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Archived questions from: 7 January, 2006 (see latest questions)

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Dear Cupid,
relationship help and advice

My plot for revenge has backfired after I fell for the pawn in my game...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 859 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - i am so confussed. what started out as a game and as part as my revenge on my husband has backfired. my husband was abusive during our first 12 years of marriage, then he changed and the abuse almost stopped completely. but one week after our 17th anniversary had a time ... (310 words)

My friend stole my girl and harassed me though email, but I'm the one being made to feel guilty!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - I need advice. I am really hurting from a breakup with someone who I considered a very close friend. It all started last summer when the friend failed to tell me she was seeing someone who I was friendly with. We had all met one weekend and she had plenty of time to tell me ... (319 words)

Slept with a lad but now he's acting all stoopid...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 858 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - I had sex with a lad and afterwards he was ok. he told one person and he changed. he became horrible as if he was in denial, then when no ones looking or watching, he flirts with me and starts touching me up. i don't understand. straight after when people are around he is ... (141 words)

Should I give my "just going skiing for Xmas, dearie" boyfriend another chance?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - Is he worth it ? Four days before Christmas my bf of 2 years decided he wanted to spend Xmas at a skiing resort and said he would go with or without me after we had planned on spending Christmas at home! I would have gone however found it unfair that he gave me this ult... (167 words)

Should I go out with my text-message girl?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 447 days ago

7 January 2006 (M) - please answer my question. i like this girl in my year (im 16) and i think she may know i do. we are pretty close with each other and we went to a party and we cuddled all night and when we had to leave we kissed each other on the cheek. now yesterday i found out she had got me ... (203 words)

Stay with my almost-perfect boyfriend (no sex) or go back to my ex (with hot sex)? What to do...

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 840 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - Hey everyone, I have a real problem facing me. I have been with my current boyfriend for 18 months and out of the blue my ex-boyfriend has told me he really wants to be with me. I then spent the night at his just catching up because we hadnt seen each other for a while. We had ... (132 words)

My Scottish Asian fella won't tell his family about me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - I wonder if anyone can advise me? I am in a relationship with an Asian man (25), although he grew up in scotland. we have been together for a year. He says he cannot tell his femily about me as I am not Asian or have the right social background. His parents were very abusive ... (124 words)

All we do is have sex when we have our weekly hook-up? I am any more than booty?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for two years now and we have had great sex together. I really love it but recently I have been thinking that it is all we ever do. I only get to see him once a week and we talk for hours during the week, but sometimes I feel that it would be good ... (81 words)

Help! My friend has gone off the rails...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 852 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - HEY, I am 16 and my friend also 16 has recently gone onto the bad path. She has started smoking and drinking even thinking of doing drugs, when I try to advice her on it she says that I am a "drag". She says that she is not doing for attention but i have know her for 6 y... (126 words)

Is it unfair to make my 34 yr old boyfriend wait until we have kids and get married?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - Hi, ive been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and he is 34 years old and im 21. At first the age didnt bother me but just recently, he has been saying he is ready for marriage and children, i have told him that i am not ready just yet and he says he will wait. But i feel so ... (115 words)

Feel like I'm nothing more than a pay cheque to my wife! Is an affair the answer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, I am a man in my early forties. What shall I do? I am told I am still attractive, but my wife has lost interest in me. I feel like a pay cheque! Should I wine and dine her, or buy her flowers everytime I want affection? I'd soon be bankrupt because I like s... (106 words)

I deleted his number but am having second thoughts...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 857 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - Me and my ex have been apart for over a month now but i'm still not over him. The night after he dumped me I rang him to tell him i was there for him, (meaning if he had changed his mind about ending the relationship he could get me back), anyway that night he told me he was ... (339 words)

Can my long distance lover ever show more emotion?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 102 days ago

7 January 2006 (F)

- How do I summarise my relationship in just a few lines, to give you the background?! I'm 36, and until now I think I've only ever been in love once before (when I was too young to realise!), but my fiance is definitely the one I've been waiting for. I love him so much - he... (657 words)

Our relationship is rotten... I want out but scared he will win custody!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - I need some advice. I am 25 f and I have been dating this 20 year old boy for going on four years now. We have a child together and our relationship is extremely rotten. I dont know how to put it any other way. When we first met he was the nicest guy, acted like he was dece... (539 words)

I'm going to list a dozen reasons I believe my partner is cheating... But is he?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - He says he loves me and never cheated on me. He gets upset when I ask, says I'm accusing. Yet we haven't made love for over a month. Has women friend and text messages them 15 and over times a day. Leaves late and says he has alot of work to do and returns in the morning. ... (165 words)

Don't wanna be the "psycho paranoid girlfriend" to my long distance online boy but on the same token, don't wanna be naive!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - About four years ago my friend Nadine introduced me to this guy she met on this online game named Nate. He's from Canada. I am from the States. We play flirted from the git-go, and would joke about messing around some day and what not. We never really made any attempt to do so ... (1466 words)

Stuck between two guys, the slick Swede and a former co-worker... Please help me choose!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 250 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - I am stuck between two guys as well :S I have been seeing a former co-worker for the past few months and I really enjoy being with him except at first he was really disapointing becuse he never wanted to make plans and he always seemed to be busy. He never showed that he r... (340 words)

They're lining up like on pop idol for me... Mary, Jane or my ex?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

7 January 2006 (M) - i am a 16 year old guy.. i broke up with my girlfreind 4 months ago.. however, i still like her alot.. the reason for break up was studies.. she wanted to concentrate on it.. i got to this girl mary just a few days ago.. she is quite pretty and fun.. we were fine until she text... (134 words)

I know it wasn't cheating, but I can't get over the idea that my girlfriend had sex with her ex before we dated!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 732 days ago

7 January 2006 (M) - I need help, over a seemingly stupid matter. In a nutshell, I'm in college and have been with my gf for almost 5 months now, yet I still can't get over the fact that a year ago she had a relationship with a guy for 3 and a half months and they had sex. Sounds stupid, I know. ... (455 words)

Things between us are going so well, I don't want to rush it and scare her off!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (M) - hi. I recently met this girl. We spent the first two nights and days together and it was amazing. We are both very into each other but my confidence is low given that I ended a long relationship about a year ago. We always say that we really like each other back and f... (263 words)

Her old boyfriend keeps texting my fiancee. It's irritating, because I plan to marry her!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (M) - I live and work in London and have a relationship with a girl in Cebu with a view to marriage. I hope to come back later this year around August to get married. Problem is that her ex-boyfriend keeps on texting her and this causes me to get irritated despite her re-assur... (78 words)

How can I come to terms with the fact that I am 'not' my husband's type?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 859 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - How do I come to accept that I am not my husbands 'type' and that he married me mostly for personality and connection. Although I know he loves me Im having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that the type of women he finds attractive are very different to me. I cant ... (108 words)

I can't get my son's father to leave off talking about sex! It leaves me feeling like a cheap whore!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - Ok I had dated this guy 13 years ago. We had a son who is now 12. We never had a relationship like being a family or anything. He married another women and pays child support and still sees his son. I slept with him after him and his wife split but haven't in years. He's wit... (230 words)

The girl I love says I should forget her, because she has a boyfriend...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 216 days ago

7 January 2006 (M) - I have been in love with this girl for so long now, since grade school. Now is the only time that I can say to her my true feelings, but she has a boy friend and now she wants me to forget about her. I've been waiting for her for a very long time now; time really flies too... (71 words)

Why would me ex want me, instead of his fiancee? Maybe he still loves me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 860 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - My first love of 7 yrs has been conversing with me on the phone; although he is engaged we still have a very good relationship. Since we broke up we have had sex a couple of times me knowing he has a soon to be wife. He called and told me that something is wrong with him and ... (149 words)

During sex my boyfriend admitted to sex with another girl. He says "it's just sex", so it shouldn't bother me!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 834 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - My bf lives abroad and we only see each other every few weeks. I have just spent a wonderful Xmas with him and during sex he told me that he had sex with his former gf a few weeks previously. He says that he loves me but also that he sees no reason why I should be jealous of ... (104 words)

I cheat on my boyfriend, usually when drunk, leading to feelings of self disgust and loathing. Could I be a sex addict?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 845 days ago

7 January 2006 (F) - Hi, i am 21 years old and have been with my current boyfriend for 2 and a half years. i love him to bits and i know he loves me, but he has mood swings. The problem is me. i cheat on him and i dont know why because i dont get nothing out of it except the feelings of disgust ... (124 words)

How do I ask out a girl? I don't even know if she likes me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 639 days ago

7 January 2006 (M) - Hi, I am a 15 year old guy in High School. I am really good friends with this girl that I would like to ask out. I can't suggest a group date because I don't like the people she talks to, but the problem still remains that I never asked a girl out before. I really like thi... (92 words)