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I changed my mind about giving him oral sex, so he flipped out saying I am playing with him! I'm not!

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Question - (31 May 2008) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

hey guys im 15, so i told the boy that im together with in the begining of the week that i wanted to give him head. then i thought about it and i dont want to rush things and be so easy. i told him that today cause i am seeing him later. he FLIPPED out like saying that i got him all excited and im just playing with him. not to talk to him right now etc. i dont know what to do?! what do you guys think

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

Him flipping out showed that you are right in backing out. I don't know what the conversation was that lead you to saying that you would do it but I'm sure you didn't randomly volunteer so don't feel bad about "breaking a promise". Boys at your age are simple and selfish and to be honest they stay that way for a while.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

I agree, he is way too immature to even try that crap. It's better if you wait until you're older anyway, believe me. Make sure you find a man who is mature and will think of you first. You'll both appreciate it. Don't feel pressured, you didn't promise him anything. Your body, your decision.

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A male reader, mephistophiles Holy See (Vatican City State) +, writes (1 June 2008):

mephistophiles agony auntSooooooo,

how about if he promised you something or other then backed out of it????? I am not advocating that you should have to perform a sexual act for this boy, on command; however maybe this is a lesson in ensuring you brain is in gear before engaging your mouth.

Yours truly

Mephistophiles, aka Satan

P.S. , LJ001

Quote "you're too much of a child to get head anyway" (sic). That is some great advice to give a child. See you soon.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2008):

I'd advise texting him and saying something along the lines of... "Look, I know you wanted it, but if you keep acting the way you just did, you're too much of a child to get head anyway".

You go girl, for standing your ground!!

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (31 May 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntdo nothing

let him sulk as if hes gonna get angry over this you dont want to be with him at all

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