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writes: Dear cupid, i ve been with my boyfriend for 2 years now . We have been friends for 10 years . But im secretly falling for some one eles and hes been wanting me for as long as me and my boyfriend have been dating. we're having a little trouble but nothing that can't be worked out . the problem is i don't feel the same way he does . i don't even want to have sex with him . (he wants that all the time ..but thats a diffent problem ) But me and the other guy we get along great . we like the same things and he getts me all giddy . he makes me feel thing i have never felt before .(thats the frist time anyone has ) but i don't want to hurt the one im with .hes a dear friend .ive tryed to make it more .but failed what should i do ?? should i stay or should i go ?? asnd whats some of problems that may come on either out come?? Reply to this Question
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reader, shania  +, writes (10 January 2006):
 Sometimes you have to be cruel to be kind,it seems obvious to me that you dont want to be with your boyfriend anymore,it has simply ran its course.You are probably trying to hold on to this relationship because you dont want to hurt him and that you have known each other for a good 10 years but who are you kidding? Its best that you end it now rather then dragging it on.If you want to date this other guy then go for it,life is too short for regrets.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 January 2006): hi what i think that you should do is write a list of all the things you like about both of the men. just use words. make a list for both of them and look at which you think are the most important qualiaties of a man and which of these will make you happier. you will then know the answer to your decision and it is just the hard choice of dumping the other one. but at the end of the day think of your own happiness cause life is too short to mess it up when you are young.. god im should take my own advice !
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reader, Purple Thistle +, writes (10 January 2006):
You need to go. It's no good.If you don't "love" your boyfriend anymore, there can be no other course of action.If you don't want to sleep with him anymore then it is definately over.
He will be hurt and devastated, but he will survive. Trust me he will survive. Would you really waste your life, living with a man you didn't love for the rest of your life? You mustn't do it - it would only make you both miserable in time. What a waste of two lives that would be.
You must finish with him. Not because of this other fella'necessarily, but simply because you don't feel as you did, simple really. Take courage and do it - we only have one life, and he will move on in time.
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