Well, things are not working out with our roommate, and she shall be moving out this summer. Through a series of extenuating circumstances, we wound up with another one of my friends being our next roommate coming in.I love this friend a lot. She is so sweet and quirky, and she gets along swimmingly with my fiance. Too well, I should say. There had been some expressed attraction between them long before my fiance and I ever got together (she wanted my to hook them up, but it didn't work out!). My fiance and I were good friends at the time, and he liked me but we had never considered dating, so I was open to the idea of them being together. They didn't click for whatever reason and nothing came of it. I know this was a long time ago and the whole issue is about trust, but should I be worried about her living with us? He says he is no longer attracted to her, but can this be true?Thanks all :)
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reader, eternallyinfinite  +, writes (15 May 2012):
If you're worried about something happening, then don't let her move in. Personally I think it's kind of tempting fate, no? Sometimes old feelings come back, or perhaps new feelings develop. It's better to not let it happen, I think.
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reader, person12345 +, writes (15 May 2012):
 I wouldn't be OK with my fiancé living with someone who had a thing for him, personally. Of course it's true that he could be no longer attracted, that nothing will happen, etc... But it's going to cause you a lot of stress and that will in turn stress your relationship. I don't think it's worth it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2012): I dont think you should let her move in.It may cause a lot of problems .
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reader, Starlights  +, writes (15 May 2012):
 Yes this is all about trust; you have your doubts but as the 3 of you all get along so well its bound to make you double think.
If you feel deep down really uncomfortable about her moving in then dont do it! But if you totally can feel you can trust your bf and your friend then by all means have her move in.
Only you can decide; however if i have my doubts i would not consider this girl moving in (friend or not) lol
goodluck
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