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Archived questions from: 24 August, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

It feels wrong to like the niece of the woman my dad is planning to marry. what am I supposed to do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4262 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - my dad is engaged to some 20-something-years older lady but her niece 'louise' is really nice and pretty and funny and my age. me and louise aren't related but it feels wierd to like her because she is like a daughter to my dad's fiance. i kind of do like louise but it feels ... (66 words)

I don't want to become that lonely guy that nobody likes because he's a downer to be around

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I honestly dont know what to do so I think I need some help... I have loved someone for a very long period of time(upwards of 3 years now) and although nothing has happened between us because he insists on being straight when stuff has happened like touching each other on se... (323 words)

Men: I have a crush and need advice!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there, I would really appreciate some honest advice here as I am struggling with a particular situation and don't have a lot of people to ask and guess what it is about a MAN! There is a guy I have been working with for the last 5 months that I have grown to really ado... (1441 words)

Our first date I offer to pay his says I can get the next bill..is that odd?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am looking for some advice. I was talking to this for like 2 weeks I came across online. We hit it off so much we had a date tonight. He wasn't what I expected to be honest. It's not that he's not good looking. He almost looks too good looking. I would go as far as saying he ... (152 words)

Should I not pursue things since she blows hot and cold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I started chatting to a woman off a dating site, we had one date I was very attracted to her,she was funny, fit and I thought it was mutual. I asked her out a 2nd time she said no, I kept in touch and asked her again 2 weeks later she said yes ok.I went to her place hoping... (218 words)

Too demanding of her attention?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - I would like others' input on whether I am being unrealistic. This will be kind of long, but it's important to me and I very much appreciate anyone who takes the time to read and provide honest input. I have been seeing my girlfriend for about a year and half. We both c... (898 words)

My boyfriend is selfish and refuses to change

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I met my boyfriend almost 7 months ago - the relationship moved super fast - and he loved me right away, in fact, he told me he loved me after 4 days, we moved in 2 months in. But everything is seemingly going downhill now. He used to be so caring, he used ask me what i wanted ... (307 words)

Pointers for a virgin having sex for the first time!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey I want your advice on how will I know I'm ready for sex. I want to have sex, but I think it will be really embarrassing and awkward, is it normal to think this? I'm 20 and a virgin with a boyfriend. Any tips or pointers for a virgin? Thanks.... (56 words)

What percentage of adult males needs lube for mastubration?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4180 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - Strictly curious, repeat, strictly curious, what per centage approximately of the populations of adult, human males always, always, always needs lube for selfsexuality/masturbating, actually?... (24 words)

I'm developing feelings for my casual fling but he doesn't want the same. How do I end it?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 51-59 - Hello, This is my first time on the site and I am hoping for some guidance with my situation. I am 40 years old and struck up a 'casual dating relationship' with a guy 5 years younger than me about 3 months ago. We both entered the situation with our eyes wide open as to what ... (306 words)

I'm 26 with no dating experience

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - Hi i am a 26 eyar old man, and i have no relationship experience, i mean i haven't even kissed a girl yet. I have only been dating a girl for a few months with no success. What can i do?i get really nervous when i like a girl and that makes everything so hard.... (55 words)

I'm in love with someone who isn't my husband and think its time to walk away from my marriage

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I'm in love with someone other than my husband. What should I do?? My husband and I have been married for 6.5 years and we have two children. We only dated a few months before I became pregnant with our first child. I don't believe we ever got a chance to become friends but ... (366 words)

How can I change myself so that I don't get used?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I was on my way to a vacation and I met a really attractive guy on the plane. He was also going on vacation to the same place. We started talking and really hit it off. I normally don’t have trouble meeting guys but this guy was amazing. I couldn’t believe that he would even ... (904 words)

Ladies: What does it feel like to not be over a relationship?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

24 August 2012 (?) age 41-50 - What does it feel like to "not be over" a previous relationship for girls? I met someone 4 months ago. We've only met 5, may be 6 times during the first 2 months. Since then just texts and a seldom phone call. At first I thought she had gone off me, so thought fair eno... (225 words)

Why did my ex block me when we aren't even friends?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hey i no you guys are probably gonna say why do you care if shes your ex etc...but anyway my ex of about 6 months (we've had no contact at al) blocked me on Facebook.i haven't once in the whole time we've been split up clicked on her page page.i only noticed she blocked... (141 words)

Could what he did mean that he is interested in me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hai everybody, Something rather serendipitous happened to me, I guess I just need advice. I may be overthinking some things, I just want some incite. So, I had officially met this guy at my creative arts school today. He's in musical theater, very, very cute. I w... (537 words)

I'm worried about the size of my penis

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4245 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - hi, so im worried about my penis size... im 19 still a virgin, i have recieved oral sex before and im just worried about the size of my penis, its roughly (ive never had it measured by a doctor) 3 inches depending on how warm/cold i am, i might get to 3 1/2 inches and just ... (197 words)

Wife cheated and I can't stop thinking about it when we are apart

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My wife cheated on me a few weeks ago, we are working through it and i really do want this to work. The problem is not when we are together but when we are apart. I cant stop thinking about it! How do i stop and move on? This is starting to chew me up inside!!!... (56 words)

Why does he care so much if he is a player?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi again. Yes, I have yet another question on the same guy. So yesturday me and him were texting and he asks if I had a boyfriend. And when I say yes he replies oh :(. But, he has had lots of girlfriends in the past year (over 12). He told me that he still likes me a few days ... (200 words)

I made a sex joke about her mom

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hi agony aunts :) well I'm having more problems with my girlfriend. Last night she was angry with me because I made a sex joke about her mom. We got into a huge argument and she told me I wasn't funny, I take things too far, yada yada. And I wasn't being mean to her I just ... (292 words)

Guys! why do I always miss out? What can or should I change to find a loving reliable guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I am really losing faith in getting with guys so much so that I am wary of being involved with anyone! Every guy I seem to get with is all good and going well for 3 months and then it messes up. I am starting to think it will never happen as I am 32! I have had quite a... (177 words)

Is this shaping up as another failed relationship? Or does he just need some space to be sure about us?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hi there I have been seeing a guy for a couple of months, we have been on some amazing dates. We did sleep together, but was not straight away and that was all good too. As soon as things started to get even better he has withdrawn and not asked me out for a good few wee... (168 words)

But he's had the same Gf for 4 years. So what can I do? He's older than me. There is an attraction between us.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys, i've got a situation that i'd really love some help with. So i've been getting to know a guy recently whos quite a lot older than me (im 17). However, our personalities just click.. He makes me laugh, and we just get on so well. We have a thing where he calls me... (168 words)

He's so much taller than me, will this work?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This guy i've met we get along really well as if we've known each other a lot longer than the past couple weeks, we like the same things so we have a fair amount in common. He's really sweet and fun to be around, and good thing is he's funny in such a stupid way, I find I can't ... (357 words)

My girlfriend seems to prefer porn over me! Am I doing something wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Hey, well im a 19 year old male, in a loving relationship (11 months now) and my girlfriend is great. Only problem with her is, she likes having things a bit "her" way. She can't really do much because her family has finance issue and looking for a job is hard with her illness ... (262 words)

Is a water infection a STI?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife cheated on me a month ago, we are working on things and hopefully will be able to move on from this. However she now has a water infection, is this an STI? How do you get a water infection?... (41 words)

My boyfriend has been using casual hook up sex sites and I cant seem to get over this! Help!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear all. Please help. I can't sleep as I found out my BF has been using casual sex websites to hook up with different girls for no strings sex. I feel sick. I have been very intimate with him and was deeply in love with him. We have had a rough time latley, and we are not ... (159 words)

Is he making excuses so he can be with my best friend? Or is he just a player?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - This is a really long story, so I'll do a short version of it. I was in a relationship with a guy a couple of years ago, but we ended it because we never spent much time together as we were busy with university. But we recently have been meeting up again and we're getting along ... (603 words)

B/f will not any responsibility for what he has done, it makes me concerned about our future together

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I am hoping someone could give me some advice about this, as I’m really confused and I can’t tell if I’m overreacting or not… My boyfriend and I have been together for just under 3 years, and although we have had some disagreements in our time (we are very different people... (666 words)

Why do I always meet "Mr. Wrong"?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Dear aunts and unles. I wake up everything morning with a knot in my stomach over a guy and it's silly as I know we were nothing to begin with. I guess I'm so sad as yet again I can't keep a man. is it me???! P.s I'm not here for judgement I'm 31 and single again! I live ba... (612 words)

Is this girl flirting or just being playful?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I hope you guys don't mind long reads and I warn you I am very detailed with these types of questions so that I can get the best information. So I was kind of new to this church and nobody really knew me that well. One day we were sitting there at the table and everyone was... (893 words)

Is this really a 'break'? Or is this essentially a 'break up'?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - My GF initiated a 'break' five days ago. She insists she loves me and sees a future with me but has lost her sense of identity during our 2+ year relationship and thinks a 'break' is the only thing to do to regain her sense of self and save our relationship. ... (333 words)

He's moving overseas for work, but I want to keep the door open for later. Do you think this will work?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm looking for advice and to hopefully hear some success stories where people reunite after some time. The situation is that I met a guy while he was in the process of moving overseas for a job contract that will last 15 months. We dated for 2 months (I wanted to resist... (389 words)

I need a plan for a first date.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I recently went out on a date with a girl who's number I got at a local coffee shop. It wasn't anything crazy, just a casual late lunch at this bar and grill place (which is good because she said she doesn't like fancy restaurants). It went really well, we hung out for a bit ... (151 words)

Is escorting legal and if what are the requirements to become one in Turkey in specific ???

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24 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I'm 22 year old female and I'm from Syria I have a turkish boyfriend and am planning to live in turkey but I didn't finish my education I just have my high school diploma and I can speak 4 languages as am living in the arab world we don't really have escorting servic... (159 words)

What's my Coworkers problem?!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been working at my job for 2 years now and so has my coworker. When we first started working there and started to get to know each other our relationship was pretty good. She would even invite me to hang out with her outside of work. As time progressed and we ... (292 words)

My ex boyfriend is a professional liar and cheat. How do I tell both new ladies about each other, without leading back to me?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age - I am an ex of boyfriend who is professional liar and cheater... I left him after 18 months, but then I was shocked to accidently find secret accounts, dating site membership. Membership to secret email...(he left his IPAD open accidently in bathroom after a few drinks before b... (85 words)

How can I better deal with my hostile snappy bossy GirlF? I feel hurt when she unleashes this fury

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - My girlfriend and I have been together for a few months and she's just starting to show a different side of her. She snaps, and gets bossy and overbearing sometimes. I'm a really polite and tactful person, so I try to speak to her very respectfully. So it really offends ... (277 words)

How can an ex lover and ex Boyfriend successfully become a friend? Or am I wasting my time caring about him?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - I have a Ex-boyfriend who I still have feelings for AND miss. When I first started him he was very generous AND kind as he still is. I was scared to get too close to him because we were very different with out race, religion, AND race. From past relationships it always s... (699 words)

He's not responding..will he be around for the baby?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear Cupid I am with bf for 2 years, we live on different cities. I visited him few weeks back and we had nice time. We used condom but it broke, anyway i got pregnant now. I was thinking about keeping the child, even if it means i will be a single mother. I called him ye... (139 words)

What should I do about her constant mood swings?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4264 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hey guys! It's been a while :D But Im back again. Here lemme fill you in- this girl I liked we got together and we've been dating for four months now. It's been a bumpy journey, but I love her now more than ever. It's just...she's always mad at me. :( Sometimes it's for ... (253 words)

Should I stop obsessing and wait till I'm older to date?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - Okay so I have deep feelings for this girl but I don't know whether to ignore the feelings or act upon them. So I started going to this church and I met a cool youth group and all these people, after my dad started pastoring the church. I met this one girl who I wasn't ... (258 words)

I don't want to always be used in a friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I was the third one in every word ends with "ship" all the time. I was hanging out with popular girls. They were using me for information or something for their benefits. ( like Blair's girls on gossip girl) One of them dated my longtime crush. I wasn't thinking that I was used ... (170 words)

Do dreams mean something

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I slept at a girls house with some friends and i got on with all of them but i just had 2 dreams in 2 days one was she was giving me a blow job and the other one was she jerked me off now i don't really have any feelings to this girl but i am wondering does it mean anything and ... (96 words)

Text I need help becoming a better person

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I need help becoming a better person. My mom has progressive MS and my brother is autistic and at home. And I rarely take them out anywhere or do stuff for them. I just never feel like it lately. Writing this makes me cringe, but it's true. For about a year now I'm getting ... (550 words)

Is he falling in love or is he just stringing me along?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4263 days ago

24 August 2012 (F)

age - The married man i have been seeing for the last 7yrs we are both in our sixties,is suddenly telling me he can't do without me, misses me terribly,and that i'm more than just a friend i am a very special part of his life and he doesn't want to loose me.he contacts me 3 or 4 ... (197 words)

My social anxiety and loneliness is killing me... Any advice?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4264 days ago

24 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - I just feel so alone right now. So tired of seeing happy couples everywhere I go. I feel like all I need right now is a girlfriend who I can share my life with. Sure this reeks of desperation but I can't hide the truth. It seems like all the tactics I try to battle my social ... (337 words)