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Archived questions from: 10 January, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

Should I wait or move on?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 72 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - I was with my girlfriend for 4 years, but split up 3 weeks ago. I was the one to suggest it, then after a week I realized how much I loved her and really wanted her back. So I told her this, but she said it doesn't feel right to her. After some tears, I decided to try and move... (201 words)

My wife told all about her sexual past... Some of these visions now haunt me! Can we move past this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 78 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - My wife feels it is better to tell all about our sexual past. to get it out there is to be true to one another. we are in our forties. she has told me that I am her forth partner. this includes a 15 year marraige, a one month bad mistake off of a verbally abusive first marriage ... (308 words)

He's an authoritative figure and I really like him..what should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Ok, I really can not get over someone, but i really had no relationship with this person, i see him often and i get so confused, everyone said he liked me or gave me special attention, and i really liked him, but ive been hurt so many times, hes an authorative figure ... (57 words)

I think she's interested in me, but she is dating someone. Need to know the signs...help me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - She's interested in me, but recently started dating someone. I sense that she is uncomfortable with an in-between feeling so-to-speak when she sees me around while she's hangin with him. Can y'all give me examples of how she will put on fronts/actions?.....while we all have ... (120 words)

When should I tell my boyfriend I love him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I need some advice. I have been going out with my boyfriend for three months now. I think I am really in love with him, but how do I know if its the right time to say I love you? I'm going to see him this Saturday and I really want to turn him on but how do I do that? ... (71 words)

She wants me back-I still love her but am scared she will hurt me again...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - Me and my girlfriend of 3 years split up on Boxing Day (just over 2 weeks ago), and I’m absolutely distraught. We didn’t split because we wanted too – we knew that if we didn’t, we’d end up driving each other apart. Things hadn’t been great for a about a couple of months – we ... (637 words)

This boy says he loves me even though he hasn't met me.Should I leave my current bf for this guy?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I am a 16 year old girl with a 20 year old boyfriend. but i have recently met a 16 year old guy that says he knows i am the one and that he loves me even though he has never met me. my boyfriend has cheated on me before and we broke up for about a month or so and then got back ... (117 words)

My bf resents all my guy friends...I really don't know what i should do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Hi, i've been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years now and we have a great relationship. however, he gets upset if i make new friends with other guys, even though its all innocent. Before i met him i had many friends (mainly guys), but since ive been with him ive become more ... (189 words)

My ex wants me back but he's controlling and makes me cry. Should I go back to him?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I am still in love with my ex boyfriend who would take me back in a second, but when I am with him he often talks to me badly, tries to control everything I do and often makes me cry. I know he loves me alot but I do not know if it is worth putting up with the bad times. I'm ... (74 words)

Met a celebrity and slept with him. He said to call if I want to hook up again. Is he being sincere?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - i recently went out with my friend and got a little bit too drunk. I met this guy, and even though he is a little bit of a celebrity he seemed really nice. I ended up at his flat and one thing led to another and we slept together. In the morning he was lovely, we had a chat, ... (148 words)

We own property together and I want out..should I stay or go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 2 years. About 6 months ago it got emmotionally violent, so i moved out of the house we bought together. I recently started seeing another man, he is calm, loving, and offers me all the emmotional support i needed. i also still see the man i ... (146 words)

He rubbed up against me and I orgasmed..did I lose my virginity?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 183 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I am a 17yr. Christian girl, who's done a lot of things, I'm not proud of, with my boyfriend of a year. But I am now scared that I might have accidently lost my virginity by slowly slipping into things that "were'nt so bad". I have had orgasms because of him rubbing up against ... (104 words)

We're both 13 and we want to experiment with sex more. Any suggestions?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 123 days ago

10 January 2006 (?)

- I'm 13 and my boyfriend is also 13.We have been together for a couple of months now and really want to do more. We've thought about sex(and condoms)but i wouldn't really feel comftable. I do wanna do more sexual stuff but i don't know what?... (45 words)

He could be 'the one' and I can't stop thinking about him but I don't think he's interested anymore

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F)

- I met this guy a few weeks ago, we exchanged info and talked twice in the past couple of weeks. I have this feeling he is 'the one' and I barely know him. Im pretty sure he doesnt feel the same exact way, but I still think he likes me. The first time I saw him I just knew. I ... (128 words)

I think about my social worker all the time...what do I do??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I have been having problems at home relating to the relationnship between my son and his step-father (my partner who I am now about to split up with). Because I was so worried about my son so much, I went to the doctors, to cut a long story short we were referred to a children... (322 words)

He wants to live his life as a woman...should I tell him to leave??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Married for 24 years my husband files divorce on me explaining he is "transgendered" and wants to live his life as a woman. He expresses he is not gay, but I find him flirting with men on the internet, and showing himself off in his female underware. He says he loves me and ... (144 words)

I really like this girl but don't know if I should ask her out...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - I really fancy this girl (with one leg shorter than the other), who I keep seeing at the railway station on the way into the city, or out and about. I don't even know her name, but we seem we to be on smiling knodding terms. The first time I saw her it was love (or lust at... (408 words)

I'm attracted to my wife's twin!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 848 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - am a 30-year-old married man. I am happy with my wife but the only problem is her twin sister! I am attracted towards her too. I try to avoid them and get successful also but whenever I see her again I am back to square one. To be true, I don’t want to do anything with her ... (100 words)

How do I choose between the two of them...help!

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 50 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - How do you decide between two men? i've been with my current boyfriend he's 35 and i'm 22 for about three years he lovely,safe and trustworthy, recently i met a different guy he's my own age and possesses all the same qualities, i split up with my boyfriend coz i didn't want to ... (86 words)

How do I get back with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 808 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - Hello. Well, me and my g/f broke up last week. She said that she really wanted to be friends. And me being the nice guy that I am said ok. And so now we are good friends. But I still have a feeling that this relationship will work out for the better. Any sugestions on how to ... (62 words)

My past bothers him...what should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I have a somewhat wild past..my current boyfriend has heard many rumors and is now bothering him. We have discussed this, but its still bothering him. What should I do? ... (31 words)

Can friends become lovers??

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F)

- I'm just wondering...is it possible for friends to become lovers? and should i tell him i really like him? I get mixed signals from him but i think he's into me. I'm afraid i will ruin our friendship if he dosen't feel the same way and we will never be the same again. ... (72 words)

What do boys look for in girls in terms of race and personality??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 850 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Question about teens, especially interested in guys point of view. Would a 16 year old white guy be likely to want to date someone from a different race (asian) or do most guys tend to stick with their own race? Also what do guys think of girls who are friends with tons of ... (107 words)

I feel too young to be tied down...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - i am 17 yrs old i love my bf but i feel like i am getting tied down too quickly i want to be with him but just not yet! it would brake his heart if i broke up with him! what should i do?... (46 words)

Why can't I forget him when he doesn't seem to like me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend for 9 months.hes 30, im 24. but after all he dumped me! i still love him and wanna be with me. but he doesnt like me that much! we had lots of problems in our friendship because he has never got close to me like other couples, hes differen... (84 words)

I like him but he's dating my friend..what do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 149 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - i really like this guy but he is currently dateing my friend and i am the reason they are dateing. what do i do?... (24 words)

He doesn't care about her, I do so what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - i really like this girl. but my friend is dateing her, but her only wants to "score" with her, and i want more, like to grow old and stuff. i stick up for her and like her more than my friend does that but she dont no. what should i do?... (51 words)

Not sure what to think after my girl send me a pic of her boob! Was it a honey-trap?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - Hi there, Please help... I received a text last night while I was having a curry and a few beers with a mate of mine from a number that was unknown. It read, "Hi, do you fancy a $hag?" I ignored this as I am not into cheating and I love my girlfriend more than word... (265 words)

He has become cold...how can I get him to talk to me??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - im 31 year old woman who has been going out with a man for the past 9 months. he seems to hav developed cold feet since 17 december 2005. what do i do to win him back i love him deraly. he is not talking to me i feel like screaming.... (51 words)

He can be wonderful when we are alone but releases negative vibes when we are with others...should we be together??

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (?) - What do you do when you love someone who you know is just so wrong for you in every way.My husband and I have been married for 12 years.In that time we have seperated several times but this is the longest time (12 weeks)as I still love him but I am not willing to ever live with ... (356 words)

Went limp - thrice! - when I lost my virginity... Could masturbation have been to blame?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 115 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - I am 20 years old, and am worried about what happened when I lost my virginity last night. I went limp during intercourse 3 times. I was able to last for a few good minutes between times going limp. The first time it happened was when we changed positions, then the other two ... (184 words)

Am I too needy and insecure of my high-flying boyfriend?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 259 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - Dear cupid. I hope someone out there will be able to give me some advice on my situation. I have been in the best relationship of my entire life with the man of my dreams, and we want to marry, he is currently in NY working on a project for one yr, and I am very far from w... (642 words)

If trust has been broken... Can it ever be gotten back?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 43 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I have been on and off with my boyfriend. We have known eachother for 8 years. The main reason of our breakups were because the trust was broken between us. My question is if the trust has been broken in a relationship is it possible to be able to trust again and make the ... (62 words)

Don't want to hurt my boyfriend, who I've been friends with for 10 years, but this other man makes me feel... Alive!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Dear cupid, i ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now . We have been friends for 10 years . But im secretly falling for some one eles and hes been wanting me for as long as me and my boyfriend have been dating. we're having a little trouble but nothing that can't be worke... (184 words)

First time rejection but I think she likes me..so how should I ask her out again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - I asked my really good friend out who is a girl and she rejected me but I think she may like me, so how should I ask her out again?... (30 words)

I can't last in bed and it's killing my relationships! Is this a mental or a physical problem?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 858 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - I think I'm losing girlfriends because I'm not lasting long enough in bed. Sometimes I am done after only a few minutes. Other times I am able to get her off, but the inconsistency kills my relationships. Everything else was fine in the relationships, but I think that I have ... (81 words)

No sex for weeks-no presents, no romantic dates..I'm thinking of leaving him. Any advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I think the time has come that I should leave my boyfriend. I go two maybe 3 weeks each time before sex each time. Even when it does happen he can't orgasam and pleads its not me. No dates, I am tired of being alone. 9 months of not a single date. no christmas or b-day ... (124 words)

So ashamed but I still keep seeing my married lover...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Im a 26 year old girl and i havent done the relationship thing for a long time for various reasons but i met a man a few months back, he turned out to be married, now as much as my morals are telling me it is wrong i have still been seeing him. Yes i am ashamed as it is so ... (139 words)

I'm Indian-she's black and we want to start a life together. Not sure how to tell my family..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 843 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - hi im a 19 yrs old well experienced indian guy with a typical indian family (you want me to marry a indian girl) but for the past three years i have been with the most wonderful woman ive ever met and shes black. we've both decided its time for us to move out together and start ... (129 words)

For the sake of my little girl should I try to make a go of it with this ex-drinker, computer game playing, lazy, unemployed, emotionally incompetent and verbally abusive man?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - Ok, I am a 22 year old single mother of a beautiful 19 month old girl. I am currently with a man who is 10 years older than me, emotionally incompetent and verbally and emotionally abusive. He used to drink alot and spend 98% of his time playing "Call of Duty" on his PC. We ... (210 words)

All my husband can say is "I don't know"... Including when I ask him why we never have sex anymore!

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 823 days ago

10 January 2006 (F)

- Hi, I hope you can help me, im 25 and have been with my partner for about 4 yrs, married for 3 yrs. I am concerned for our relationship I have quite a healthy apetite for sex but I wouldnt say it was excessesive, my partner was very enthusiastic when we first got together... (321 words)

Want my wife back but am scared she will go back to her boyfriend... Or another guy.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 857 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - myself and my wife have been separated twice and the last was only 3 months ago, since then we have been still really good with eachother and being intermite and having fun and just being happy when all of a sudden that all changed.for the last 4 weeks she has been seeing this ... (662 words)

Should I have tummy-tuck surgery now or after I have kids?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 856 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - I was talking to my mom about having a tummy tuck surgery and she said if I really wnated to do it, I should since our insurance will cover it, but that I shouldn't do anything to my breasts because if they move my nipples (I wnated to get a breast lift) I'd lose sensation in ... (182 words)

I feel like the scars on my back will turn my new boyfriend off if he sees them. Will it be a problem?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 855 days ago

10 January 2006 (F) - My back is full of scars and my ex-bf used to look at it and ask whether I could get surgery to get rid of them and his comments always upset me terribly. I have a new bf now that has felt my back but has never seen it and always says how lovely it is and how soft it feels an... (233 words)

Is it possible to hook up with this girl at scool?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

10 January 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid... I am in deep trouble and i really need some help... I go to High School. My first semester i had class with this girl that i liked for just the way she looked... Over the course of the class i became friends with her... She turned out to be quite smart and funny ... (422 words)