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Dear Cupid: Relationship help and advice

My boyfriend talks to girls from his past online. Now he says it's "his way or the highway"... !

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I`m in an relationship with my boyfriend. Who goes online and wants to talk to women from his past. I`m really bothered by this, But he thinks there is nothing wrong with it. He says it`s all about trust. I`m not allowed to show him affection around his 2 kids and the only time ... (138 words)

Can our relationship survive despite the bad sex? Any ways to improve it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6657 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi, ive been going out with my boyfriend for approx. one and half years now. our relationship is very good apart from the sex bit. Hes in his late 40s, Im 40. He enjoys what i do to him but Im tired of initiating it all the time. he doesnt seem to have much desire or ... (140 words)

I'm sure one day we'll get married and have babies together. But we don't have sex enough!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hello! I wonder if you guys can help me? I'm in a fantastic long term relationship with a guy I am totally in love with. The issue is that our attitudes to sex seems quite different and I get quite frustrated about it. We do not have sex half as much as I would like to - probab... (249 words)

I'll miss my guy when he's overseas, but does that mean I can't go out and have fun while he's away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Dear Cupid, I'm 18 and am currently in my first relationship. We have been going out for 6 months and I love him loads. Trouble is, he's in the army and in that 6 months I've only seen him for a month. I speak to him reguarly and we text each other every day, but I have ... (135 words)

Will it help me move on from the breakup if I start dating another guy right away?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Just split up with my boyfriend. Things between us were really intense and special. I'm sick of crying so I'm looking for ways to move on. I'm looking at other guys. There's someone who I was in love with before I started my relationship with the guy I just split up with, bu... (177 words)

Slept with a colleague at the Xmas party. Should I mention it again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I slept with a colleague after the xmas party...bit of a cliche I know. There had been flirting and chemistry between us for a while and it just happened I guess. He has a girlfriend and is now acting really off with me in comparison to before where he was quite flirty. What ... (93 words)

I've decided to break up whatever it is we have going, until he can tell me what he wants. Good idea or not?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - There's a friend that I've know for years. We always flirt with one another, until last month when we kissed. Since then we are constantly seeing one another. But he's in a relatoniship. I don't expect him to get up and leave, but I need him to tell me what he really wants. So ... (86 words)

What should I do if I think my husband is cheating? Any signs to look out for?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I think my husband may be having an affair. How can I tell, or what should I do?... (18 words)

He's still sleeping with me *and* the girl he left me for. He says he's just confused...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I am 25 and my ex, who just recently broke up with me, is 20. We were together for 2 years and we have a 16 month old baby together. He is now living with the other girl him and I have never stopped sleeping together and till this day still are he says he is confused and he ... (89 words)

How do I find a find a guy for sex... Who also wants some lovin' ?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - i really want to have sex! i am a virgin and i feel like im going to stay like this forever. the guys who do want sex with me dont want a relationship. how do i find a genuine guy looking for sex?... (43 words)

Every little thing he does is... Annoying! How can I get past this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

20 January 2006 (F)

- I have been having an attitude problem lately with my boyfriend. It seems any little thing that he does that aggravate me, I get pissed off. I then regret it later and wish that we weren't arguing. For example: Yesterday he left for a 1/2 hour without letting me know and I was ... (195 words)

I tried to let her know how I felt nearly a year ago and I still can't forget her...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - I was secretly in love with a girl for 6 years and never had the guts to walk up to her and tell her. she was very friendly and nice. when she moved away i started calling her and she became extremely friendly and that egged me on. Finally I mustered up enough courage and ... (190 words)

Do I pursue her when I know she wants me despite everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6657 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - im a lesbian and a few months ago i got closer to my female housemate ive had a crush on for years, i never thought anything would happen because she had a boyfriend (who we also live with) and said she was straight so i could understand and this was no problem until a ... (284 words)

Can I trust my partner with his ex wife??

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - My partner of 4.5 years is still in contact with his ex-wife. He has 3 children over 25 non of them are married. They all speak and go out regularly. His ex-wife does everything she can to interfer in our relationship? Can I trust him? I know he sees her still when I ... (87 words)

How do I deal with the jealousy of the girl I love and her ex?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - im a student and i live with a group of students including and the girl im in love with and her ex. the girl knows how i feel about her, and she has told me that she also has feelings for me- we are very very close. at the moment im doing exams, and the girl i like just ... (295 words)

I'm 16. Should I see a relationship counsellor to get over boys from my past?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6661 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I'm 16 and my boyfriend is 15 and we have been together for 7 months but have been friends for 3 years.We don't argue so much but in this one argument he turned around and said that i need to see a counsellor as he thought that i needed to sort my head out because of my past ... (195 words)

He thinks I'm not interested...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - my boyfriend thinks im not intreasted in sex or any other sexaul activities! how can i change this?... (18 words)

Always two minutes! Any practical suggestions to help?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - It's not a great problem at the moment and she doesn't complain but I feel inadequate. My girlfriend of a year and a half have been having sex for 9 months or so now, we didn't have sex for the first 7 months or so because of many factors and she didn't feel the time was ... (120 words)

Scared to be his girlfriend in case it ruins out friendship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hey um ima get to the point i'm fifteen and i've known this boy since i was 4.. and since last year when he'd come over we'd kiss but he ad a girl friend and he broke up with his girlfriend and they dispise each other with a passion and since then we've become closer he use to ... (161 words)

My own insecurities are hurting my relationship... And I know no-one outside the relationship!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I have the most wonderful boyfriend of 3 years, and we are still madly in love like when we first met. About 1 and a half years ago, I moved three thousand miles from home to be with him; however, we do not live togther. My boyfriend is fiercly protective of his space- he was ... (312 words)

Torn between love of my life and love for my son... B

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (?) - I have been married for 12 years and then one day, I got an email from the real love of my life that had broken down 15 years earlier. I won't get into why it did not work out then other than to say we were young (early 20's) and careers and location could not be overcome. ... (583 words)

My ex-best friend now confides in the girl who used to be a b*tch to her... How can I move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (F)

- I feel like me and my once called 'best frined' are drifing apart. We are 16 and have been friends for 6 years. Over the time we grow close, particly last year, we became like inseperable. Now just as this new year has started, it feels like we have suddnely been torn apart. I ... (447 words)

How can I show my confusing ex that we should still be friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6656 days ago

20 January 2006 (F)

- My ex boyfriend called me a week ago asking if he could come out and see me to tslk to me. I wondered why he wanted to do this as he had already made it clear he didn't want to be with me. I didn't get my hopes up that he was going to try to get back with me to avoid getting ... (692 words)

Alternative methods of masturbation??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6653 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - can someone tell me alternative methods of mastrobation. i am sick and tired of the conventional method!... (17 words)

Should I tell my good girl buddy that I'm "a gay"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - Dear Cupid, Im in a bit of very hot water. I'm a closet gay, and I am involved secretley,with my man that ha been reassigned to take a project up in another state, no one knows as I pass off as the boy next door that attracts all the lovely girls, and they are attracte... (533 words)

Have I "idealized" my old boyfriend? Should I way for him?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6660 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi! I am in love with two guys. One i've been with for 6 months and i'm sure I was in love with until an old flame who lives abroad showed up. He is away for over a year and I won't be able to see him. The local guy I know i could love but I have always wondered about the ... (84 words)

Is there a good way to get off his email list without sounding like a pathetic, angry, jealous woman?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi all - I need some advice about my ex. We broke up quite a while ago now, many months ago and whilst it was hard at first, things are getting easier and I've dated other people and things are moving on. I feel like i'm pretty much over him. He's now moved quite far ... (296 words)

Any good gift ideas for an aspiring musician?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hey, I love this site because it gives GREAT help and I've posted many other questions too. Besides the point.. Helloo Cupids!, I'm having trouble finding my boyfriend a gift(he's my first boyfriend)..I want to get him one that has meaning. One that will remember me if he ... (158 words)

He says he cares but wants to get his life together...I'm confused!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I have been talking to this guy for 2 months but he says he doesnt want a relationship right now because he wants to get his life together but still wants to keep things between us the same. He says he really cares about me and doesnt want to hurt me!? Im Confused....?... (53 words)

Did he understand what I was telling him in my message? Or did I not understand his reply?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi, I have always like this guy and he's going overseas so I decided to let him know of my feelings. I said I've always cared for him and that I guess he's my only dream that I could never have. But I guess he hasn't interpreted it well or didn't exactly understand what ... (134 words)

He wanted me then her and both of us, now just her...how do I get over this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6661 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - The guy I was dating told me that he was dating another girl and that he needed time to decide what he wanted to do. Then, he told me that he couldn't be without me but he would still date her. However, he just started avoiding me and finally told me that he only wanted to be ... (135 words)

Whenever I can't be with my long-distance guy, he gets unhinged and insecure!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6165 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Need advice. I had been in a long distance relationship with my bf for one year. I travel a lot to visit him, but it seems that every time I depart (back to my hometown) he immediately becomes this insecure guy and wants to break up with me. However, as the week goes by ... (126 words)

My GF likes to give -- but not receive -- oral. I just want to please her like she does me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6468 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - My girlfriend who I've been with for six months acts a little strange about oral sex. She has no problem giving it to me, but she won't let me go down on her. She says it's just nasty. I would like to be able to please her the way she does me. What can I do?... (56 words)

I fancy a friend at work. We're always chatting on email, but he got uncomfortable when I told him I was attracted.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - I recently told a co-worker that I was attracted to him. But let me first explain: We talk a lot about work on the phone and email and sometimes I see him in person. I have told some work related items about some other people and items of importance and he said you can tell me ... (248 words)

I should be happy that she broke up with her boyfriend and can be with me, but I'm so sorry it hurts her...

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (M) - I'm 19 and I met this girl about a year ago and we became really good friends, I liked her straight away but just decided that because she had a boyfriend that nothing would happen. I told her my feelings after about 6 months (couldnt help it), but we both decided that nothing ... (226 words)

I like the same guy that my friend likes. What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6662 days ago

20 January 2006 (F) - Hi...I am a Junior in High School and I am 17 and I like this guy who is 15 and a Freshman in High School! But so does my friend who is in his grade! I don't know what to do! I am friends with him but I want to be more! What do I do??... (56 words)