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Archived questions from: 12 August, 2012 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

What can I do to overcome feelings I have for a friend I met during a break up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hey guys :) , i have been dating a guy for over 3 years now but we had a break up for a few months awhile back. We're now back together and very in love. While me and him were split i met this other guy kinda as a rebound thing because i was so upset. he is lovely and recently... (127 words)

Car problems! Is he irresponsible or taking advantage?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm frustrated about my boyfriend and his friends (and maybe his parents too for spoiling him). Maybe someone has a similar experience to share, or advce to give me? My boyfriend got a car from his parents that his parents are paying for. It's in his parents name, they pay i... (338 words)

My boyfriend takes too long!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi! Im 18 years old and when me and my bf have sex it takes him a long time to come. We go at i for hours and i have multiple orgasms but he still trying to get to through the first. I worried its my fault that he's not coming faster or I get tired to easily. I just want to ... (74 words)

About my brothers gf

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - I really like her. I don't know why I feell this way towards her, but last night we had a party and got a little drunk and we like to hang out with each other always joking around saying we love each other like a brother and a sister but here is the thing. I feel a close ... (254 words)

I'm starting to feel uncomfortable at my job, what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4278 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - Everyone at my job keeps talking about me and laughing at me. They say I'm slow and stuff because I make orders slow. I have only been working at this fast food restaurant for a month and a half. I just now getting the hang of things. Yea I make mistakes and yea it takes me ... (278 words)

Is 18 a good age to start dating?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi, Im 18 years old girl, and never been in a relationship before, so now i think it the time. Bt im scared and my family keeps on telling me that i should focus on my studies. I dont know if im making a right decision here becouse i always had a bad feeling about it. I want to ... (80 words)

Was I right to confront him about his lying?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - hi everyone, for a few months now i have been sure my partner has lied to me about a few things. i tried to let it go at first but the feeling and the way he has acted persisted. so after finding some evidence i confronted him. i only asked a few things at first hopi... (151 words)

Is it reasonable to limit the amount the roommate's b/f sleeps over?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi all, I m 24 and I m renting a flat with my bf that can only accommodate 3 people in terms of the lease. About a month ago we decided to sublet a room to a 3rd person because I lost my job and needed help to cover my college tuition. We managed to find a tenant an before ... (163 words)

My brother left his wife for a younger woman -- and it looks like he's in over his head

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 51-59 - help! my brother left a perfect marriage with a woman who treated him like he was some kind of king. for a girl half his age. this girl moved in with him, she doesnt work. hes always taking her to the golf courses, takes her out to eat almost everynight.and god only knows what ... (357 words)

Ladies why date a man first if he asks you to marry him right away?

This question has 77 answers - newest was posted 4275 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - This question is especially for young single women. If a young single man who has everything going for him financially and career wise decides to settle down and approaches you but doesn't want to date you but asks you to marry him. Would you say Yes? I mean why would you ... (234 words)

My boyfriend and his mother ganged up on me and now I don't know what to think, How should I deal with this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Hi just wanted someone to talk to for advice really ok this is a long one i was/been in a relationship for nearly 6 years my bfriend is the father to my two children we have been living together almost on and off the same time we have been dating, we have had many ups and downs ... (352 words)

I can't be myself without losing him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age - A few weeks ago a lady posted the great post about not being able to be herself anymore. This is the situation with me. For about 3 years my husband has been very unhappy with me always saying that I am difficult, nasty etc etc. Because I knew he would leave me I have changed ... (197 words)

He deleted his profile after I updated our relationship anniversary, Should I take this personally?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - So yesterday while on facebook, I did some updates on my profile, including putting my boyfriend and I's anniversary date. We've been together since February 2012 and have always said we're "in a relationship" with one another. Well when I spoke to him on the phone he mentioned ... (190 words)

Can a relationship have no physical closeness?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I am not so sure what is going on. I am 23 years old. I have been seeing a man who is 11 years older than I am. We have been frequently seeing each other for almost 2 months now. Usually they are overnight visits, (sex is not always the outcome). We were intimate very early ... (288 words)

How do I discuss the fact that he embarrasses me sometimes?

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12 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - My boyfriend embarrasses me sometimes. He is very silly and goofy, but sometimes takes it a little far. His behavior at home is fine, but he doesn't seem to understand that the way we are at home is not necessarily appropriate for all crowds. Last night, we went to a party ... (404 words)

Body language question, What does it mean for him to do this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Body language question. If your boyfriend places ur hand over his heart whilst lying down and cuddling could this indicate he loves you even if he hasn't said it after 7 months of dating? Thanks. ... (40 words)

My trust for her is gone! can it be repaired through a cell phone?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - Okay everybody! I've been seeing this lady for a couple of months. I met her off of a dating website. Anyway about a month passed and everything was going really well. Then the texts and the phone calls got much less. Anyway cutting along story short I found her back on the ... (291 words)

Were they more interested in porn than in me? would this behaviour bother you?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4268 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My two last boyfriends didn't seem to have a sexual interest in me when I wasn't there but yet both looked at porn, they rarely said anything suggestive or dirty by text. Has anyone else had something similar happen to them? Would this behaviour bother you? Could it be some ... (60 words)

Is it possible for him to die from blood clots in his lungs and 5 broken ribs?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3951 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is not a relationship question but I appreciate anyone who takes the time to help. This is about my husband's friend; we'll call him "Panda" to keep his name anonymous. Panda is 35 years old, has a wife and 3 children. Seven days ago Panda was riding his mo... (244 words)

Weirded out by sudden change. Has he lost interest?

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12 August 2012 (?) age 36-40 - Hi guys... I know that there are probably a ton of other threads pertaining to this particular subject.But I guess I just want to get my head on straight about this one guy that I have been dating. I haven't been in the dating game that long -- I've gotten out of a LTR rou... (1194 words)

People think I'm to thin, Advice needed please!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - hi i am 22 years old n am very thin 41kg being 1.60 meters here is the problem everybody in my country loves a girl with big ass. Am really tired of everyone asking me why am i so thin? So please help me out. how can i be the boutiltious girl? I have a big apetite but guess its ... (70 words)

My girlfriend is still talking to her ex, I think I'm a rebound!! what do you think I should do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - I have been dating this girl for about a month and a half now, and it was going pretty good until recently. First things first, I want to make it clear that I met this girl two days after she broke up with her ex, and started dating her about a month after. Addition... (505 words)

How can I seek revenge after being hurt so many times, Or can someone at least guide me if I'm on the wrong path?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 30-35 - My apologies as this will be very long but I appreciate you reading and giving me advice. Hello. My name is Dan and I need experienced advise. I am 23 and I have been single for 18 months now. The only relation I had was with one girl for 4 years who I wanted to marry but she... (899 words)

I don't want my parents picking a life partner for me, what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi I am 23 years old,I'm indian my parents are very traditional and conservative and I'v had a very controlled life..NO boyfriends,NO kissing,NO SEX,NO DRINKING,NO SMOKING!.. Inspite of them being soo strict I managed to meet boys I'v never had sex with them that was my perso... (297 words)

How do I call without coming off as clingy and paranoid or stalkerish?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - My friend hasn't been online at all, anywhere, for about a week, which isn't like him. I texted him yesterday and he hasn't replied. He lives in another state so I can't exactly just pop over to his place to see if he's all right. I'm trying not to overreact, but I'm getting ... (101 words)

Do you think I'm being controlled?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Hi My fiance is 22, I'm 19 and our relationship is great, been together for a just over a year but see....on one anniversary I broke up with him, we got back together but his friends told him to choose between me and them, he chose me, but see thing is, My fiance has no frien... (226 words)

My boyfriend was going down on me when I got my periods!! Do you think he was really put off by that?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Last night my new boyfreind and I were having sex and half way through I went to the bathroom,to find myself covered in blood.I hadnt realised I was due for my period..It was even on my face.We had the lights off and unfortunatly he had been going down on me before I made my ... (279 words)

Is my boyfriend's behavior normal or did he just use me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - Dear cupid I am in LDR with my bf for past few months. I stay in a different country cause of work. I traveled 2 weeks before to my place to visit my parents and my bf. We had a very good time. He asked me to buy him few stuff from here, which i did and he was happy. On... (122 words)

It seems like these other people we dated were just there to make each other jealous

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4267 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 26-29 - So i love this girl, and i've known i've loved her since about two years ago. my history with her has been pretty strange. During the beggining of highschool we met through a friend and started seeing each other, we were a bit unstable i guess you could say, we ended and began ... (991 words)

Are the fights between my wife and me just a veiled passive-aggressive fight to be the one to "wear the pants" in our relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4276 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My wife is awesome, smart, beautiful, an amazing mother, and a accomplished ballerina. I love her with my entire being. I'm confident she feels that same love for me We have one big issue to tackle and it is a matter of pride and control ----- the problem may seem small ... (173 words)

Why do I feel this way? Advice needed!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I started dating this guy back in May. He is a great guy and I know I care about him, but I always get this feeling in the back of mind if we really should be together. When we are together everything seems great, but when we're not I get random doubts. We get in stupid fights ... (151 words)

To wish impossible things, What do you think of this situation?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4277 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Love is a fickle thing sometimes. I love my friend, have for the past 7 years, but he doesn't love me. Recently, I introduced him to my best friend since childhood; they get along well together. Too well, as I found out about a week ago. As far as I know, they haven't ... (478 words)

How can I bring up that I want more out of this relationship without ruining what we already have?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Ok so I have been "seeing" this guy for a couple months now. Basically we just meet up when we're going out to a bar and we'll hang out with each others friends and always have sex later on in the night. We stay the night with one another and usually lounge around in bed, just ... (112 words)

I've never been turned down for sex in the middle of the night, I feel hurt! Am I over reacting?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I'm so hurt it's unbelievable. I live with my boyfriend but went away abroad with my mum and sister for a week and got back last night. everyday we called and texted a lot, he told me all the time how he missed me and couldn't wait to see me. I've been horny all week (we ... (316 words)

Ignored a text from my fiance because I wanted to keep my dream of another guy going, Is that wrong?

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12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - Okay before I post what I need help with let me give you a bit of info. I have been with my fiance' for 4 years and I do love him. I could not picture my life without him and I love our family with our son. Now, there was this guy who I liked in my past but we never dated. W... (257 words)

Men's advice please on what I should do about very distant man

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4278 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 41-50 - Hello, I am in a very confused state because of a man I am currently dating. We live in different cities. He is 40 (I am 30) and has recently divorced (seperated for 3 years). The relationship has been great and we are obviously crazy about each other. We ended up having a s... (494 words)

Am I crazy? Or is this evidence strong enough that my girlfriend is indeed developing feelings for JOE?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4279 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 36-40 - An overwhelming instinct that my girlfriend of over two years is developing feelings for a coworker has led me to snoop, and the snooping has led me to believe my suspicions are true. Help. What do I do? She's been at this new office for three weeks now, and has been dr... (284 words)

What would you do if someone liked you and you liked someone else?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 26-29 - Hello, everyone. I need some advice. Like what would you do, if you liked someone but someone else liked you. I am not sure because the dude that likes me, has liked since the eighth grade(I am in the eleventh grade now) and he still likes me and he says he wants to be wi... (372 words)

I'm not really attracted to him but he is a really great guy, How should I play this out?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I have been single from a very messy relationship with the guy that I lost my virginity to when I was 17. I went through alot with him cheating lies and even some domestic violence. I am through with him all together and beleive me I am not looking back. We have been over for ... (239 words)

Our relationship ended for good, He doesn't want to talk any more, What should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 30-35 - I know this is going to be long but please help me with your inputs, advice , and kind words. Hello Everyone, I just broke up with my scorpio man. We have broken up before but made up right away. This time was really for real though because it was worse. What hap... (1403 words)

I'm going through a messy custody battle ....

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12 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm going through a custody battle with my ex. I was experiencing fanancial difficulties so stupidly asked my ex if he could have the children live with him until I had a tax rebate. After 2 weeks my money provlems were sorted so asked for them back but he's refusing to let ... (533 words)

She went to Vegas with her guy friends and came back shaven!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4280 days ago

12 August 2012 (M)

age 41-50 - My gf is very pretty and curvy. she has an issue with her weight and therefore, she has a problem being naked in front of me. she dresses sexy and wears pushup bras to work, but around me its time to hide the girls. i tell how sexy she is all the time. She seems to hold back ... (249 words)

How do I tell him I used to self harm?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4281 days ago

12 August 2012 (F)

age 36-40 - I'm a former self-harmer and I would really appreciate some advice about how to tell my new boyfriend about my scars. My boyfriend K and I have only been together for a few days, so it's more a question for what to do in the future if (hopefully) we work well as a couple and ... (136 words)