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writes: Hello. Well, me and my g/f broke up last week. She said that she really wanted to be friends. And me being the nice guy that I am said ok. And so now we are good friends. But I still have a feeling that this relationship will work out for the better. Any sugestions on how to hook back up with her.?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 February 2006): I was in the same situation once, and a friend told me this: "If you let her get to you, then you are not a man."
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reader, Dawnest +, writes (11 January 2006):
Im afraid she is just not into you anymore so "lets be friends" is a kind way of saying it.
There is no way you can recapture the relationship you had and being friends will be the only thing on offer from her side.
Keep in contact by text and phone and she will meet up with you occasionally but dont expect things to get back to as before. Sorry!
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006): Just show her that you are there, continue to catch her when she falls, don't bark back, just understand when she points out things that she doesn't like and let her know that you willing to improve. If you had a relationship once and still keep a close one now, odds are she still wants you some way and doesn't want to close that door completely yet. The same thing happened to me, except I was on the other end. My boyfriend talked to me every day still, listened to my problems and even was sweet enough to say "well I hope he will be better for you then I was . I just want you to be happy." and it broke my heart in two. He really ,even with me going to other guys, sincerely wished me the best while his heart was breaking, and that made me realize these other guys didn't feel that way, he did. So I went back to him and we've been together for a year now.
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