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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:Dear CupidI am with bf for 2 years, we live on different cities. I visited him few weeks back and we had nice time. We used condom but it broke, anyway i got pregnant now. I was thinking about keeping the child, even if it means i will be a single mother.I called him yesterday to tell him about it. He never responded to my calls, so i sent him text. He didn't respond for that also. I haven't told him about my decision yet, since he is not responding to my calls, text or email (btw he his not sick or anything and not even busy at work, one of my mutual friend told me). What should i do now, please help me. Will he be around for my kid
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (24 August 2012):
 Di you tell him via text that you were pregnant? If so, that is just not right. I know you wanted to tell him but that is the kind of conversation that should be face-to-face.
Anyways, done is done. You have called, you have texted, you have left a message. If he doesn't contact you at all, then he is obviously a coward and not interested in being a dad. (not much you can do there). Maybe, he needs a little time to process this, let him have a little time.
In the meantime you need to figure out what you want to do.
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reader, Ciar  +, writes (24 August 2012):
 I don't think you should jump to conclusions at this stage. It's early yet and he may have a reasonable explanation for not getting back to you (one that his friends are unaware of).
The news may have come as a shock to him. You're not the only one whose life is going to change and who has some decisions to make.
Don't attempt to contact him again and don't chase him. Let him come to you. Hope for the best but plan for the worst is usually a sound strategy so assume you'll be raising this child on your own. Beyond that it is really too soon to say whether he'll be in the picture or not.
Best of luck.
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