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writes:My current BF is my first serious relationship. I was a virgin before I met him and he wasn't. His experience though consisted of two short term GF's (2-3 months each) and two one night stands.Even though I didn't enter this relationship with a lot of sexual experience I have realized that although he wasn't a virgin before he met me, he doesn't seem to have that much experience in 'pleasing' a woman. When we have sex it's mostly about getting it in (pardon the expression) and getting off. I have found that I am more turned on by touching and foreplay but I'm not sure how to tell him this. I don't want to come across like I'm telling him that he has no idea what he's doing...what's a good way to tell him what to do? I've told him about the 'wonders' of the clitoris recently and he's taken the advice on board so I'm hoping he'll be ok with my next set of directions hahaWould a guy be offended if his GF suddenly told him to do more of this and less of that?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 A guy would like to please his woman but every woman is different and what works for one may not work on another.
You would have to show him the road map and lead him all the way to those interesting spots ,crevices, caves and mountains and where are those rest stops where you would like to linger longer.
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reader, DoubleM  +, writes (13 March 2010):
 Well, I've never felt "offended" in the least - that's how I learned!
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (13 March 2010):
Well, I've never felt "offended" in the least - that's how I learned!
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reader, PM  +, writes (12 March 2010):
 Ask him to do things to you or tell him how much you like it when he (blank) and fill in the blank with something you like. In general, you might just say, I love it when you explore my body with your hands or whatever pleases you.
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reader, kayla20  +, writes (12 March 2010):
 tell him that you like to get in a certain mood before having sex to set the atmosphere to make it a bit more special when it comes to sex just ask him to try some foreplay to make it easier for you when his about to penetrate you as sometimes you feel a little bit dry and not so much in the mood because you feel it is going to hurt that way he wont feel like your telling him your rubbish but it pushes him to do foreplay because your saying that you feel abit dry
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reader, Kenj +, writes (12 March 2010):
 Sad fact is most guys just get stuck in without much foreplay where I have learnt that most woman like more foreplay before the main event.
Try getting yourself some sex toys and ask him to use them on you.
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