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I'm attracted to my wife's twin!

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Question - (10 January 2006) 7 Answers - (Newest, 20 January 2006)
A male , *rjm writes:

am a 30-year-old married man. I am happy with my wife but the only problem is her twin sister! I am attracted towards her too. I try to avoid them and get successful also but whenever I see her again I am back to square one. To be true, I don’t want to do anything with her twin sister but still don’t understand why I get so much excited after seeing them. The more I try to ignore the more I get attracted. I always masturbate thinking about her. Is it fine to fantasize about them? please advice me

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2006):

Hi,

Its not a big stuff. Whatever things u try to suppress, that will persist. So don't try to avoid her. That will raise your interest in her.U try to mingle with that lady as ur own sister in group so that nothing bad will occur.Gradually u will able to overcome the situation.

One more thing that I would tell u is, about increasing your faith in God and probability of going for relaxation and mind control exercise as Yoga, art of living etc. That will give you a much mind control and lot of positive energy to your thoughts.

regds

Anish.A.R

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A male reader, arjm +, writes (15 January 2006):

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am a 30-year-old married man. I am happy with my wife but the only problem is her twin sister! I am attracted towards her too. I try to avoid them and get successful also but whenever I see her again I am back to square one. To be true, I don’t want to do anything with her twin sister but still don’t understand why I get so much excited after seeing them. The more I try to ignore the more I get attracted. I always masturbate thinking about her. Is it fine to fantasize about them? please advice me

I want to have a group intercourse with my wife and twin sister she is also a married she is with her hubee and have a one year old kid we both love her kid and her hubee too they are in Baroda. And we are in Mumbai .. but when I do inter course with my wife I need her twin sister I want to give her also the same pleasure as I give my wife I feel to do oral in her private parts too my main problem is my wife is 5.9 and 80 kg and her twin is 5.5 and 53 kg I am not able lift her while I do but I feel i can lift her twin up for a hanging shot . she is slim too ..my wife is fat too . I express my feeling to my wife .while we do intercourse she too want the same as me she want her twin she want to see I am doing fucking her twin But when she in normal she don’t want it please tell me what to do we have a plan to call her alone to Mumbai we want 3 some my wife say she enjoy me becase i am big and good body

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2006):

Good lord lord, guy, no one can give you the go-ahead to ignore your wedding vows and pursue your wife's twin! Far too many men and women become infatuated with someone while they're married. A selfish, self-serving way to be and they all feel just the way you do. You are having a sexual physical response to the excitement you feel around this twin sister. And your wife encourages this!? It's your business what you do in the bedroom, but perhaps you should do the decent, humane thing and let this twin sister know that you both want to 'use' her for your own sexual satisfaction, 'before' calling her to come for a visit, alone. Better yet, keep this a fantasy. This comes down to a matter of good character, on your part. It's strongly lacking here. In your shoes, I would avoid this twin sister as much as possible. She is family and if she's unaware and you both try to "trap' her into a situation she doesn't like, you could ruin your relationship with her and the rest of the family. Think clearly, man.

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A male reader, arjm +, writes (11 January 2006):

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I want to have a group intercourse with my wife and twin sister she is also a married she is with her hubee and have a one year old kid we both love her kid and her hubee too they are in Baroda. And we are in Mumbai .. but when I do inter course with my wife I need her twin sister I want to give her also the same pleasure as I give my wife I feel to do oral in her private parts too my main problem is my wife is 5.9 and 80 kg and her twin is 5.5 and 53 kg I am not able lift her while I do but I feel i can lift her twin up for a hanging shot . she is slim too ..my wife is fat too . I express my feeling to my wife .while we do intercourse she too want the same as me she want her twin she want to see I am doing fucking her twin But when she in normal she don’t want it please tell me what to do we have a plan to call her alone to Mumbai

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A female reader, Dawnest +, writes (11 January 2006):

Ah ha! you are experiencing the age old dilemma - will the twin be exactly like the one Im with. You're curious to know if there is a difference but best advice is dont go down that road. It will all end in tears. Stick with the twin you already have and stand back and enjoy the similarities.

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A female reader, 2EsillyaMuse'D +, writes (11 January 2006):

If she's your wife's twin, then she probably shares many similarities with your wife, correct? They have similar genetics, so they likely share a strong physical resemblance (you didn't mention them being identical, but even sisters born a few years appart usually look a little similar, so twins could be even more similar). If they were raised together (their parents didn't divorce or anything), then their personalities are likely similar as well. What you're finding is that the qualities that make your wife attractive to you are also present in your sister, so of course you find her attractive as well.

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A male reader, Dazzerg United Kingdom +, writes (10 January 2006):

Dazzerg agony auntYou say that you fantasise about them. Do you mean your wife and your twin getting it on? The problem with a desire ignored or surpressed is that it often grows. However there is nothing wrong with fantasy. Thought crime thankfully isnt considered an actual crime yet.

Neither should it be. What matters ultimately is what you do. As long as you are clear in yor head this is a fantasy i dont see it as being wrong.

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