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*ayjay24
writes:Hi again. Yes, I have yet another question on the same guy. So yesturday me and him were texting and he asks if I had a boyfriend. And when I say yes he replies oh :(. But, he has had lots of girlfriends in the past year (over 12). He told me that he still likes me a few days before. He never shows that he likes me like he does all his other crushes (gifts, love notes/cards, candy, etc.) But he really seemed upset about me dating someone. He asked a lot of questions like if I was happy w/ him. I'm a people pleased. I can't make one person happy and the other one sad. I just don't know what to do about him. He always tells me about all the other girls he talks to everyday. Its like he is either trying to make me jealous or is using me to win back his ex(s). I just can't figure him out. And when I go to ask why he tells me about them so much he changes the subject. *sigh* so the point I'm making here is does he really like me or is using me?
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reader, Jayjay24 +, writes (24 August 2012):
Jayjay24 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Ok thanks guys for all your help :)
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (24 August 2012):
 IF he's truly a "player" THEN he's using you....
The only REAL issue you face is whether or not he's a "good" player... such that you come away feeling GOOD that you've been played........ ORrrr, if he's a LOUSY player, and you come out of it feeling like crap....
Good luck....
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (24 August 2012):
If he's a player (so he likes everyone) and if you're seeing someone, then who cares? I'm guessing you like him then? I haven't read your previous questions either and based on this, it sounds like he's a flirt for sure, and I'm sure he likes you to some extent if he talks to you. Sounds like he's too much effort and not a sure thing, so try and keep him off your mind.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 August 2012): Hey, so let me start of by saying I haven't read your other questions.
But my answer to this one is simple. Do you like this man more than you're boyfriend? If you do then you need to break up with boyfriend as it is unfair on him. And then when you tell the other guy, you can see how much he likes yoou as he will know you are single, and slightly emotional. If he does like you then maybe sort out this situation with other girlfriends. Play hard to get, like very hard to get. That way he will respect you more then his other girls and you will find that he will be yours.
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